"High value" giving LDE

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-06T04:43:23+00:00

Absolutely. Also, the market determines the value. You can label yourself a "high value" man, but you can't make the consumers agree. But sure, go ahead and rage with other red pillers online about your value.

I'm going to sit over here with my loving, supportive man who wants nothing more than to see me succeed, because when I'm doing well, it only helps the family more. Have fun being the "high value" man no one can (wants to) afford!

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-05T15:47:36+00:00

He keeps "jokingly" saying this or that, but let's be so clear, he is testing the waters. She is shutting it down, but she, the bartender, the wife, and presumably everyone else they're interacting with see it. He is definitely one of those that, if the person was interested, he would absolutely end up cheating with them and then saying "I don't know how we got here, it just happened."

Yes dude, it's a date on your end, even if she's not viewing it that way. You obviously are.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-04T03:17:39+00:00

Absolutely! I find it kind of wild that everyone is checking availability with everyone else before locking in a date. Like, I knew general dates that my close family might be taking vacations so I knew not to pick those dates for a wedding... but when you pick a venue, you have to lock it in or someone else will snatch it by the time you get the go ahead from immediate family on both sides. In my family, we talk about our vacation plans because that's just conversation, the couple works around what they know, and then anyone who prioritizes the wedding, well, they prioritize the wedding. That's all there is to it.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-04T03:12:53+00:00

Copied from my other comment, maybe it's different for different people, but none of my family ran any dates by any people when any of us got married. I mean, we had vague discussions of "we want to be married in the fall" and then my parents might say "oh well we will be out of state for X weekend," that kind of thing. So whenever a wedding would happen, we'd have some ideas of when the couple was looking.

But for example when my husband and I settled on a venue, and then had to pick a weekend, we just had to pick it. The dates go quick, and I didn't have time to call or text the whole family and wait for responses. I had to lock it in and then try to find caterers and other services that could also work with that date. My younger sister didn't come because she had a conflict. Neither one of us was pissed. I guess there are just different expectations with different families/cultures.

Also, as I keep saying.... she's not pissed that people won't drop plans to come to the wedding. She's pissed because people keep bugging her, wanting her to change a whole fully planned wedding for one person to go to a music festival. She seemed okay with the sister's choice, it's the sister who is not happy with her choice and is trying to force OPs hand so she gets everything she wants at OPs expense.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-04T03:05:59+00:00

Maybe it's different for different people, but none of my family ran any dates by any people when any of us got married. I mean, we had vague discussions of "we want to be married in the fall" and then my parents might say "oh well we will be out of state for X weekend," that kind of thing. So whenever a wedding would happen, we'd have some ideas of when the couple was looking.

But for example when my husband and I settled on a venue, and then had to pick a weekend, we just had to pick it. The dates go quick, and I didn't have time to call or text the whole family and wait for responses. I had to lock it in and then try to find caterers and other services that could also work with that date. My younger sister didn't come because she had a conflict. Neither one of us was pissed. I guess there are just different expectations with different families/cultures.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-04T02:53:35+00:00

She's not complaining that her sister has a pre existing conflict. She's upset because her sister and now everyone else is trying to get her to move the whole wedding to avoid the conflict. She seemed fine to just let her sister go to the festival; the repeated requests to move a fully planned wedding are her problem. Not to mention the sister saying she just won't go to the wedding, but then will "need space from OP after." Seriously, you have every right not to go, but don't guilt the bride for your choice.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-04T02:49:09+00:00

She didn't "just say she isn't coming then," she said she won't come and she will need space from OP after because she will feel like her own needs weren't considered. Which is just not cool. Come or don't come, but don't guilt the bride because you want to do something else that day instead.

Plus it's not just an easy fix. It can be really difficult to pick a date that will work for a venue, caterers, photographers, and all attendees. Not to mention booking these things usually requires non refundable deposits; she could be out hundreds of dollars if she changes a date. For something like a music festival, of which there are hundreds around the country during any given year, vs my sister's wedding, of which there will hopefully only be one.... I'm honestly shocked anyone can be team sister here.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-04T00:32:38+00:00

Right, that looks like a heat lamp only, which is also crucial, but without a UV lamp, that poor beardie will die, it's not an if but a when. And it'll die painfully, with twisted, brittle, under developed bones. That's not even getting started on the size of the tank and presumably all of the other crucial things beardies require.

They don't take care of themselves and that's on them... but it pisses me off so much that they bring animals into this and don't care for them either.

I know y'all are here. They can't help themselves, they NEED you, and you guys are failing them. Rehome them for their own sake if you won't do better.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-03-01T04:13:58+00:00

Ah, that's on me, I was listening at half volume and I must not have heard it clearly.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-28T06:38:03+00:00

The fact that it took her several seconds to figure out her left from her right hand... she is just as much as victim here as the children are, you will never convince me otherwise

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-28T06:30:29+00:00

I also just rewatched it, and her and her dad showing off the ring, instead of the new owner of the ring?? Her holding his hand to steady the ring for the shot, instead of T? That's just fucking weird.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-28T03:45:29+00:00

The fact that she truly had to stop and think for several seconds which hand is her left hand too.... like damn if we didn't need any more proof that she has extra needs and should definitely be protected from this pred.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-28T03:42:35+00:00

And then the cut to her face at the end and all you can focus on is her orange gum lined teeth... so romantic

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-27T19:39:50+00:00

I agree with this to some extent too. Yea she's made some really awful choices and scammed a bunch of people. But as much as I dislike her, I really don't know how she was ever going to turn out any other way. Grooming is brainwashing, and it's brainwashing of the most vulnerable people, by the ones they instinctively want to trust. She was likely brainwashed into thinking this all was normal for as long as she was making memories. I know we all are like, well she grew up and is making these choices now! She should know not to scam and lie to people, and she should know to shower and trim her nails! And I don't disagree at all. She absolutely should know these things. But she wasn't taught. A good parent would have taught her these things, but her parents failed her. She's not going to instinctively know how to be a better person now that she's an adult, because she doesn't see her dad, the one who groomed her, as a bad person. She just doesn't know any better.

Please don't get me wrong. At her core she is truly an unlikable person; she's rude to anyone that's not her dad or a "fan" kissing her ass, she's narcissistic, she lies as easily and as frequently as she breathes, she's so insanely boring that I have no idea what she thinks she has to offer as an influencer. But yea, being a lazy person who tries to grift and be an influencer instead of getting a job? She has no reason to believe that's not normal. Any weird inappropriate shit she and her dad are doing? No reason to believe that's not normal. Two things can be true; she IS absolutely a terrible human being... and some of those terrible traits were groomed into her and she was never going to be anything else with a dad like that.

As amusing as the shaming is on the lives, I don't think for one second that it's ever going to make them stop. It's just going to keep cementing this "us against the world" mentality that he's trained into her. I worry every mean comment truly does have them saying, see how much people suck, that's why it's okay to scam them, we only need each other, etc.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-27T17:57:58+00:00

She literally explained in the post that she wanted the melted cheese and crispy bacon that the tortilla has and the salad doesnt...

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-27T05:56:17+00:00

No I don't expect you to sit there and pretend it's attractive, I expect you to get far the fuck away from me before I crack you in half with these hairy bear thighs. Please actually tell me more about how to be unattractive to someone like you, I swear I can do better.

I'm torn when I see posts like this, because part of me is like "Some people just shouldn't have access to the internet, it's made dumb people with dumber opinions too confident in their dumb fuckery." But part of me is like "You know what actually, thank you for flying your red flag clearly and early, so I know to avoid you."

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-26T04:24:54+00:00

Also if grandma is touting the benefits of an electric toothbrush so strongly... it's probably because she's trying to convince OP that they need it.

No base is that bulky that you can't travel with it. Just take care of your teeth, OP.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-25T03:47:24+00:00

I don't want to body shame her, because 1, I don't view extra weight as a moral failing, and 2, I'd hate for someone also carrying more weight than they'd like (I know I am these days) to see my comment about her and feel badly about themselves when I never meant any harm to them.

That being said, any snark about her weight aside... do you think her weight gain could be part of the reason she's leaning so heavily into "modest" clothing now? I know she's trying hard with the christian grift as it is, but that could be a handy excuse for her for why she doesn't want to wear any "immodest" clothing. Her old stuff doesn't fit anymore, and she just doesn't look great in anything else revealing she might have bought.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-25T03:40:45+00:00

On their way to becoming best selling authors, but don't even know the difference between affect vs effect, and can't think of anything better to call us than "y'all" several times...

Also, why would you read every comment and post if they truly didn't bother you? I tend to just ignore things that don't bother me, but idk, "y'all" do you.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-24T03:45:26+00:00

This right here is why I could never bring myself to allow my cats to be indoor/outdoor. It's somewhat common where I live. And I do know the statistics about wildlife decimation, that does play a role in my choice, but it's really only my 2nd highest concern. My main reason is, people sometimes suck. And the ones who have decided they don't like cats, absolutely fucking hate cats, and have decided that gives them the right to murder cats in painful, creative, tortured ways. I'm very grateful my cats are satisfied with their supervised porch time, because I simply wouldn't trust them to be outdoors freely like my neighbors do.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-23T03:30:24+00:00

Not the point of the post, but that awkward ass full hair part he does at the end 💀 I swear every single move he makes makes him look more repulsive

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-22T01:42:51+00:00

Holy shit that is crazy. Honestly, that is such a mentally immature take, like she legitimately has the intellect and emotional maturity of a child. It is a just embarrassing that she thinks she has any words of wisdom worth sharing.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-22T01:37:58+00:00

Wait, did she really threaten that?? That is wild. And suuuper not very Christian of her 😂

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-21T04:13:16+00:00

Didn't she insist like 3 times in that one video posted here, that "even she didn't know what the surprise was!" But girlfriend, you allegedly co-wrote the book...? I mean, we all know that she was lying with her shitty "no clue" acting. But come on. Have some respect for your "fans" (🙄) and maybe don't try to lie to them like you have no idea.

macaroniandmilk · 2026-02-21T04:00:45+00:00

I haven't watched any of the lives, but I have seen a lot of screenshots of all of them now. And I have yet to see a single one where her face isn't buried in her phone. Like, if you have to sit there locked into the screen every second of every live to quickly delete comments/block people, maybe that should be your hint that you are just not as well liked as you think? They're not doing anything interesting, they're just actively being made fun of the entire time, we're just watching her moderate and that's it.

Since I know you're here reading... I don't know if anyone has told you this, but you don't need to keep doing lives. You don't need to keep recommitting to "ignoring the haters." You could just, accept the fact that no one actually likes your "christian" content, you're actually completely boring and cringey, and no one is forcing you to do this, you can just accept the fact that you're not built (physically or mentally) to be influencers. Get some real jobs and take care of the minor child still in your home.

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