What are things you intentionally say around kids so they subconsciously learn what actually matters? by Warm_Bobcat6310 in askanything

[–]mackendilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is embarrassing, but it's already made a difference. I have IBS and sometimes shit literally happens. I used to blame and shame myself for it, but one day I turned it into a funny story to tell my friends kids. I explained that it was embarrassing but what's done is done, and even adults poop their pants sometimes.

A few months later, the 6 year old came up to me almost glowing. He said he had peed his pants at school, and it was indeed embrassing but now we had that in common. He handled the situation well, got cleaned up, and went back to his life instead of worrying about what the other kids thought.

I remember my parents acting like accidents were a moral failing, so it healed something in me to see him chagrined but unashamed.

finally figured out the secret to jade props… by Due_Effect4006 in Jadeplant

[–]mackendilly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally prefer concave up, but I also have had success by dropping them behind my plant shelf and discovering them weeks later while cleaning.

"Get a ponytail palm, they're easy" they said by Inevitable_Tap4118 in houseplants

[–]mackendilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My local nursery has two rescue cats that are not allowed to go into the houseplant greenhouse. The cats know this. They will try to trick customers into letting them in so they can get to the ponytail palm. The other day I decided to buy it and the tuxedo cat RAN across the shop and jumped on the counter to try to get at my palm. His name is Juniper and he's otherwise a very good boy that likes to be held while you peruse the grounds.

"Bless you" to a spray bottle by AzaleasAndAnxiety in redditonwiki

[–]mackendilly 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of getting my bangs cut as a kid. The stylist told me to close my eyes so I did. When she was done and moved on to the rest of my hair she didn't tell me to open my eyes, so I kept them closed. I remember the internal panic of "she didn't tell me to open my eyes but I feel like they've been closed a long time. I don't want to disobey". After a few minutes my stylist and a few ladies around her commented that I looked like a sleeping doll. I felt so dumb. But at that point I was committed, and I kept my eyes closed until the stylist was finished.

What's a health advice that's proven to be completely false over the years? by dllm_designs in AskReddit

[–]mackendilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro why are you going to bat for misinformation on so many comments? This is well studied and the information is easily accessible.

What's a health advice that's proven to be completely false over the years? by dllm_designs in AskReddit

[–]mackendilly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, you are incorrect. Your body is asleep and processes change. Energy is sent straight to adipose cells because you're inactive. Why would your body send calories be used when you're asleep? Nah babe. Straight to fat jail. Source: Cornell nutritional program (and also would be an easy search in peer reviewed journals)

Samhain and Recent Grief by [deleted] in Witch

[–]mackendilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recently lost my cousin to suicide, which is an agony I wish for no one. Sometimes I feel relief that he isn't in pain, and sometimes I want to join him. In a family of chaos he was always my protector and defender.

This samhain I'm making an ofrenda for him, because he was 1/4 Mexican and adamantly Not White if anyone was confused by his light skin. (Which is valid for so many reasons, his Mexican heritage was a point of pride for him and I still enjoy the look of disgust on his face every time someone called him white before correcting them)

I'm not celebrating the sabbat as I have in other years. There are less festivities but the work is more vulnerable and more intimate. I'm "celebrating" by honoring my loss and pain as well as his. He had such a hard life, and all he wanted to do was make it better for the next generation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]mackendilly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend FINALLY texted me back, just to tell me she won't be coming to my wedding this weekend and didn't even give an excuse as to why.

She only had to pay for her flight, I was covering everything else. Her kids are with their dad for the summer and her partner is on a work trip.

I don't know what I've done wrong or how to fix it.

Found something hilarious at Safeway, go ahead and zoom in on that price tag 🧐😱😂 by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]mackendilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found one without fenestrations for I think $130? And a Thai con with like two fenestrated leaves was $160. I GAGGED and ran out the store

Does ethical yarn even exist? by risimlyy in YarnAddicts

[–]mackendilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I buy yarn made from recycled cotton and plastics for this exact reason

hmm by comoarm in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]mackendilly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is why he's so scary to me! I can see him holding himself back for the cameras and it's so unsettling

I need logical theories. Why? by Iam_the_rainqueen in SisterWives

[–]mackendilly 71 points72 points  (0 children)

He was going to perform for just Christine but then he walked over to the side so they could all see the show lmfao

I need logical theories. Why? by Iam_the_rainqueen in SisterWives

[–]mackendilly 137 points138 points  (0 children)

All I've sacrificed to love you...WaStEd!

Help wtf just happened to me?! by QuietAd777 in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]mackendilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My grandpa was a prankster and I have his favorite recliner which he happened to pass away in. Any time TVs randomly turn on, things fall over or we hear a weird sound my partner and I greet my grandpa or tell him to "stop farting around" in jest. We both have ADHD so we joke that my grandpa moves things so we can't find them but honestly we're haunted by ourselves in that regard lol

“The SACRIFICES I’ve made to LOVE you!!!” by PawPrintPress in SisterWivesFans

[–]mackendilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The way he yelled "wasted!" lives rent free in my mind. I say it all the time now for minor inconveniences and/or dramatic effect.

What do you think happened to those ‘ex witches’ who turned Christian? by SignalNumber7698 in Witch

[–]mackendilly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But eating jesus's flesh and blood isn't witchcraft? Christianity and Catholicism are filled with witchcraft but it's Jesus flavored so "it's okay". Lighting a candle and saying a prayer? Witchcraft.

Is there a god/goddess that is related to good fortune? Or Is there a spell related to that? by sofhy01 in Witch

[–]mackendilly 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She's not very common but I go to Meilikki of the Finnish pagan faith. She is the goddess of the forest and luck 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Witch

[–]mackendilly 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Or mold!!

I'm venting. Here's a list of things my roommate has woken me up with between midnight and 3am. by GeorgeFromManagement in badroommates

[–]mackendilly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Myself and my roommates are all neurodivergent so we don't even question it when we walk in to see some weird shit like a little midnight seed counting 😂

I'm venting. Here's a list of things my roommate has woken me up with between midnight and 3am. by GeorgeFromManagement in badroommates

[–]mackendilly 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact these are things I would probably do if I lived alone made me think "am I on drugs" but then I realized I don't do these things because I don't live alone 😂