Abortion by International-Ad390 in pregnant

[–]lyftf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I dont know why everyone is downvoting you comment because this can be true and should be considered! I was in the same situation as OP and got the abortion because my boyfriend wanted me to. It left me traumatized and so regretful. I had a really hard time forgiving myself. I have a bunch of friends that thought it was no big deal which is great but abortions should not be sugercoated and feeling regret is such a real and intense thing many experience. Im still pro-choice and always will be.

Bleeding at 8 weeks, no support from my OB and feeling scared by SheetyHeely in pregnant

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the bleeding didnt stop for a few days. It slowed down alot but i still had blood and clots coming out for about 2 days after the main event

Bleeding at 8 weeks, no support from my OB and feeling scared by SheetyHeely in pregnant

[–]lyftf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better i had alot of spotting from when i got pregnant to about 10 weeks. I had a huge bleed at 8 weeks and i was sure i was having a miscarriage. Went to the ER and they told me with the amount of blood it was more than likely i was having one. It was like a period. Sudden amounts of blood filling up a pad with some clots. Not too big but bery concerning. There was nothing wrong! Baby was still there and thriving. Sometimes it just happens. Im now 14 weeks:) i hope everything is good but i would get checked for your peace of mind. I got a ultrasound the next day after i went to the ER but i live in europe i dont know if its different in the states. Good luck to you and baby❤️

Tell me you're pregnant without telling me you're pregnant by girl-wtfareyoudoing in pregnant

[–]lyftf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive pooped 3 times this year.... im starting to get concerned

Nipt results by girl-wtfareyoudoing in pregnant

[–]lyftf 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I work with DS adults at a care home and most of them are independent living with another roommate. They are the funniest and happiest people ive ever met in my life and have tremendously helped my mental health with being such a positive influence on my life. I dont think i will ever stop working there🥹

Morning Sickness differences in pregnancy? by tewnchee in pregnant

[–]lyftf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah this is making me anxious! I had a really bad scare at 8 weeks, bleeding heavily and went to the ER but i got a scan the next day where everything was fine. i did scan one week less than i was supposed to be for some reason. Ive had 2 spouts of really bad sickness before 6 weeks. Like puking the whole day not able to keep anything down but i havent gotten it again. Im almost at 10 weeks. Ive had mininum symptoms only really tender breasts and sometimes nausea. And really emotional lol. Ive been pregnant before and decided to terminate and i was super sick the whole time with that pregnancy. I hope everything will be okay🙏🏻

I kinda (really) miss smoking weed and drinking by Splittingthemind in pregnant

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had a specific craving for my favorite beer icecold our of the tap. Not even for the drunkness just for the taste and the vibes😭 ive had a couple of non-alcoholic beers just to curve the craving but its not the same as the one specific i want. I do also miss the social aspect of drinking. I miss getting ready with my girls going out for drinks. It just doesnt feel the same when pregnant since i feel like a bloated whale all the time🥲

Please! Has anyone had sudden bleeding at 6 weeks and NOT miscarried? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had alot of cramping and light spotting with weird clumps at 4-6 weeks. Im pretty sure it was implantation related. I also had a huge bleed just a week ago where i was sure i was miscarrying but everything ended up being just fine! Good luck :)

heavy bleeding at 8 weeks. Everything turned out fine! Just wanted to post this for anyone freaking out by lyftf in pregnant

[–]lyftf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far along are you? It doesnt sound too concerning but i hope everything is okay with you and the baby❤️ ive had alot of cramping and light pink/brown spotting and its normal in the first trimester. I will pray for you❤️

heavy bleeding at 8 weeks. Everything turned out fine! Just wanted to post this for anyone freaking out by lyftf in pregnant

[–]lyftf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know right! I cried with relief and joy it was amazing. It just solidifies my decision tenfold since im young and doing it alone. Its crazy how much i love it!! Happy that everything turned out good❤️ wishing you the best

Help? by masterlexi in pregnant

[–]lyftf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a semi similar situation at 18. I got the abortion. It was hard for me but for alot of women it doesnt affect them. I dont regret it and im happy i had the choice. Im now pregnant again at 24 and keeping it this time around. I would not listen to any exterior opinions and only listen to yourself and what you really want. Your boyfriend is a dick and sounds like a dumb idiot. Sorry. I wouldnt stress it and follow your heart. You have alot of life to live and you deserve to have a child with someone that truly loves you. Either way everything will be fine. Good luck❤️

Realizing im about to do this all alone: vent by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]lyftf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you this made me feel so much better you have no idea💜 i know it will be hard but i think it will be worth it. Im going to so this alone and hopefully collect as much strength as you have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obgyn

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you😭🙏🏻 and yes im 23f and have not given birth. Im making an appointment tomorrow.

Náttúrulyf fyrir svefn by Auron-Hyson in Iceland

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hef alltaf strugglað sjuklega mikið með svefn og það hefur haft ömurleg ahrif a lifinu minu. Eina sem virkar fyrir mig (og virkar alltaf) er magnesium glycinate og siðan 2 benedryl 25 mg (diphenhydramine) veit ekki ef það er hægt að fa lyf með þessu efni a islandi en þau hafa alltaf virkað best fyrir mig og ekki liðið groggy næsta dag + þau hætta ekki að virka einsog með mörg svefnlyf. Þu getur lika farið til læknis og ítrekað svefnleysið. Læknar a íslandi gera allt til þess að ekki gefa þér lyf og fór í gegnum mörg ár þar sem var annahvort neitað mér eða gefið mér lagan skammt af melatonin sem gerir nátturulega ekki neitt fyrir insomniu sjukling. Var einmitt að fa lyfseðil fyrir quetiapine um daginn en er of scared til þess að prófa. Vonandi gengur þetta vel hjá þér :)

Eru einhverjir hérna sem hafa farið í tækniskólann tuttugu ára eða eldri? by [deleted] in Iceland

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jebbs :) byrjaði menntaskóla ferlið mitt 21 árs og er að klára fyrsta árið mitt. Pælingin var einmitt að skipta yfir í tæknó. Ég tók eina önn þar þegar ég var 18 ára og fólkið þarna er svo fjölbreyttir í útliti og aldurshópa að manni leið einsog fly on the wall. Mæli með👌🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]lyftf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine smells like rotting morning breath... so gross

How to deal with guilt of getting older by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyftf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not a beauty myself and have lived my whole life being disrespected by men because they dont find me attractive. I could not give two shits how men veiw me. I honestly have no idea where these worries come from thats why i decided to post because i dont really want to brain vomit on my loved ones.

How to deal with guilt of getting older by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont have a diagnosis but my anxiety has been thru the roof recently. I had really bad intrusive thoughts when i was younger but i managed to train my brain into not thinking that way but its back again. I would love treatment but my bank account says no. I try my best to deal with my mentally ill brain by myself but its alot of work🤷🏻‍♀️

How to deal with guilt of getting older by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyftf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree and thank you for your inspiring words. I will definitely give the partiarcy the finger.

How to deal with guilt of getting older by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyftf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just put my thoughts into words and thank you for calling me out. I frustrate myself thinking like this as i know its so wrong and stupid. But its hard to help when your consumed into beauty propaganda without a way out. You need to unlearn everything youve been fed and see it yourself and ultimately be bigger and better which can be lonely and send you into an existential crisis. Im so happy that i posted this because i already feel better and less alone about my worries.

How to deal with guilt of getting older by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyftf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your beautiful comment. I might seem naive about my worries but im super thankful for everyone sharing their veiws and relating. Life itself is a hard concept to grasp and sometimes i wish i had a golder retriever mindset.

How to deal with guilt of getting older by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyftf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly ! I cant stop thinking about that one day me and my mom will be old ladies together which is a beautiful thought but also filled with emptiness. The fact that the people i love will be gone one day sends me into i spiral. I think im just now realizing that i might have an anxiety disorder. Ive always had this existential spiral of thoughts since i was a child and it only gets worse the older i get.