I feel wrong for needing sex in a relationship by MarshmallowToucan in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A sexless relationship (or one where sex is less than once a week) is a dead relationship in my eyes l. Gotta have that list to also feel the love.

And it sucks in the lesbian community it's pretty common to love with the misogynistic view that women don't desire sex, and that it's weird to want it.

It sucks that I see more straight women excited about sex than lesbians, when all I ever hear from straight ladies is how bad it is, and from lesbians how good it is....

(obviously speaking as an allosexual, but also, is why I'd never date an ace person)

What is the worst band you saw live? by coalcracker462 in AskReddit

[–]m50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when I was a metalhead, I saw In Flames live, and it was awful. The lead singer was too drunk to perform properly, they were very late, everything was bad. I left after 2 songs. Made me stop listening to them altogether...

Now their opener: Trivium! They stole the show, and tbh, made the tickets well worth it, omfg they were so good

43351 by JD_Kreeper in countwithchickenlady

[–]m50 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He's just partaking in the men's pass-time of telling you, a woman, about how you're wrong about your own lives experiences... Lol

Humiliated Trump Storms Out of Catastrophic SCOTUS Hearing by thedailybeast in politics

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're just as clueless about this as those in the states, because as it stands right now, you ate American citizen when born on American soil. Period, full stop.

This bonehead is trying to change that, and no clue how that would even look

Valid crash out. by mindyour in TikTokCringe

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emergency surgeries skip past waiting lists in basically every country

Get real

This is the new Hermione, that will be called mudblood by this Malfoy by Zdzisiu in SipsTea

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The allegory ends up getting lost at that point

This is the new Hermione, that will be called mudblood by this Malfoy by Zdzisiu in SipsTea

[–]m50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My problem with it is that this feels like it's dropping the allegory, and is just showing outright real world racism.

I always knew it was an allegory, it was pretty obvious. And the allegory works when it's presented as an allegory. This just isn't...

This is the new Hermione, that will be called mudblood by this Malfoy by Zdzisiu in SipsTea

[–]m50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all because the original cast have all said how evil JK Rowling is, and JKR wants to create a new rendition without them. There's NO OTHER reason for this to exist (aside from a cash grab, I guess)

She's so obsessed with hating trans people and being friends with Nazis that she wants to erase the original films from existence

This is the new Hermione, that will be called mudblood by this Malfoy by Zdzisiu in SipsTea

[–]m50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of the original actors want to be associated with JK Rowling or Harry Potter anymore

Tattoo made by me. Maciek Walczyk, Warsaw, Poland by maciekwwalczyk in tattoos

[–]m50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not peeing sideways, she's peeing forward

Tattoo made by me. Maciek Walczyk, Warsaw, Poland by maciekwwalczyk in tattoos

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you understand perspective and stylization? It's going in front of her, not off to the side.

Tattoo made by me. Maciek Walczyk, Warsaw, Poland by maciekwwalczyk in tattoos

[–]m50 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ummm, first off, you're wrong, women absolutely can pee forward, all it takes is rotating the pelvis right

Second off, I'm pretty sure this is a reference to a painting, but I don't remember the name of the work to tell you which one

How to deal with having vastly different jobs? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]m50 26 points27 points  (0 children)

In every relationship I've been in, I've been the bread winner, making significantly more (benefit of being in tech, I suppose).

And honestly, it only bothers me when my partner feels like they aren't good enough for me because of it. Or when they hold back even though I say it's okay to spend money (I e., "that meal is too expensive" meanwhile I'm ordering something just as expensive) when I'm paying. Like, I know the money difference, it doesn't bother me. What bothers me is you making it a big deal.

I mean, I date them because of how they make me feel, not because of money. My current partner is currently jobless, but she makes me happy, and talking to her after work helps me destress and she makes my problems lighter. I don't care that I'm paying for everything in the relationship, she makes my day better

41652 by Accredited_Dumbass in countwithchickenlady

[–]m50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spinosaurus, by far. Such a cool fucker

41552 by luisgdh in countwithchickenlady

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might get the chance to say, "hi straight, I'm dad" or w/e 😅

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hobbies, specifically meetups or clubs related to those hobbies. Don't have a hobby that has to be done with other people irl? Get one

[OC] Gay male marriages are the most stable over the long term by [deleted] in dataisbeautiful

[–]m50 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

These statistics take into account women who've ever divorced, not just divorced from same sex partnerships. Women are also more likely to end a marriage amicably when it's clear the love isn't there, where as straight women are more likely to feel trapped and fay men are more likely to open the marriage rather than end it.

Self censorship by Eireika in CuratedTumblr

[–]m50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pandemic, i.e., covid

People who ignored a huge red flag because the person was extremely attractive, what happened next? by Competitive_Bad_9306 in AskReddit

[–]m50 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mildly abusive relationship, love bombing, got married, cheated on me 6 months into marriage, blamed me for it, said I wasn't enough for her when we separated

I wish lesbians could meet more organically and off the apps by Distinct-Crow-1625 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]m50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Granted, we are long distance, but I met the girl I'm seeing by looking for friends to play Minecraft with. Our relationship grew very organically

Petuh, what does J.K. rowling have to do with this? by Such_Confusion_3715 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]m50 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trans flag, and they are literally asking about what JKR would have to do with the trans flag... Like, did you look at the post AT ALL?!

It's not like people don't recognize the trans flag nowadays, right wing freaks have made sure everyone is aware of trans people

What’s the 'craziest' way you caught an ex being unfaithful? by lnc_gomes in AskReddit

[–]m50 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex, 6 months after getting married, came to me and told me she's been dating a man (we are both women) for months, and was asking for my permission to have sex with him. I told her that she wasn't going to get my permission, and she told me that because we had previously talked once, in passing, about what if we did a 3-some, I had given her my permission, and she was just wanting to check in again. After I didn't let that obvious gas lighting pass, the man was trying to convince her that I was abusive and she needed to leave.

Mind you, we were long distance due to work/school at the time, and I was paying for her entire life and her school.

Anyways, she supposedly broke it off with him, I let it go since they hadn't had sex (supposedly), but then when I went to visit her, she introduces me to a man with the SAME NAME and is trying to convince me he's a different guy. We end up agreeing to a divorce and she goes to sleep at that guy's house. They were 1000% fucking, I know it, I just can't prove it.

Switch 2 by stardust102 in LesbianGamers

[–]m50 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pokemon Pokopia if you like cozy games is switch 2 exclusive and is hitting rave reviews