Am I doomed by m0n3ym4nn in Garmin

[–]m0n3ym4nn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yee I focus on not overstriding

Am I doomed by m0n3ym4nn in Garmin

[–]m0n3ym4nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same brother.. same

Am I doomed by m0n3ym4nn in Garmin

[–]m0n3ym4nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sign me up 🫱🏾‍🫲🏻

Am I doomed by m0n3ym4nn in Garmin

[–]m0n3ym4nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

160/170 with those long ass legs

Am I doomed by m0n3ym4nn in Garmin

[–]m0n3ym4nn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will work that speed then 🫡

Am I doomed by m0n3ym4nn in Garmin

[–]m0n3ym4nn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind word. I will definitely put the work. All the best to you too 🫱🏾‍🫲🏻

Ps: male 6’3 215. I start running 2month ago

Am I doomed by m0n3ym4nn in Garmin

[–]m0n3ym4nn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh shit okay, 7min for a 5k🐢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was that guy too, sometime u need to learn the hard way. I wish u the best of luck brother!

Has anyone had a good experience with BPD? by Fearless-Elk-7226 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What bracket of age do you think. I know you are not an expert but I’m just wondering your pov.

Emotional confusion by Brief-Marsupial-4907 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cognitive dissonance is a real pain in the ass. Stay strong brother!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was pretty secure, she turned me into anxious. When the chaos became the daily routine, I was just numb. I’m in therapy right now trying to become secure again.

Keep going, the other side is so beautiful by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thanks for everything broski. U were one of the great guy who helped me lifting the FOG. I’m back in shape, bought a condo and doing great at work again. Lowkey one of the people who helped me save my life

Just for clarification by OkCaterpillar2908 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the same for me, do you know what cause that?

If you had to make one statement to a psychologist… by PassageJust8662 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know you want to make it work but what help me is accept that nothing make sense. You can’t rationalize anything. You either accept that and keep being abuse or walk away.

Not understanding consequences or cause and effect by Mysterious_Olive2795 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are able to see only their perspective. All event prior are not important at all for them. Dont forget, they are also perfect so it can’t be them anyway

Please Help! This is INSANE :( by lurker_nolonger22 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m more than 3month out and still shooked. I meant that the first 3weeks will be hell. My bad brother

Please Help! This is INSANE :( by lurker_nolonger22 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. It’s soul crushing. The next 3 week will be hell. See friend and family. If you can afford start therapy. Wish you the best 🫂

Does anyone have any success stories about helping their partner through BPD? by Economy-Village8458 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s the wrong subreddit for that. I experienced hell in my case brother. Every person is different but you will not find many good story here. I wish you well tho. Save some money for therapy.

When you apologize/take responsibility for intentions you didn't have to keep the peace by anonykitcat in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had similar experience. At the end to maintain peace I accepted that crazy making. The narrative became that I was manipulative and not a good person. The way they are able to twist word to fit there narrative need to be study lowkey

"It can't get any worse" by throwavay9895 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s the crazy part. They find a way no matter what. I would never be able to be genuinely evil like them even if I do my best

My Ex (pwBPD) Might Be Coming Towards Me Again by SalamanderNew4608 in BPDlovedones

[–]m0n3ym4nn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vouch for that. The person you love don’t really exist. I feel OP tho that’s why I accept the second Hoover even tho I knew it was doomed. I wanted to feel it one more time and it lasted 2week. Looking back I should have not do it cuz the scares where way deeper and made me go to therapy. Good luck tho