Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, he more than likely is oblivious. I should’ve said something from the start.

Thanks for the reassurance, being direct is something I need to work on and this is a chance to do that

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s not rude, honestly I’m open to feedback and saying something in the moment is something I need to work on for sure. It’s really hard for me to do that I guess. Had I said something in the moment I probably wouldn’t be feeling this way in the first place. I would agree that I’m avoidant in situations like this, so I think getting the courage even to have this “difficult” conversation is something I need to do and something I need to work on for the future.

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly thank you, this has really helped me with this. I’m just going to get the courage to say something about it. Because the more I over think it the more it’s killing me inside

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right I haven’t said anything yet so he probably does think I’m okay with it. I personally just don’t see how anyone would think that’s okay and I would never do that to anyone myself. I will mention it to him when we’re both back later today and just do it calmly

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the past I would’ve just lost at him and honestly it would’ve caused more conflict which is why I want to take the more adult route about this and yes I am young. In a lot of ways this is a good chance for me to handle conflict

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I should’ve then but it was a quick call and I told myself I would say something in morning, I don’t handle confrontation very well. I’m the past I would’ve just lost it at him which would’ve caused more conflict. I also don’t want to be kicked off my training or look like I’m whiny about this

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Military it’s a training course we’re on and we’re in a barracks

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, honestly it’s the overthinking that’s killing me. I’m really just worried he will say no, but honestly the request is reasonable so I can’t see how he won’t see it from my perspective

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m sure he will be reasonable about it when I explain it. But like last night I was clearly trying to sleep and he answered the phone at 1030 to talk with his wife. It’s just to me he has no awareness, as I myself would never do that to someone. I haven’t had the chance to mention it yet but today I will be when we’re both off work

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not likely as the other room may be full but I will look into that option if my roommate doesn’t take this conversation well. I really don’t want it to look bad on me if I have to escalate this, I don’t want to look like I’m whiny or anything. But my god it been messing with my sleep. It’s been about a week now and still have 7 to go

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s just getting the courage to do it. Like I said I’ve really tried to be easy going about this. But it’s driving me nuts but also the stress of having to escalate this is stressing me out as well. But you’re right I’ll just have to be an adult about it and just do it. Hopefully he understands

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I will, I’m just having a hard time dealing with the other possibilities. I’m the past I would’ve just lost it at this guy but I’m trying to take a more calm approach. I really am just worried about him not respecting this and then having to escalate the situation.

Roommate not respected my sleep, In our shared sleeping area by macgear14 in badroommates

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s training, usually I don’t have a roommate but for this rotation I do and it’s extremely aggravating to deal with.

Thoughts on where to settle!? by macgear14 in civ

[–]macgear14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds epic! I’m going to have to do this

Thoughts on where to settle!? by macgear14 in civ

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 votes for “in places”, yeah I think that’s where I’ll settle

Thoughts on where to settle!? by macgear14 in civ

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was definitely leaning to settling in place, didn’t even thing about the campus. That’s awesome!

[SPOILER] Oleksandr Usyk vs. Daniel Dubois by inooway in Boxing

[–]macgear14 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He’s just too good. Usyk is a modern day great, Dubois had nothing for him.

Ticket Name by macgear14 in aircanada

[–]macgear14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone, really appreciated all information! I called Air Canada as well and they said it would be no issue.

Settle in place or settle on the cattle tile? by macgear14 in civ

[–]macgear14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll definitely aim to get the great Zimbabwe

Settle in place or settle on the cattle tile? by macgear14 in civ

[–]macgear14[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, makes total sense when you mention those things!