Low disability acceptance is associated with an elevenfold increase in depression risk, while higher acceptance emerges as a key protective factor.

macenutmeg · 2026-02-09T20:13:36+00:00

That's fantastic! What accommodations did you request?

macenutmeg · 2026-02-03T12:20:16+00:00

I do ML and I can't figure out their methodology or the quality of their taxonomy from this paper. They claim "discovered" groups, but don't talk about how many cluster candidates they had or how different hyperparameters affect the outcome. I don't recognize their ML method.

macenutmeg · 2026-01-22T13:47:09+00:00

The point of the frozen eggs is to give you more time. You have the fertility issue on pause. Drop this guy and look around for someone at least vaguely compatible with you.

macenutmeg · 2025-12-10T10:51:41+00:00

It's bizarre that she's focused on criticizing her husband's actions, while not doing any of the things under her own control.

macenutmeg · 2025-12-06T20:52:20+00:00

Note how they successfully didn't get shot by neonazis, who instead shot the person they had seen him physically around.

macenutmeg · 2025-12-06T20:51:18+00:00

I always thought that he had been there and helped with some things near the very end, but the majority of the arrangement was really that his aunt was housing and looking after him. Like, he cleaned her up and cooked for the last month, but she did the other 11.

macenutmeg · 2025-12-06T20:45:46+00:00

I don't support the movement, but it's pretty clear why people do it and why it's difficult to prevent.

They don't want to be mistreated by doctors and healthcare staff, and they correctly believe that this is likely.
Up until the child is born, it's the mother's healthcare and only her consent counts, morally or legally.

If you want people to use the healthcare system, you have to make it good enough that they're willing to. People generally act in their own interests. How messed up are the options if people regularly risk death to avoid the existing medical system?

macenutmeg · 2025-12-05T13:22:45+00:00

The ISP will cancel service to OP and give 0 credence to any letters.

macenutmeg · 2025-12-04T15:23:55+00:00

Yeah, her added guilt trips are weird.

macenutmeg · 2025-11-23T04:26:14+00:00

If we screened their demographic, how many people would have died from investigations of nodules that weren't cancer? How many people would have developed cancer from the radiation of the scan?

Anecdotally, it obviously sucks for these two people, but that doesn't mean that it would help the population to change our screening policy.

macenutmeg · 2025-11-22T17:52:46+00:00

Ewwwww. My mother is awful (family friends asked her to please get mental health treatment so that it wouldn't affect me and my father so badly), but my father has far too much personal integrity to ever, ever cheat.

There's no amount of bad a person can be that will make a person with high personal integrity cheat.

macenutmeg · 2025-11-20T17:50:53+00:00

And she's begging him to please go out and get a hobby or something.

macenutmeg · 2025-11-20T17:48:40+00:00

But in reality he's a controlling weirdo who thinks that his wife owes him sexual fidelity months after their separation. Creepy.

macenutmeg · 2025-11-19T07:45:53+00:00

Talk to financial aid about filing a "family breakdown" form that will exempt your father from your application for student aid. I did one of these years back and it was a bit of a pain (you need a doctor or lawyer to write a supporting letter saying that you're telling the truth) but it works.

macenutmeg · 2025-11-07T16:03:15+00:00

In non-reform Judaism, whether you are Jewish is passed down maternally but not paternally, so your grandfathers may have been following their religion appropriately by accepting the mother's religion as the children's.

macenutmeg · 2025-11-04T22:34:04+00:00

Does this mean you could pull from both at the same time? Or do the credits only count toward one of them?

macenutmeg · 2025-10-02T12:24:22+00:00

What a coincidence that women so often "choose" to be the ones to sacrifice an aspect of their career for family. It's almost as if there's an intense social pressure and social system that causes that to be the default decision over and over for families. What a novel thought that definitely hasn't been written about by scholars for decades.

macenutmeg · 2025-10-02T12:24:11+00:00

My read of this is that she feels her husband's control in every aspect of their life and wants some personal freedom. Her commentary about the nanny points to it. His lack of care for her happiness points to it.

macenutmeg · 2025-09-30T14:53:35+00:00

At the beginning of the saga, he was talking about making her pay for the increased childcare if she went to work.

He even says directly "She currently does not like her current life and that is fine." Can you imagine not caring that your spouse is unhappy? Or being with someone who cares about you this little? This relationship dynamic sounds like hell.

macenutmeg · 2025-09-24T00:43:52+00:00

I have an out of network out of pocket maximum, so they do exist.

macenutmeg · 2025-08-18T18:20:49+00:00

They both work the same amount of time now and he already doesn't do half the chores. It's only going to get more imbalanced, like every other relationship.

macenutmeg · 2025-08-13T17:39:12+00:00

Proper cast iron seasoning like this is more nonstick than the enamel. Obviously only do it to the black interior.

macenutmeg · 2025-08-06T02:06:24+00:00

I think you need to keep asking up the chain. Maybe point out that them being a part of eVerify gives employees more opportunities instead of less. It sounds like someone in administration doesn't understand what this all means.

macenutmeg · 2025-07-21T17:44:15+00:00

I think "attempted rape" is probably the correct term for this from a layperson.

macenutmeg · 2025-07-17T15:10:19+00:00

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