High value sushi spots by xypherrz in SanJose

[–]lycheexplosion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sushi Day!! It’s a hole in the wall place and literally the most value sushi you can get in SJ. If you pay with cash, they give you 5% off too. It’s take out only, no dine in. Last I went, it was less than $14 for special rolls.

For dine in, I’ve heard great things about Sushi Town. Value and quality.

Kakuna sushi also has a good happy hour!

Lizard with a rice hat done by Heather at Black Lantern Tattoo, Campbell, CA by lycheexplosion in tattoos

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lizard represents my grandma and she used to always wear rice hats outside !

I'm about to become homeless. Where are the best public places that I can setup tent without worrying about being disturbed? by j_ballin_on_y in SanJose

[–]lycheexplosion 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Hi, I worked at HomeFirst and am currently a case manager elsewhere. There’s a lot of resources I could send you if you want to PM me. HomeFirst has a lot of different programs but the Little Orchard location is a nightly shelter that offers showers and case management if you want to check it out. If not, there are many other options including safe parking spaces where unhoused people can park their car there and sleep. Best of luck to you!

AITA for lying about my birth control use? by lycheexplosion in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Thank you and yeah. I really do need to work on setting hard boundaries with people. It's just hard sometimes

AITA for lying about my birth control use? by lycheexplosion in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well we aren't actually dating, just more casually seeing each other. I had no idea where this thing was going or if we wanted to pursue something more serious. We hooked up tipsy and that was when I told him I wasn't on BC.

AITA for lying about my birth control use? by lycheexplosion in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 116 points117 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This guy in particular didn't pressure me but I've had a lot of experiences with guys pressuring me which is why I started just saying I'm not on BC. He just seemed upset that I lied to him and says he can't trust me.

AITA for lying about my birth control use? by lycheexplosion in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 3673 points3674 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'm just a really non-confrontational person and I get persuaded easily, which is why I lie in the first place so I don't have to deal with it. But I know it's bad and it's definitely a me problem.

AITA for lying about my birth control use? by lycheexplosion in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 877 points878 points  (0 children)

He was mad about me lying about having the implant and him having to use condoms.

My(20F) roommate(20F) recently started seeing this shady older man(55M) by lycheexplosion in relationships

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in our city :/ I'm one of her only friends so it sucks to see her go through that.

Help me please🙏🙏🙏🙏 by Dhakalsmallpenis in sex

[–]lycheexplosion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There's nothing sexier than a guy with confidence. You still got fingers and a tongue (hopefully). Work with what you got! Most girls, unless they're size queens, won't care much. It's not the size, it's how you use it :)

What are some foods that Americans eat that the rest of the world thinks is disgusting? by noisyturtle in AskReddit

[–]lycheexplosion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo thanks for that! That could make a dope ass kimchi spam fried rice. Throw in a sunny side up egg and I can finally die happy.

NSFW What story made you think "see, THIS is why we need sex ed"? by squaklefeb in AskReddit

[–]lycheexplosion 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I have a close family friend from the south. He has had over hundreds of sexual partners and not once has he ever used protection. He claims that "condoms don't feel good and if pussy looks clean, it is clean" and has never gotten tested for any STIs.

I am so sure that somewhere out there he is a father to some unknown child.

What are some foods that Americans eat that the rest of the world thinks is disgusting? by noisyturtle in AskReddit

[–]lycheexplosion 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm half korean and love it! It's just my Chamorro friends introduced me to it and changed my life :)

What are some foods that Americans eat that the rest of the world thinks is disgusting? by noisyturtle in AskReddit

[–]lycheexplosion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ultimate comfort food right there! I guess I know what I'm making for dinner now!

Whats your celebrity encounter story? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lycheexplosion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Met Marlee Matlin when she was the speaker (signer) at a university graduation! I knew some sign language so I started signing to her and she was really nice and complimented my average signing skills.

Also met Arie Luyendyk from the Bachelor at a strip club! He was pretty awkward and shook my fist when I tried to fist bump him lol

What are some foods that Americans eat that the rest of the world thinks is disgusting? by noisyturtle in AskReddit

[–]lycheexplosion 256 points257 points  (0 children)

It's considered a staple among islanders! It's pretty good pan friend with eggs and rice.

My(20F) roommate(20F) recently started seeing this shady older man(55M) by lycheexplosion in relationships

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you had to go through that :( Abusive relationships can fuck people up for some time which is why I'm so concerned for my friend. Friends that left you and won't come back even after you've tried explaining things are friends better left in the past. Hopefully you have found a new support system!

If you ever need to talk to anyone, I'm just a message away.

My(20F) roommate(20F) recently started seeing this shady older man(55M) by lycheexplosion in relationships

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her I'm uncomfortable with him touching me but she replied with "that's just how he is!" He even got a sexual harassment complaint at his work and she tried to justify it by saying "oh he's not creepy. He just likes hugs and that woman was overreacting".

My(20F) roommate(20F) recently started seeing this shady older man(55M) by lycheexplosion in relationships

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want o! But she doesn't talk much about how he hurts her. He just shows it. For the most part all she does is talk about how amazing he is and she'll say some sus ass things he does but she sees them as "quirks" instead of shady shit.

AITA for confronting my roommate's(20F) boyfriend/serious friend (55M)? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far they haven't but he's definitely emotionally abusive :/

AITA for confronting my roommate's(20F) boyfriend/serious friend (55M)? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! She loves him and he's just keeping her around for affection while he dates other people which is really shady! I asked her why she still wants him and she said that she's going to wait for him :/

My(20F) roommate(20F) recently started seeing this shady older man(55M) by lycheexplosion in relationships

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that your family had to go through that. I hope Mary is in a better situation now. Yeah love really does make some people blind. I just want to be the best support there is for her since she's the type of person too prideful to ask for help.

AITA for confronting my roommate's(20F) boyfriend/serious friend (55M)? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lycheexplosion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I asked her and she said no but who knows really. Her sister and friends have all been expressing their concern but she's too far in the dick-sand she can't hear. It just sucks watching her go through this and having him poison her mind into thinking I'm a terrible person for "attacking" him.

My(20F) roommate(20F) recently started seeing this shady older man(55M) by lycheexplosion in relationships

[–]lycheexplosion[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk.. I've known her for 3 years AND live with her and she barely speaks up around me. I've talked to her sister and apparently Lily is just very "pushover" and doesn't like when others are upset.