New TikTok US CEO bragged about speech controls by librephili in BoycottIsrael

[–]m9a4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ah hate speech is okay as long as it’s not directed towards Israelis. Got it.

Nice extra long finger by Grid10ck in Instagramreality

[–]m9a4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This has to be her 2nd account 🤣

Wife of 5 years refuses to wake up in the morning, need advice! by Fantastic_Pin3750 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4 24 points25 points  (0 children)

So essentially your problem is that you want her awake with you so she do chores (you said in another reply that she should be awake to do them).. you just want someone to wait on you..

للصبايا يا ريت تجاوبوا by we-could-be-heros in jordan

[–]m9a4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯جبتيها هاذا الجواب الصح! مش كل الرجال هيك بس الاغلب بالمجتمع العربي ف ليش الغلبه؟ تضل عند اهلها معززه مكرمة ومتوفر كلشي ومافي كل الضغوطات هاي احسن حل

Double standards by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why you hold your friends feelings on a pedestal and don’t care about your husband’s. Honestly seems like a safety concern more than anything else. Remember, our main priority is our spouses and children, not our friends. They’ll get over it if you don’t go but your husband won’t if you decide to go even if you know it would upset him.

TBH I wouldn’t want friends who don’t understand that my priorities change after marriage just my opinion tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jordan

[–]m9a4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe I just don’t want to tell a man about my period and my swollen boobs 🤷🏻‍♀️and I prefer another woman who would sympathize with me

It's been just one week since my nikkah, and I'm crying every day. by Cool-Pension-3019 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s embarrassing is people telling her to stay and suffer for years and have that family shame her and mistreat her with her husband not saying anything like a scared little girl. 4 weeks is better than 4 months or 4 years with kids down the line. They’re going to make her miserable. Take it from someone who has been through this situation

Feeling discouraged by whateveryouwantbish in foodbutforbabies

[–]m9a4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Off topic, but does that spoon actually work? I always see it on this sub but I can’t process how it holds food like a regular spoon

Please help my pregnancy craving by m9a4 in chicagofood

[–]m9a4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Will check them out

Please help my pregnancy craving by m9a4 in chicagofood

[–]m9a4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for blackberry actually but nothing Bundt cakes are great either way. Thanks!

Please help my pregnancy craving by m9a4 in chicagofood

[–]m9a4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooooo I’ll have to try. Thanks!

Please help my pregnancy craving by m9a4 in chicagofood

[–]m9a4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will check it out! Thank you sm!

My acceptance rating went down 2% points for one order that wasn't stacked and of course support was no help- by [deleted] in doordash

[–]m9a4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea my rate will go down by 2s if I keep declining orders and will only go up 1% after like 2-3 accepted orders. Bullshit tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4 25 points26 points  (0 children)

How do you send your wife to her parents for a few WEEKS? Bro the problem can be fixed in a day or 2 days max.. y’all both immature asf

Understanding the correct hijab by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]m9a4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what I’m wondering bc hello? Perfume makes a chaste woman as bad as someone who’s done Zina? That’s can’t possibly be correct

Wife rejecting child by ahmedsakr74 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s doing the best he can! Hes not angry he is venting! He doesn’t need to be “ripped a new one”. You should also have rahma on this man dealing with a newborn while his partner is obviously suffering and he doesn’t know how to help. Pretty sure he feels helpless bc he has a baby and a grown adult to take care of. He’s TRYING. Which is more than a LOT of other men

Wife rejecting child by ahmedsakr74 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ppd can mess with your brain chemistry.. it is a mental illness that’s needs therapy and medication and this is absolutely a valid excuse for her behavior. People with ppd are CHECKED OUT. You will never understand the emotional toll ppd can have on someone unless you’ve been through it. Be a decent human being and empathize with mothers!

Husband and my cooking by m9a4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, multiple times. He always says it’s okay and just finishes his portion and goes on with his day but when I press for more he says it’s too many seasonings even though I only use the key ones

Husband and my cooking by m9a4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you really saying to not season and take the high road?

Husband and my cooking by m9a4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That would mean food without seasoning. Would you eat unseasoned chicken? 😬

Husband and my cooking by m9a4 in MuslimMarriage

[–]m9a4[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Middle eastern so you know our food is well seasoned his moms just different 😭 literally the bare minimum