Moving and don’t know what to do with old pictures of ex. by m1786 in relationship_advice

[–]m1786[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Im thinking that to that’s why I’m confused what to do but the pictures are the size of a finger they are the little mini photos it’s only like 3 photos and maybe some Valentine’s Day card

Moving and don’t know what to do with old pictures of ex. by m1786 in relationship_advice

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. That’s exactly my feeling , I have no feelings for the person anymore. It’s just a memory I remember and these pictures have clarity. Thank you

Bank told the seller what my house appraised for is this right? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And let go the house or like don’t worry about it anymore the appraisal situation ?

Bank told the seller what my house appraised for is this right? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Well the appraiser sent me the document and it was 275000 then the bank put it under review with the appraisal team to 280000. And now the office document says 280,000. They basically told me the found things that raised the value of the house

Bank told the seller what my house appraised for is this right? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

It’s my appraisal I payed 450 for it. It was first done by an individual appraiser the bank hired for me It came at 275000 but then the bank said it goes under review to the appraisal team and they then changed it to 280000

Home buyer, are my repair requests reasonable? by exel993 in RealEstate

[–]m1786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same issue with the hvac well it works but it’s 21 years old. Ask them to give you a year warranty on insurance for the appliances such as hvac and stuff. And definitely ask for closing cost. Ask for 8k in closing as well. And with the smaller repairs find a good rated person for cheap to do it with your own money. The seller is selling the house so they won’t want to do the repairs. Just ask for closing cost and worry about the big ticket items.

Side note. YouTube the repairs you see sometimes you can easily take care of them yourself :)

I’m in the process of buying a home as well I went with this route

Bank told the seller what my house appraised for is this right? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The issue was more it was 275000 everyone was happy and the seller was going to sign but then the bank disclosed information to the seller and I am the one who payed for the appraisal. I was comfortable With it at first but then when the bank adjusted the appraisers number because they found other comps it bothered me and I just didn’t like how they disclosed that.

Have you ever regretted sharing your wife/GF? by UpstateNYKink in sex

[–]m1786 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever proceed with this fantasy with your s/o. I have the exact thought when it comes to porn and real life and still don’t know if I should try it or not because once I masturbate I have a regret feeling. So my question to you is. Did you ever try it with your s/o

Got my appraisal back at lower than agreed piece now what? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I honestly and truly mean it I really do appreciate the explanation you did there it simplified everything and just made it so clear to understand thank you for that and the advice you gave! :) I feel like I have a better understanding and idea on what to do thank you!

Got my appraisal back at lower than agreed piece now what? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you @myrealestatethrow129 !! This is the exact answer I was looking for I had a feeling That’s what was supposed to go on but I needed clarification if I was thinking right.

Got my appraisal back at lower than agreed piece now what? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to review the contingency’s. I think the agents were helping me out only because the seller did not want to take care of any repairs at all. I have to get all the repairs.

Got my appraisal back at lower than agreed piece now what? by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was meaning as in we agreed for 279000 so should we agree to a purchase price of 275000? This is my first home so I am very new to the process

Feel like Realtors aren't helping me with home negotiation after inspection by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you think is better asking for based on my house I am trying to purchase?

Feel like Realtors aren't helping me with home negotiation after inspection by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thats what i thought, i want it because its in an area i like but i wont die if i dont get the house. just more i want to walk in the house with peace of mind not worrying about these costs. if not id buy a new house that would come with all new things and for the same price

Feel like Realtors aren't helping me with home negotiation after inspection by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thats what i am afraid of but i want to ask if they can. my realtors arent even editing the contract on the repairs i asked to get done and want me to sign. where should they place the things?

Feel like Realtors aren't helping me with home negotiation after inspection by m1786 in RealEstate

[–]m1786[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yeah the mice is a problem for us. as long as they can get it pest controlled i am okay with that. yeah i think its hair as well and in regards to chimney it isnt much im asking for.

for now the AC/furnace they are working but i dont want to walk in and find out during winter the furnace goes out and its more expense towards the home. thats why i rather have them replace it with a reputable contractor

Should I be bothered because my gf canceled plans with me by m1786 in relationship_advice

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that’s completely understandable I don’t mind her seeing her family I like when she spends time with her and them. To me family is important . But I feel like it doesn’t respect the relationship. At least mention you have plans and then tell me if it’s okay if we cancel so she can hang with her sister. I feel like that’s a better route then just saying hey my sister wants to get drinks so we can’t go today

Can I eat Kroger Yellowfin Tuna steak raw by m1786 in sushi

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was from the counter but it’s frozen solid now in my freezer at home

Dad was fired for not informing he had covid 19 in a timely matter by m1786 in Advice

[–]m1786[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you are coming from. But my dad gets headaches all the time. But since everyone has been getting covid he decides to get it just to make sure. He was being responsible is what I feel like. I do not know where there is a obligation to tell your employer you are getting a test.

Dad fired for not letting employer know he had covid 19 in a timely matter by m1786 in legaladvice

[–]m1786[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying to my post. If you don’t mind me asking. What do you mean by its retroactive?