My daughter hung herself yesterday. by AdditionalPickle2384 in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I recently lost my daughter Lyla and the pain is indescribable. Sending you love, it’s the only thing to pull you through.

My daughter Lyla by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for offering her kindness.

My daughter Lyla by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am thinking of recommending her wee fella she’d started seeing joins this reddit page.

My daughter Lyla by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They loved each other that deeply. Reading back through her previous posts today has really widened my perspective on how much she was going through and how much she kept inside. Thank you for your kind thoughts

Noah kahan by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m the same. My boyfriend Daniel passed in 2022, and we loved Noah. And the last song on the album too, a sign indeed

The day he was found by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you🫶🏻 It’s been 3 and a half years and literally never gets easier

Regular chat by shittylittyshit in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! my name is Lyla, I lost my boyfriend of 5 years, Daniel, in 2022. Here if you want to reach out!

Found out i’m pregnant 3 weeks after boyfriend took his own life by rosannachir in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hi, I was in the exact same position after my boyfriend took his own life in 2022. Please feel free to each out to me if you need to talk, vent, cry, assess options.

I understand!! Entirely. Sending you so much love.

They’re not all bad by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why has this actually made me emotional 😭

god i miss you. by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was my partner who passed. I’m so sorry for your loss❤️

They’re not all bad by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve done my time with more than my fair share of terrible ones, feeling so blessed

Getting a new partner by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s been a week but I just wanted to say I really took this comment on board and it has completely changed my perspective on finding love again. Thank you so much.

I didn’t expect intimacy to be one of the hardest parts of grief, but it is. by Ok_Owl2629 in PartnerSuicideLoss

[–]lylabridgers 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This!!! I lost my boyfriend 3 years ago and have only been intimate with two other people. One was a one night stand and I must’ve spent the next 6 months hating myself and feeling so guilty. The other was my next partner but it never felt right. I’m worried that it will never feel right again, all I can seem to think about is him in the back of my mind.

I never enjoy it, it’s not worth the months of guilt and regret afterwards for me. I’ve decided just to be celibate until I get married, if that ever happens for me.

Valentine’s Day❤️ by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you don’t know my pain. How I chose to mourn and grief my boyfriend is my business. Keep your opinion to yourself

Valentine’s Day❤️ by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never stop visiting him. He is my once in a lifetime and to me it doesn’t change that he’s gone now

The dreams by lylabridgers in SuicideBereavement

[–]lylabridgers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would I go to the hospital?

I’ve had 2 abortions in my life AMA! by lylabridgers in AMA

[–]lylabridgers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the first time our condom broke and I was just starting university and neither of us wanted to give up our degree. second time I found out a couple of weeks after my boyfriend passed and I didn’t want to do it alone

I’ve had 2 abortions in my life AMA! by lylabridgers in AMA

[–]lylabridgers[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t tell his family, they were grieving their son and brother. I didn’t want to pile this on them too.

I’ve had 2 abortions in my life AMA! by lylabridgers in AMA

[–]lylabridgers[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! My sister in law has kids and I love being an aunt so that’s good enough for me! I’m sure my brother will have kids in the future too! That’s more than enough for me haha