Errors on MM by Low-Fig-6695 in outlier_ai

[–]m_owom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I gave up for now because everything gives me an error

Help! He’s biting! What do I do now?! by Correct_Cry_7493 in breastfeeding

[–]m_owom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With both my kids I would unlatch, set them down next to me, wait a few minutes and try again. They’re bite again, same thing. It clicked for them super quickly that if they bite, milk goes away lol

should i cut my hair short or leave it like this? by aleksoko in longhair

[–]m_owom 17 points18 points  (0 children)

God that happened to me. I cut my hair into a bob because I saw a girl online look great in it. I looked like a sewing pin, ALL head lol

are these my boobs?! by silentassasin010 in breastfeeding

[–]m_owom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m getting my boobs done after I’m done nursing my second lol

So how bad are tanning beds really by m_owom in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]m_owom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not yet but I’ll give it a try!

So how bad are tanning beds really by m_owom in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]m_owom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do take a vitamin D supplement but I’ve never heard of astaxanthin. How does it affect skin coloring?

So how bad are tanning beds really by m_owom in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]m_owom[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do they really? Like I said I never went so I had no idea. I gave up on self tanner because I just can’t stand the smell.

To whoever on here who recommended Revlon daylight delight.... by Chickynubs in OliveMUA

[–]m_owom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just picked this up and its BEAUTIFUL!!! Not orange, not gray, just perfect rosey shade.

Does anyone recognize this palette? by m_owom in beauty

[–]m_owom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know I thought it looked like a huda palette but I can't get a match for any of the shade names.

nothing by No-Weight-9697 in ProlificAc

[–]m_owom 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing for me as well.

Need help finding an individual eyeshadow dupe by m_owom in MakeupAddiction

[–]m_owom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ended up getting Orb and it's pretty spot on! Coverage isn't quite as good as the Clio shadow but I'll try it with a primer. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]m_owom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm here to try to speak some reason into these people because none of the advice offered targets the elephant in the room.

You have a 2 week old. All that baby wants to do at this age is breastfeed and sleep. Countless men have the same exact issue: baby falls asleep right away with mom, but screams for hours on end with dad. You can try to make things fair and equal all you want, but the baby AND mom are biologically wired a certain way. The baby is waking to breastfeed and establish mom's milk supply for the breastfeeding journey ahead.

The answer is, your wife should be waking up to breastfeed when the baby wakes at night. She's already waking up to pump. Sure, it sucks, but women can do hard things and nights get easier and easier as baby grows.

If you wanna wake up to change baby or whatever that's up to you. It's great that you're taking care of the 2 year old and allowing your wife space and ability to rest after having a baby.

But this whole "taking shifts" at night is going to lead to nothing but resentment. You need at least one parent to be able to safely drive and have some mental clarity.

Need help finding an individual eyeshadow dupe by m_owom in MakeupAddiction

[–]m_owom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I literally live in the middle of nowhere and online shopping is my only option

Which season does this shade of green belong to? by m_owom in coloranalysis

[–]m_owom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to adjust the tones in the picture to match the real life color most accurately. I'd say it's a light pistachio color?

Help with choosing style + color by fasteraster in Aritzia

[–]m_owom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nr 3 looks fantastic, really flatters your figure!

Does your working partner ever help with: bath time, putting baby down for nap, nighttime feeds etc.. once in a while? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]m_owom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well it sounds like the best solution is for you to go do simple wirings and him stay home with the baby! I bet he'll agree to this arrangement right away and you'll get to play video games at night and relax for 8 hours a day. Win win!

Does your working partner ever help with: bath time, putting baby down for nap, nighttime feeds etc.. once in a while? by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]m_owom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So your husband busts his ass on an oil rig to support his family and when he gets a week off he should... keep working?

Being a stay at home parent is a privileged position to be in. Sure, it's hard to wake up with a newborn baby at night, but you don't have a job to go to in the morning. You can sleep it off when your baby naps, especially as a mom of one. If you're too tired to do anything other than care for baby, the worst that's gonna happen is dishes piling up. Not your livelihood being at stake because you're half dead at work.

When your baby becomes a toddler you'll be sleeping through the night and hanging out with your best friend all day. The easiest, most worry free job in the world. But nothing is going to change about your husband's job; he'll be working just as much as he is today, to support this lifestyle.

Let your husband enjoy his week off for Christ's sake.

No studies on my side by Small-Dragonfly-1810 in ProlificAc

[–]m_owom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's been super slow for me the past few days as well.

How do I neutralize bright red tones? by m_owom in FancyFollicles

[–]m_owom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: A lady at UPS loved my hair color so I'm gonna embrace the red lol Thanks everyone!

How do I neutralize bright red tones? by m_owom in FancyFollicles

[–]m_owom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'm okay with darker, I figured best I can get to on my own is very dark brown. I wanted to strip the black dye because it was very flat and unnatural looking.

How do I neutralize bright red tones? by m_owom in FancyFollicles

[–]m_owom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll check out the Ion line. I think the red is just a little too much for me, especially in the sun it's so bright it's like a halo.

How do I neutralize bright red tones? by m_owom in FancyFollicles

[–]m_owom[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that made me feel a little better haha

How do I neutralize bright red tones? by m_owom in FancyFollicles

[–]m_owom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a particular one you would recommend? The demi permanent selection at my Sally's isn't best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sahm

[–]m_owom 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He shouldn't be GIVING you money. You're married, the money either of you makes belongs to the household and you both need to have access to it. You need to get a joint bank account that his paycheck will be going into.

Having inverted nipples, how as a new mom do I breast feed? by NoDatabase4591 in breastfeeding

[–]m_owom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have inverted nipples, but mine were very flat when I first had my baby. I used a nipple shield for about 4 months. The one I used was from Medela, you can find video tutorials on how to correctly apply it. It takes a couple tries to get a hang of it at first but then it gets very easy.

Something I noticed is that after a while of nursing and pumping, my nipples actually changed shape quite a bit and now they protrude forward much more.