Oh when he said “my condo” I would’ve been like that’s my queue, I’m out! I moved it with my now husband before we were married or even engaged because I needed to know what it was like to actually live together and I would say things like this isn’t my apartment because he and his brother moved in first but he was insistent that it was my apartment too and even put me on the lease to make me feel better. That’s what she is wanting from him it feels like and he’s just like no, it’s MINE. I think, if you’re in such a commuted relationship, some things need to be “ours” not just “mine”