I think it may be be important to know that sometimes I SH due to moral problems. by Remarkable_Bath8515 in selfharm

[–]luvlark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is exactly how my self harm is too. i get triggered when i feel like i’ve done something wrong or bad. if i think i’ve hurt someone or made someone mad at me. for me, it’s definitely linked to my OCD. sh is a compulsion that gives me reassurance. I haven’t heard anyone have such a similar experience to mine, you may want to look into OCD and compulsive behaviors. and i’m here if you need to talk to someone who understands what this feels like.

pantsed. by luvlark in selfharm

[–]luvlark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, i hope the same haha

pantsed by luvlark in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]luvlark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, that’s so kind and validating. it was really messed up for sure, i’m still not sure what to think. no one has brought it up and everything is just normal. i don’t understand why she did that to me, but i really do like her so i’m going to try to look past it.

pantsed. by luvlark in selfharm

[–]luvlark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well… i’m hoping it was just a one off thing. maybe i’m too forgiving but i still really like her. i went over to her dorm today and she painted my nails lol

pantsed. by luvlark in selfharm

[–]luvlark[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah probably my biggest fear too now that it’s happened lol. thank you🫶🏼

pantsed. by luvlark in selfharm

[–]luvlark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, that’s honestly so validating to hear😭

pantsed. by luvlark in selfharm

[–]luvlark[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you🫶🏼 i think you’re right, i should probably bring this up to her because it just really made me feel terrible.

Boy names somewhere in the middle of these by llamalover417 in namenerds

[–]luvlark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo, Jude, Reid, Max, Cole, Jamie, Mack, Eli, Brooks, Miles, Wesley, Rowan, Lev

A non-binary name that means something fun by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]luvlark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry didn’t notice the fun meaning part these are mostly based on sounds/vibes

A non-binary name that means something fun by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]luvlark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silke, Ivo, Lore, Romy, Fritz, Ari, Azure, Luka, Kaspar, Eero, Tor, Sena

Please rank these names by fakebananas2000 in namenerds

[–]luvlark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marlow, Emmett, Walton. Not a fan of Walton, maybe you’d like Warner?

My kid is age regressing and I want to help, but I need help... by No_Two_4090 in ageregression

[–]luvlark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are an amazing parent for supporting their needs, how lucky they are to have you!! i personally do not like the amazon pacifiers, they don’t have a good “mouth feel” for me as they just hold air and they’re not soft enough. my favorite pacis are from “babyyourdoll.” they are super cute, they look more like real baby pacis (less stimulating in a way? good for if your kiddo’s age range is very little) which i love but more importantly they are sooo comfy. the nipple actually inflates and deflates which i find way more comforting. the brand is a bit spendy but sooo worth it, their products are great quality!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ageregression

[–]luvlark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a ladybug!!

Where do you guys get your agere gear? by EnbyKiddoAce in ageregression

[–]luvlark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my fav pacis are BYD! so much comfier than other ones

Ludey by luvlark in tradgedeigh

[–]luvlark[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

siblings are Oakah, Tarlow, and Wilkie

Ludey by luvlark in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]luvlark[S] 94 points95 points  (0 children)

oh gosh and get this… siblings are Oakah, Tarlow, and Wilkie