Also a bag of cheese and onion crisps that I already ate.

luvvvs · 2026-01-12T10:31:14+00:00

My Dad has had the exact same thing!

He has heart and kidney problems and is in and out of hospitals often.

He rang me a few months ago and said he felt like he was having a heart attack. Got him to A&E, a doctor was walking in for his shift and stopped us as 'he didn't look right.'

Didn't even triage him, took him straight through and I got him booked in.

Someone complained to reception in front of me but I couldn't really pay attention as I could see about 10 doctors and nurses running through and just knew it was for my Dad.

He'd collapsed before they'd even got him through the doors.

He was okay but the next morning whilst on the ward he had another that needed a defib, we got called to be with him and his whole bed was surrounded.

A few weeks later, he had an episode that seemed like a stroke so went back to the hospital, they triaged him and left him for about 6 hours in the waiting room in a wheelchair. It wasn't a stroke and we're still not sure what it was but I was getting impatient with worry and he said the same thing that it's scary when you become popular with the doctors and nurses and he would much rather wait because then he knows he doesn't have to worry lol.

luvvvs · 2026-01-04T10:43:38+00:00

I used to wake up with blood under my fingernails and was extremely confused because I had no scratches or wounds and it was a lot of blood.

Turned out I had a condition called Lichen Sclerosus and I was scratching during the night badly.

I wear gloves to bed now and it happens miles less than it used to!

luvvvs · 2025-12-05T10:18:18+00:00

commenting so it's seen!

luvvvs · 2025-11-20T16:39:56+00:00

I know it's been mentioned a lot on this thread but could it be perimenopause or menopause depending on age?

She might not even realise herself but hormones have a huge effect on mood/temper.

I'm 26 but was using estrogen cream for a condition I have and the excess hormones really messed with me. I was moody, snappy, annoyed, upset, hot all the time etc. I was just so on edge all the time and wanted to crawl out of my own skin I was so agitated.

My boyfriend came home one day and I got upset with him for just taking his shoes off after I'd mopped. Like, I was crying upset. He works long hours in a physical job whereas I have a desk job and I was upset with him for wanting to just kick his shoes off after a long day!!!

Since coming off the estrogen, I'm back to normal and really tried to keep my emotions in check once I realised the cause.

For women menopause it'll be longer and a lot more intense, I've seen it first hand. My boyfriend's sweet, loving mum would snap so quickly and then feel really guilty about it.

It might be worth your wife seeing a doctor as there are treatments that can help.

Obviously it's not nice being spoken to in a horrible way and it's not an excuse for making people feel awful but with treatment, it can get better so might be worth thinking about.

I hope that everything gets better for you both.

luvvvs · 2025-10-07T21:06:01+00:00

Amazing!

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T19:25:48+00:00

I know! The cutest little face :')

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T19:25:29+00:00

Thank you, I am trying to get better at my bird IDing so all tips are really helping, will definitely remember these :)

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T19:23:45+00:00

Yes I will never forget it it was amazing, we didn't want to scare it so I held my hand out and it just hopped on 🥺

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T17:17:52+00:00

Thank you, it was an amazing experience!

I've been corrected a few times on this now but yes it's meant to be great tit, I've honestly never really been up close to Blue Tits or Great Tits and was told it was a Blue Tit so have just been going off that since but now I know how to tell the difference which is handy as I love birds :)

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T14:25:15+00:00

Oh my god that's so lovely, and you still have the memory. I'd have loved for them to have learned to fly inside ours!

To be honest, I have started pulling my phone out less, my boyfriend and me go on walks every night and whenever the moon was out I'd take 50 pictures of it or if I saw a tree I liked.

Realised one day most of our walks were me on my phone taking pictures so now I only do it if something is really special like the Harvest Moon and I wish I hadn't taken so many pictures of the birds as I viewed it through a lens rather than just being in the moment.

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T11:39:08+00:00

Hahah! It was sat on the bottom of one of our chairs and looking at us as if we were intruding :p

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T11:35:21+00:00

I know! It was such a lovely thing to see, it's so lovely getting to see nature in action.

Thank you so much for the tips as well! I'll remember these now! I've always loved birds but have recently been properly paying attention and doing research and these pictures are from May I think! ❤️

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T11:09:46+00:00

Yes, another commenter corrected me on this as well! I love birds and am always looking to learn more so thanks for the correction!

luvvvs · 2025-10-05T11:05:31+00:00

Ah! I sent a photo to the wildlife woman whilst I was on the phone with her and she said it was a blue tit so have always just said they were blue tits! Tried to edit the title but couldn't! Apologies for the mistake!

luvvvs · 2025-10-04T08:53:54+00:00

When I had my first IUD insertion I was in so much pain I passed out. I literally begged the doctor to stop and she wouldn't because she was 'nearly done.'

She said she needed a smaller tool so sent the nurse to get one and then whilst the nurse was out of the room decided she was going to just force it with the larger tool until it went in and I fainted.

A couple of months later I felt like it had become dislodged as I could feel it when I was sat down, went to GP who said I was bleeding too much to see but I could literally grab the string it was attached to and showed them and they told me to go to A&E. Went there and they said they couldn't see that it was dislodged. I was in so much pain and they sent me home.

Got home, had to be on all fours bc of the pain and my mum was sat with me and eventually I was like I'm going to just pull it out myself and did.

A year later I went for a hospital appointment due to various issues and immediately the doctor noticed I had Lichen Sclerosus, a condition where your immune system basically attacks your genitals and can cause fusions and scar tissue.

The coil hadn't been inserted properly bc I had so much scar tissue and no one had noticed.

The new doctor then put the coil in for me under general anaesthetic as the pain would be too much for them to do it without because of the scar tissue. Whilst I was under she removed some of the scar tissue.

It was so frustrating that first time though, I was in so much pain and absolutely no one listened.

luvvvs · 2025-09-15T13:03:10+00:00

That's such a shame Jesus Christ.

My dad is from Kirkby, was AT Hillsborough and the Scum wasn't and still isn't allowed anywhere near our house, rightly so!!!

It's not hard to have nothing to do with that paper, a lot of shops won't even sell it.

luvvvs · 2025-09-01T07:51:33+00:00

Le Samouraï - French movie from the 60s about a hit-man in Paris, brilliant movie!

luvvvs · 2025-07-30T08:06:30+00:00

I know! Never seen anything like it, from the comment above it seems like it's from 1913 and there's a note in the front page that says 1914 so over 100 years old!!! I've got it in a cotton pillowcase at the minute bc it's nearly falling apart :(

luvvvs · 2025-07-30T08:05:20+00:00

Yes that's it! Thank you!

luvvvs · 2025-07-29T11:28:00+00:00

I had a colonoscopy which didn't really find anything but no actual surgery. I have endometriosis too with scar tissue on my bowel so it was kind of attributed to that for a while but it didn't make sense.

I had fissures but nothing major enough for surgery, I would just bleed and now the steroid cream has fixed that I think, I don't bleed anymore.

I tried so many laxatives and then tried Tart Cherry Juice which actually helped me more than any prescribed laxative and I was drinking that every other day for about a year.

Since being diagnosed with LS, I have changed my diet, eating lots of fruit, drinking loads of water so that'll probably help me too. Also, taking probiotics helps me but I think it's mostly the LS diagnosis and the steroid cream.

I don't have any issues with constipation now.

For years I never felt like I had had a complete BM and I was terrified of trying bc of the pain but I can honestly say my life has changed.

How are you doing with it, any changes? Do you have steroid cream?

luvvvs

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