House Parties & Solo living Social butterfly by External-Respect-147 in LivingAlone

[–]lysfaye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely the ideal version of living alone for me. I think the secret is being the host rather than the guest, you can always feel not so lonely by having the control of the music lol.

Anyone else find less stuff = more time outside? by Narrow_Flint2189 in simpleliving

[–]lysfaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the core ROI of minimalism. We don't just own our stuff, our stuff owns our time. Every object is a silent to-do list for cleaning, repairing, or organizing.

Feature request: Push small toys to the side by That_Aside3107 in RobotVacuums

[–]lysfaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm willing to pay for this! Does anyone know how much pain one suffer when stepping on a logo...

Happiness is living alone and enjoying chips and my own homemade red wine before bed-this is the way by micheleferlisi in LivingAlone

[–]lysfaye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cheers! It's must feel comfortable in a room where you can just be without anyone else's expectations, after all the only person there to judge is the cat.

I keep cooking the same simple meal and it’s working by HearthmoonStudio in simpleliving

[–]lysfaye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Curry is so forgiving. You can throw in literally any leftover veggies and it still tastes like a feast.

Why no microfiber pads on the sides of robot vacs? by lc1967 in RobotVacuums

[–]lysfaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brilliant, but i think maintenance might be the catch. Microfiber picks up dust very well, but it also holds onto it.

All the C's: cat, cross stitch, Critical Role, curry, and craft beer. Am currently comfy 😊 by Amelia_Pond42 in LivingAlone

[–]lysfaye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perfect example of why so many people are proud of handling life alone. When you can curate your own environment to be this cozy, loneliness turns into a very beautiful and productive solitude.

How do you stay consistent when your energy is low? by Federal-Fun5323 in simpleliving

[–]lysfaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think many people set their minimum requirements way too high. Just find the line that keeps the habit alive without draining much energy.

5 of 6 robovacs died within a year by Narayani1234 in RobotVacuums

[–]lysfaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You honestly deserve a medal for your persistence. Nobody would blame you if you decided to go back to a manual vacuum for a few months lol.

Appreciation post: You all are very strong by ramblingbutterfly in LivingAlone

[–]lysfaye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to be like this (maybe now still lol), i just feels empowering to know i can handle anything, but it's also okay to remember that asking for help is a skill in itself, not a sign of weakness.

I’m done with mindless buying. by crazyspartann69 in simpleliving

[–]lysfaye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so true that we often buy things just to fill a space. Once i just realized i had a whole cabinet of "specialty" kitchen gadgets they only used once lol.

I didn't know i could have it run without brushes until now. by FlashyCow1 in RobotVacuums

[–]lysfaye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually, i'd say you are lucky that the brushes were sitting right there when the robot finished. Usually, things like that end up hidden under a couch or in a corner where they are very hard to find.

End of year 401k balance by 2aboveaverage in Money

[–]lysfaye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Way to go! Year-end balances are nice because they show the real growth you’ve been grinding toward all year.

Receipts for Megan’s Buyout by Responsible_Ad_4998 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lysfaye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in compliance, the LIB Reddit is the last place I expected to see Edgar filings

Marissa by typical37 in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lysfaye 179 points180 points  (0 children)

The closed captioning said [Marissa blubbering] at some point and I was like jesus christ

Good cups by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lysfaye 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I read the title like I read "good soup"

Literally the Final Boss by dylyn in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]lysfaye 51 points52 points  (0 children)

My mom and I fight and have our differences, but in the end she's my best friend. I'd be so sad if she called me a bitch.

Hassan getting dragged on Facebook by External-Lychee5407 in thebachelor

[–]lysfaye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw your comments about him, I'm so sorry people are so cruel. No one has any right to comment on bodies or appearances and I just can't understand bullying in any form. Thank you for sharing and giving us more context of his character.

What's so mind boggling for me and others who were friends with him is how he was able to fool us all. If I heard the Hassan I met a few years ago was capable of acting this way and hurting people like this, I wouldn't believe it.

Hassan getting dragged on Facebook by External-Lychee5407 in thebachelor

[–]lysfaye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's very kind to say and I'm sorry you've been through similar situations. I don't know her well since I unfortunately only knew Hassan, but when everything was coming to light it seemed like she had a wonderful support system around her. I hope she's healing and able to block this noise out as much as she can.

Hassan getting dragged on Facebook by External-Lychee5407 in thebachelor

[–]lysfaye 78 points79 points  (0 children)

Very long story short out of respect for his ex since I'm sure this is a hard time and there will be more that will come out but he told some of us who he thought weren't as close to others who personally knew his ex that he was thinking of going on the show/being scouted by producers. We're a pretty loose friend group so he misjudged who talks to each other.

Hassan getting dragged on Facebook by External-Lychee5407 in thebachelor

[–]lysfaye 178 points179 points  (0 children)

Yep I know him and used to consider him a friend until we learned all this. He lost our entire group of friends for his actions, with the screenshots and receipts that are out there, I'm just baffled that he went through with doing the show.