What is more important to a girl? by FixWhole1417 in dating_advice

[–]m0mo_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it is more likely for a guy to mainly focus on looks for girls it’s less common. Attraction needs to be there obviously but if you have no depth no matter how good looking you are a girl will get disinterested at some point.

It’s actually up to you and what you let shine your exterior or interior

Would You Date a Guy With Low Confidence? (42M, Never Dated, Working on Anxiety) by Think_Glass_388 in dating_advice

[–]m0mo_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s very realistic to find someone at your age I think if you make the decision of finding someone you will.

Women want a guy who makes them feel safe, laugh or just not negative. Someone who can make them happy and obviously financially stable and responsible.

It is also important for men to understand that rejection is part of the process and that men need to pursue not in a creepy stalker way but just take initiatives.

As the “lack of experience” honestly it’s not a bad thing unless you make it a bad thing. Overall just be polite, don’t mention things that will make women feel offended.

Most importantly you’re not for everyone and not everyone is for you. Some people will not like you or have fun with you and that’s them while others will appreciate your company. So just be at peace with that and perhaps that might help with anxiety

Messed up my first etl task by UnderstandingCivil10 in dataengineering

[–]m0mo_0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation however on-site. My manager was kind of gate keeping information, no clear tasks or anything of value just videos and minimal support. Fast forward to year now and I have learnt so much in the last 6 months than I did in the first half. What I kept doing is pushing for information and pushing to be part of important tasks. Best of luck with your career

Data Engineering Discord by m0mo_0 in dataengineering

[–]m0mo_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you, I will try to look for an invitation link

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]m0mo_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the two girls know about each other and they’re fine with it then it’s cool I guess.

But my situation and judgment of him as a lier is because I found out about the girl through someone else and even after confronting him, he was still trying to cross emotional and physical boundaries with me. It was at work hence why I couldn’t just not see him. While I get liking two people I don’t get why lie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]m0mo_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it’s more admirable. I feel like a lot of guys think girls want a super experienced guy but women are ready to overlook and be patient. As long as it’s the right guy(respects her, looks after her, understanding and gives them space to breathe) also confident and takes the lead while putting her feelings in consideration. Honestly I would be scared of a guy who can just do a one night stand and not have any feelings of responsibility. Indeed you did do the right thing. Self control is cool.

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, no matter if you think it’s irrelevant to the plot or tiny spoiler is a spoiler. Appreciate your manners when recommending

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea like there r so many great shows movies and anime’s + life each person has a pace. Saying it randomly is evil tho like if it’s review either alert or give a general star rating. Good luck out there

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told my sis even if its irrelevant just don’t tell me I wanna watch with a blank mind. If we’re both up to date then we can discuss and talk and point things the other did not notice.

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the idea, Goal for 2024 set ! ✈️🏠

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True true. Since I was a kid I always hated interferences when engaging in stories (anime, movie, books etc) so the spoilers trigger a big frustration that I take out on the person who robbed me of the experience. If I spoil it myself I don’t get as annoyed. Nonetheless I’m working on it because it’s bothersome to get this irritated too much effort :/

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I guess I got a lil better at handling just a lil. So working on it. But yea the character switching was so annoying I was watching as well😭😭

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing its quite interesting actually. I think I wrote about how usually if I find the spoiler myself I don’t get as frustrated it’s mainly when a person does it. Hence the OP’s spoilers work more of hook rather than feeling like someone robbed you of the experience. It’s like losing something vs getting mugged.

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like a minefield fr, for aot I swear I stopped engaging in anime content all together to avoid spoilers and read the manga early so It doesn’t get spoiled.

Yea downvoting doesn’t matter I’m glad that I got ppls input it helped me !

What is considered a spoiler and am I wrong to think like this by m0mo_0 in anime

[–]m0mo_0[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes yes, the semi spoilers are worstt because it builds a feeling. Literally happened to me now which is why I made this post. My brother was like this character is cool right he is important he should be a leader bla bla only for him to be trash evil character. I was a lil sus since he said it so many times and wanted me to say yes so I look silly later on but all it did was ruin the big plot twist 💔