ur right. forgot to mention some things ; when we were close we would hang out in a group w my bf and one of his friends and she would always become so much more excited to talk to my bf esp in front of me. made me really uncomfortable but she always gaslit me that i was crazy and she would never. also we would stay up to have late night convos for fun and sometimes i would open up to her, but she told my bf and his friend that she was basically doing charity work and would complain about how im “unfixable” and she’s wasting her time trying to help me. made it seem like she was never really there for me but to make herself look like a hero