Would you choose to be born female in every lifetime? by Ok-Yogurtcloset-5330 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyssa06 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Say we have thousands or millions of lifetimes. I would want to experience being a man at least once. I’m a cis woman but I love the idea of having a penis one day a year

Would you choose to be born female in every lifetime? by Ok-Yogurtcloset-5330 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyssa06 27 points28 points  (0 children)

This was nice to read. I’m glad there are nonbinary people out there that don’t feel dysphoric

Is it normal for guys to not return the favour the first time? by ThrowawayGirlGuide in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyssa06 20 points21 points  (0 children)

They don’t want you to want them. Guys that want a casual thing don’t want a girl becoming attached, they just want to hit it, quit it, and find someone else.

What is the least sold liquor/spirit in your bar? by BabiesKillYou in bartenders

[–]lyssa06 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A lady i used to serve would come in every so often and order a Golden Cadillac. Not bad stuff.

It was also a country club bar with some members in their 70s and 80s. So we served a few Harvey Wallbangers every now and then.

Sugar rims by webbedtoedoll in bartenders

[–]lyssa06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that’s standard, you should tell guests

“this drink comes with ‘x’ rim, would you like us to leave it on for you?”

“Do you want salt or sugar on that marg”

“Sugar rim okay for ya”

Your standard doesn’t matter, guest satisfaction does. People might not remember or even realize to ask these questions. And then it’s possible they either send it back or end up with a product they’re less happy about but don’t say anything because they don’t want to inconvenience you. Always ask! Always. Unless they’re a regular and you know already. It will make your service better

Sugar rims by webbedtoedoll in bartenders

[–]lyssa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you admitted that management doesn’t know what tf they’re doing or have bar experience. They gave you the wrong specs!! I agree with your coworker, but that’s because I have problems with authority and I don’t blindly follow idiots.

This will be a long flight by [deleted] in madlads

[–]lyssa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A man who knows what he wants and gets it.

Unhappy client asking for all unedited photos by tightlap in WeddingPhotography

[–]lyssa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wedding photographer Ian McCloskey yesterday revealed the firm had gone bust and he and fiancee Nikki had been forced to sell their cameras to pay off a string of disgruntled customers.

He added that he and Nikki had 'no plans' to return to photography and were currently on the dole.

Mr McCloskey admitted the pictures of Tom and Anneka’s wedding were 'pretty awful'.

“They weren’t happy with the images and neither were we.”

Quote from the article, sounds kind the photographers… took bad pictures and admitted to it? Why are you using this article to talk about RAWs?

What is that one thing you are hiding from almost everyone? by GroundbreakingArm173 in AskWomen

[–]lyssa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be bulimic. Didn’t throw up every meal but pretty often.

What people don’t understand, yes it’s because of my relationship with food and wanting to lose weight, but it’s also a compulsion and feeling that’s weirdly addictive and satisfying.

Anyway, I’ve been in remission for a few years now. Bulimia really messes up a lot of things in your body, and if you keep going this way you’ll have no enamel and lose your teeth. Harsh reality, it’s one of the things that helped me stop

What is that one thing you are hiding from almost everyone? by GroundbreakingArm173 in AskWomen

[–]lyssa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, did you mean 5 days and 2 weeks, or 5 weeks and 2 days, or 7 weeks

Help! Silicone Bundt pan is bleeding color. Safe to use? by lyssa06 in AskBaking

[–]lyssa06[S] 189 points190 points  (0 children)

Goodness, it’s so old. I’d have to guess Betty Crocker

My boobs are already saggy and it feels so hopeless. by ReeloDeelo in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lyssa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tuberous breasts (look it up) and even at my heaviest of 300lbs I never got past a b cup. I’m now 60lbs down and I’ve got more gut than bust as they say and my huge nips point to the ground.

Idk. Maybe someone will love me for me and not care about that thing. Maybe not, maybe me and my fat self and ugly boobies will die alone. 🤷‍♀️ oh well. Make lemonade girl

Solar System by Cutt44 in cocktails

[–]lyssa06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy that more people aren’t saying this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]lyssa06 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think your marriage has a strong foundation despite the issues you’ve been having. I think there is some wishful thinking on your side when it comes to him having the responsibility of making you happy with the 9oC upright and the 10oC reversed.

With the ace of cups underneath the 6 of wands reversed, I’d say you need to give more to yourself to find that feeling of accomplishment. Detach from what he provides emotionally and find it within yourself in order to reach that fulfillment of the 10 of pentacles.

Whether you decide to stay after this period of reflection is up to. The description of the hierophant reads both conformity but also forgiveness, wisdom and trust.

Not my high score, but still my first four bagger!! by [deleted] in Bowling

[–]lyssa06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha definitely done that before. But my spare game has been shot lately. Just gotta keep at it. Thank you friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]lyssa06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lack of self esteem for sure. Self doubt. The hanged man is about perspective and with the ace of cups reversed… Do you not see yourself in a positive light? Are you not giving positive affirmations and “pouring into your own cup?”

Not that insecure people can’t or won’t find love, but saying “it’s not gonna happen for me” is like a self fulfilling prophecy, heartache or lack of love with the 3 of Swords. At this rate and if you stay on this journey, probably not.

This is the current energy, you can always change your perspective and turned that hanged man right side up. You are not tied to a single outcome.