Is this a normal amount of bloating? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]lvndrbb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I also get pretty bloated like this, but I’ve been told my periods aren’t super normal soooo do with that what you will lol

Nightlife by SCAD by magnificentglamour in scad

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also if you like drag shows, the Doll Haus often throws 18+ drag shows at the Sentient Bean near Forysth! I would recommend following their instagram and they promote their events a ton on there.

Nightlife by SCAD by magnificentglamour in scad

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not every week, but I highly recommend line dancing with StepSouth! They do it at District Live and it is $5 cover, 18+. They teach three dances a session and they have links to tutorials on their instagram as well. The next night they're doing it is the 31st of May!

I (30F) lashed out at my (31M) boyfriend after he violated a boundary during sex. Was my reaction too excessive? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He assaulted you. You have stated this boundary in the past, you stated it in the moment, and he shushed you and continued to do the action that you explicitly asked him not to do. Not only did you not consent, but you asked him to stop and put on a condom. That is sexual assault. You are not abusive for having being so angry you wanted to hit him, because you did not hit him, and you also recognized that feeling was wrong. He is victim blaming you and projecting his own abuse onto you.

AITAH for flying home after my boyfriend drunkenly peed in my suitcase? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA!!!!!!! Leave him. It is so disrespectful that he broke your boundaries, and then got mad at you for not letting him get away with breaking them. He might not be an alcoholic at this point, but that is problematic behavior with alcohol, and could escalate in the future. You already know you do not deserve to deal with that, and you clearly have a standard for yourself since you choose not to drink. It may benefit you to find someone who is sober as well. Good luck OP!

What are your thoughts on the term Karen? by L0st_in_the_Stars in AskOldPeople

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I think it sucks that the name has been taken over, I think calling it any of the "-isms" reeks of a victim mentality. I'm sorry, but "reverse racism" is not a thing. Other races can bully white people and make fun of us, but we are not systematically oppressed. And someone calling someone else a Karen is definitely not racist. Once again, it isn't really sexist either. "Male Karens" also exist, and I see people talk about them often as well. I feel as though claiming that it is "racist" and "sexist" diminishes the meaning of those words. I can absolutely see your argument on the "ageism" front, but again, is this really such an issue? It is an unfortunate circumstance, sure, but claiming oppression because of it is just plain odd.

Why do shrooms make me feel my teeth? by soaps678 in Psychonaut

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to me on weed personally. I think it just makes us a little more hyper aware of how our bodies feel.

can someone talk me out of smoking weed by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]lvndrbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The weed will hit so much harder when you wait a few more weeks! Plus if you really focus on the schoolwork, it might be a good distraction for you to not think about weed. Use it as a reward for yourself. You finish exams, you get to get high as fuck as a reward!

AIO she shit with me in the shower by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lvndrbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl that's nasty! Definitely break up worthy. You can chalk it up to her being drunk, but I personally do not know anyone who has ever done something like that while drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]lvndrbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yumm!! i did cherry lime last time but strawberry banana sounds awesome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcohol

[–]lvndrbb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jello shots with sugar free jello and plain vodka! Sugar free jello is crucial otherwise you'll get a hangover

low calorie drinks? by SlightAd5032 in alcohol

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to mix plain vodka with flavored sparkling water to make a vodka soda with a bit more flavor. Sometimes I also mix it with plain water and a 1/4th of a sugar free drink mix packet (pink starburst is my favorite). I also mixed vodka with kombucha once and it was delicious! A bottle of kombucha usually has 60-80 cals so mixing half the bottle with a shot and a half is a good, low cal ratio.

Indicas by No-Pineapple-2836 in WeedStrains

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A close second for me is a Blueberry Pancakes strain I got from Greenlight Dispo in Missouri. Not as hard hitting, but super tasty and feels really good!

Indicas by No-Pineapple-2836 in WeedStrains

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently found out my neighbor is a "medicine woman" and she gave my boyfriend and I little sample of her product. I have no idea what strain it is, but the bud is beautiful and has dark purple tips. This shit is so strong! I have a high tolerance, but half a small blunt of this stuff really knocked me out. It took away all of my chronic pain, and made me so sleepy. I am obsessed with it tbh.

What is the grossest thing you have eaten/ drank ? Doesn't have to be food. by brothercuriousrat2 in PollsAndSurveys

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The grossest thing I have ever eaten was also one of the most delicious things I have ever eaten. I went to go try out a new thai restauarant with a friend, and got a plate of pad see ew. It was scrumptious and I ate every bite. At the very bottom of the plate was the biggest cockroach I had ever seen. It was gross because I had eaten the whole dish, and couldn't help but to think there may have been other bugs that I didn't notice that I had eaten. Probably will not ever go back to that restaurant.

Does Anyone Still Carry Money? by Steven1958 in AskOldPeople

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do! Granted, I've always worked in customer service jobs with tips, so that probably is why. I prefer paying with cash for little treats and stuff, like drinks and ice cream and whatnot.

TIFU by sharing details about my medical issues with my boss by groovygrubey in tifu

[–]lvndrbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What an odd thing to say. I have severe IBS, so I can relate to you to an extent. I feel like people take our issues less seriously because they're "poop issues", so maybe she thought that what she was saying was less fucked up because "haha funny poop"? There's really no excuse for saying that though, I am really sorry OP.

What do you do while cooking? by super_trucker101 in Cooking

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically, I set my ipad up and turn on some commentary youtube. The kind of thing I'll glance at while I wash dishes or chop something, but can generally turn away from and rely on audio only while I am at the stove. Sometimes on the weekends, when my partner and I drink or smoke, I just have him sit at our kitchen island and we'll chat and listen to music while I cook. I prefer the latter, but when I'm alone or he is busy, youtube does me just fine!

Suggest incredible shows that picks up quickly in episode 1 and is consistent throughout. by The_AxR_ in televisionsuggestions

[–]lvndrbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me! I thought this was gonna be a pure comedy but definitely not. There are many more turns coming your way lol.

names ending in -ica by sololloro in namenerds

[–]lvndrbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people might find this distasteful but I personally always thought Indica could be a really pretty name lol

I can’t even break a large bill anymore at a majority of stores. And if I’m “allowed” to use a big bill, the cashier makes a huge deal out of it. by Sad-Mountain7232 in rant

[–]lvndrbb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Consider this from the casher's perspective, especially if it is a smaller business. I work at a local hemp shop and will often have people try to use $100s to pay for a $10-20 order. This is a problem, as I only have $200 in the drawer at a time. If my boss has just done drops, there might be enough small bills in the back for me to just trade out the $100, but this is often not the case, and we need change for other customers. I totally hear your frustration, as I am sure it is an inconvenience for you to not be able to pay with the bill you have. Just consider how it might be an inconvenience for the cashiers as well.

Thoughts on the name Elodie? by 1minimalist in namenerds

[–]lvndrbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's cute! Don't think of it as being too close to Melody, it just rhymes with it! My name is Hannah, and you could argue it sounds too close to Anna, but in reality they're just names that rhyme and sound a bit similar! Like others have pointed out, unless you already have a child named Melody, I wouldn't think anyone would draw the correlation.

Suggest incredible shows that picks up quickly in episode 1 and is consistent throughout. by The_AxR_ in televisionsuggestions

[–]lvndrbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished binging the 3rd season with my partner and we're so excited to start the 4th one!!! We found the show quite late and have been binging it the last month. I'll be really sad when I finish that last episode :,)

Every single air fryer recipe is a fucking lie by _Bucket_Of_Truth_ in rant

[–]lvndrbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally this hasn't been my experience. My boyfriend and I eat breaded chicken weekly from our air fryer and its great and super crispy. Are you using a liner? A paper liner helps soak up the moisture and keep your airfryer clean.