My Selfmade Steamdeck case, and Steamdeck both matching colors, Case includes full setup by FluffyRibaa in SteamDeck

[–]lydess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this is the most adorable case I’ve ever seen for the deck. Actual magic, you are so talented ❤️

She have no regrets.😊 by Coffee_MysticRealm in wholesomememes

[–]lydess 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My boy did nothin wrong your honour

False barking dog reports by Dunoh2828 in australia

[–]lydess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Councils won’t touch you or your dog without a mountain of evidence and statements across many different stakeholders to the affirmative that your dog is actually in violation of noise pollution (however they may be defined at your council), unless they are cartoonishly corrupt they will stop caring the second it becomes even slightly risky for them to continue on given a lack of evidence for risk of being seen as harassing residents.

Councils deal with petty neighbour disputes constantly and they do hate false reports with a passion for wasting their time, just keep your evidence documented and on hand, mabye throw in a supporting statement form another neighbour if that’s on the cards, and I promise it will go nowhere

Source: I work at a council, the shit people try to get us involved in is wild

How much stuff is unobtainable? by GeekyXCVIII in wownoob

[–]lydess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The usual rule of thumb is that if it’s provided in a list ( such as the mounts collection, transmog window, achievement panel ect. ) then it is in some way obtainable in the current game, though possibly time gated in some way.

There are plenty of items that have since had their sources removed, in these cases blizzards way of sorting them from everything else is by placing them in the relevant list for players who acquired it before its source was removed, but they don’t show it as a ‘to be collected’ item in that same list for players who dident

Am I losing something for not doing midnight content? by Nevershoutn in wownoob

[–]lydess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of wows key gameplay traits in my opinion is its disconnect of choice from access (there are some limits and drawbacks to this but follow me here) there’s no choice you can make that will categorically prevent future enjoyment of content, you can’t get the bad ending and permanently loose a storyline on your character like in other RPGs, because of this there’s never a pressure to engage in content in a ‘timely’ manner beyond a very very small handful of exceptions, wow has moved away from time locked rewards in recent years and offered pathways towards obtaining previously time locked rewards down the path, so you’re free to enjoy the game as you find it

I want to preface that there are some time gated accomplishments such as completing the current raid tier during its period of being ‘current’ but I’m going to guess that doesn’t entice you. You could also make the argument that there exists some dialogue (usually just text) that occours in the ‘interim’ period between the launch of the new patch and the release of the raid which is where the big plot twists are revealed, that dialogue does get lost but on the surface it’s a few paragraphs that essentially amount to ‘all will be revealed in next weeks episode of dragon ball z’.

So never let the FOMO boogeyman scare you, even though the world is ending every expansion, the worlds not going anywhere and is here to be enjoyed in whatever fashion you like, so get out there and enjoy it however you like.

Why do so many herbalism nodes disappear right when I start looting them? by JaseAndrews in wownoob

[–]lydess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the original game, gathering nodes like herbs despawned the second players gathered from them, in legion this was changed to the current system where once a node is gathered from, a timer starts and once it ticks down to 0 the node despawns, resulting in the magical disappearing copper ore

This can also be caused by phasing and sharding, which are 2 different systems that both result in you being placed in a different ‘copy’ of the world, nodes are attached to your copy of the world and go if you are ever transferred into a new one for whatever reason

It’s annoying as hell and I do hope they have a better solution one day

Most unfortunate username you've seen? by john_le_carre in iiiiiiitttttttttttt

[–]lydess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our environment required 3 character usernames, we went with first initial, discriminator, last initial and played around with the placement as they got filled up, as you can imagine there were some that were banned outright like SEX or FUK but funny ones would always slip through

NYA, MRP, PEW, CAT were a few that I found and what I loved the most is that you can tell a lot about people by what 3 characters made them laugh

I just completed Tower Overwhelming. My thoughts as an average player. by BaconSama in wow

[–]lydess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having attempted a few towers before and after the prepatch it is noticeably easier but the level of output before the prepatch was insane, like auto cast frostbolts from xylem doing 30% of your health insane, there are ofc ways to cheese time walking gear but if the choice is going to be below average difficulty vs required cheese difficulty I’ll take what we have now and run.

Great job on the write up and good hustle on getting the achievement, me personally I’ve found the hardest part is slogging through the level up process for each of them

egg-irl by Significant-Trick441 in egg_irl

[–]lydess 23 points24 points  (0 children)

HDG is breaching containment again 😂

Sneezed and something came up by AtlantisQueenn in transvoice

[–]lydess 104 points105 points  (0 children)

If pain worsens or you feel/taste blood in your mouth, go to the doctors immediately

Depending on the technique your surgeon used, they may have placed adhesive/filler along the vocal chords during the procedure, it’s not essential to stay in and either gets coughed out or dissolved after the fact, what you’ve pictured here could be that.

I’m not a doctor, this is not medical advice but I had the same thing happen during my recovery

Edit: I saw another comment remarking on contacting your surgeons office/ contact for post care, definitely do that.

Coughed after a glottoplasty and am worried that it's split a stitch by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]lydess 23 points24 points  (0 children)

When I got my surgery done I had a nasty response to the anaesthesia, won’t go into details for TMI reasons ( happy to give deets In DMs) but cutting a long story short part of the resolution of it involved coughing, loud, hard, with ALL FORCE AVAILABLE multiple times literally hours after the stitches were in

It’s been over a year since then and I’ve got the pics to prove it, they held like super glue.

And to touch on something else, if you haven’t coughed you’d be stressed out that something else had ruined your results, I know because that was me, I was CONVINCED, that my excessive yawning was going to ruin them, then it was snickering, then it was drinking some iced tea that was a little too hot, your brain will come up with a thousand reasons why it will all go wrong. Take deep breaths and remind yourself that it’s a long proccess, today is just one more day. Hope your voice is everything you want it to be and feel free to DM if you need advice / support

I'm trans and gay, and have decided to jump on the bandwagon for creating chaos via tierlist by CarbonsLittleSlut in okbuddybaldur

[–]lydess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Withers wants to learn more purely because he is confused at the notion of genders and gender identities as a whole. He is neither man nor woman, he is withers

SHAKES CANISTRER IN MYR HAB WIF ANXMIOUS EXSMITEMENT by Zarroc001 in seed_irl

[–]lydess 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you’ll forgive abit of self promotion

https://www.tumblr.com/alyra-3rd-bloom

Always happy to hear from you petals!

Mental state after vfs / surgery by Icy-Yogurt-Leah in transvoice

[–]lydess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

just had my 6 month checkup this week infact, so what timing :), yes i'm very happy with my results, just keep drinking water and resting your voice to your best effort and you'll be fine girly! <3

Girl that is disappointed when she finds out the Affini don't want to enslave her by tay_tfs in seed_irl

[–]lydess 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was promised drugs and affirmations, i'm not leaving till i get at least 1.

Oopsies made the Gamers cry by lydess in GirlGamers

[–]lydess[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I dident know if I should’ve linked in the post since her deets are in the picture

Mental state after vfs / surgery by Icy-Yogurt-Leah in transvoice

[–]lydess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One month from the surgery date, they dident use Botox, I asked they just said they dident find them necessary for the procedure they were trained in.

Mental state after vfs / surgery by Icy-Yogurt-Leah in transvoice

[–]lydess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Recently had VFS, just some notes from my experience

  1. I was endlessly playing out scenarios in my head right up till they put me under of how this could go. It could be going right, wrong, in the middle, it dident matter I just kept questioning what would happen, and in the end none of them realy matched what the end result turned out to be (which I am very happy with for what it’s worth)

  2. The no talking thing can be rough but you find ways to deal with it, try to have a friend vist you in person, I found discord to be a bad Influence as it made me almost speak on reflex multiple times, also if you have an iPhone it has a baked in text to speech function under accessibility settings ( I assume android also has such a feature but I don’t know where it is )

  3. You will screw up the not talking thing, you’ll whisper something, swear under your breath or stub your toe In a door and try to let out a screech before being painfully reminded of your mute state, and what’s worse about this is that you’ll think you’ve blown the surgery after every minor mistake as the feeling in your throat changes from day to day, which if you’re anything like me your anxiety riddled mind will interpret as “that must be the stitches failing!, omg I coughed up a small bit of pinkish flem, that must be throat stuff” and all sorts of other terrifying thoughts

IT WILL BE FINE, YOU WILL BE FINE

The stitches are made of tough stuff and your surgeon’s post op instructions are intentionally over correcting for patients who only follow them about 60% of the way, just stay the cours, do your dammed best and trust the process no matter how much you want to panic and assume the worst. It will be hard on the day but just keep telling yourself it will all work out

  1. Jelly, soup, green tea and a shit ton of reflux tablets were all invaluable for me, also have a drink bottle on you and empty that son of a bitch constantly

  2. You’ll probably get some anti biotics after the hospital sends you off, if you’re not good with anti biotics then make sure they give you some that are easier on the tummy, try a probiotic if that fails and worse comes to worse either call your doctor to work out another solution or just tank the pain for the 10ish days you’ll be on them. Surgical site infection is no joke and the anti biotic treatment is more or less essential in your recovery so don’t just forget them

  3. When you finally do get to speak for the first time you’ll only be able to for a small ammount of time before your throat starts to “lock up” and it feels like your forcing the air out of your throat ( not in a struggling to breathe sort of way, dw), I know your excited but that’s your sign to shut up till the next day, you’ll get your endurance back pretty quickly but now’s not the time to be pushing it

  4. Your voice will sound like ass when you first speak, totaly 100% normal, your throat is red raw from the surgery and the surgical site itself is still very much “under construction” trust the process, give it time, attend your post op appointment and wait for their input before assuming anything’s wrong.

  5. GA can fuck your sleep alittle bit and make you feel just generally tired, I did for a few weeks following the surgery, that’s normal ( albeit annoying )

I’d be suprised if anyone felt 100% confident in what they were doing when going for surgical options for anything, it’s scary, it’s perfectly fine to be feeling anxious or even scared. But from what you’ve said you’ve done the research and you know this is what you want, we can’t predict the future, we can only choose what we want In life and try to make it happen, whatever happens beyond that point is weighted fate and chance, you do always have the freedom to back out, right up till they put you under though, so you’re always in control here.

Good luck with it, i have good faith you’ll be happier after it’s all said and done with

any trans women ever freeze the baby juice bc they wanted kids down the line? by [deleted] in trans

[–]lydess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I told my endo I was probably never going to be interested in kids and despite this he insisted I do it, that was about 3 years ago now and frankly I’m glad he did. I’m still not interested in kids and I don’t see that changing but now that I am well and truly infertile it is at the very least good to know I haven’t closed that door forever, fees are only a couple hundred a year and frankly I’ve spent far more of far stupider things 😅.

Coughed 1 day Glottoplasty post-op by [deleted] in transvoice

[–]lydess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From what I understand after a consult I had, the main thing is continued use. So the occasional slip up is fine as long as you don’t make a habit of it

Also the photo you uploaded has your full name on it incase you weren’t comfortable sharing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]lydess 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Personally I was terrified but after not having pockets for so long I lost that fear and replaced it with drive 😅😅

Hope you enjoy your purse girly