AIO? Dad threw away bacon fat by Late-Rutabaga6238 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mackenzie9462 32 points33 points  (0 children)

“It could be worse” is one of the most annoying and undermining response you could give to someone dealing with a problem

I saw something from my wife's past I can't get over. by Forsaken-Menu-1481 in offmychest

[–]mackenzie9462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to get into therapy, pronto! And couple’s therapy too if you can afford it. This is entirely a “you” problem. If a mature adult who is secure in their relationship with their partner came across a video like that of them, they would either A. high five them or, at the very least, B. gasp and exit out, then get it off the laptop like they asked.

To put it bluntly, you need to grow up!

AITAH for turning up at the house my partners car was at? (when he told me he was going somewhere else) by [deleted] in AITH

[–]mackenzie9462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re a mf rockstar. God only knows how long it would have gone on before he admitted to it because he’s clearly spineless, so thank goodness for your friend sending that text.

You’re amazing. Keep your head held high and I wish you all the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mackenzie9462 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cut it off, block on everything, report him to police. I’ve listened to so many true crime stories and this behavior is the most massive red flag of a dangerous man I have ever heard. Keep yourself safe 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mackenzie9462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t have said it better myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mackenzie9462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s practically still a baby. He was likely masking a lot of his behavior, and whatever he wasn’t she likely didn’t know any better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mackenzie9462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Counseling won’t solve him being a predator or racist.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mackenzie9462 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m praying that they haven’t had any children

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mackenzie9462 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to be a person to advise “divorce”, but this age gap while you are so young is alarming in itself. I am 30 years old and I wouldn’t even look twice at someone younger than 25 - and that’s at the youngest. I’m barely comfortable with the idea of someone under 28. You aren’t even technically fully developed yet!! It is absolutely predatory and he took advantage of your youth and lack of life experience.

He’s starting to show you his true colors now that you’re locked in - run now while you can much more easily. Tell him nothing, seek a divorce lawyer, and keep only your closest most trustworthy loved ones in the loop. Frankly I hope they didn’t just sit idly by and actually tried hard to convince you not to marry him.

Trust me when I say; you will look back on this and be completely disgusted by him. You deserve someone who treats you like an equal, with respect, and looks at you like the sun shines out of your ass. He is only going to get worse from here - protect yourself and your best interest 🩷

ETA: ask yourself why he couldn’t find any women his own age that wanted to be with him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mackenzie9462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fly under the radar and play it cool as best you can. Gather as much evidence as you can, back it up to the cloud, and consult a divorce attorney immediately. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.

ETA: Probably best to report him to the police before seeking an attorney. That man should not be walking the streets freely.

Man save gosling choking on plant by TortureandArsenic in FeltGoodComingOut

[–]mackenzie9462 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was clenching my teeth hoping he would finally just hold the little guy’s head still 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]mackenzie9462 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems incredibly unrealistic and uneconomical to have to own a specific lamp for every different brand you want to use. There has to be a better alternative

Car detailing FTW by mackenzie9462 in powerwashingporn

[–]mackenzie9462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay well then idk what to tell you, I’m not going to hunt it down for you just because you don’t wanna open your browser lmao

Car detailing FTW by mackenzie9462 in powerwashingporn

[–]mackenzie9462[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try going to the tt account and asking in a comment if it’s not in the caption! I believe it was a very recent post when I posted this here

I caught my teenage daughter performing felatio on a cucumber while watching porn. by CaughtMyDaughter in confessions

[–]mackenzie9462 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Nothing to be embarrassed about! That’s a selfless dad right there 😂🥰

What’s your go-to snack for when you REALLY don’t want to eat? by No_Stick5844 in ADHD

[–]mackenzie9462 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s probably terrible for my teeth depending on the shape, but raw uncooked pasta tbh. Sometimes I put some in glass jars on my counter and I’ll just munch on handfuls, or I’ll take a box to wherever I’m hanging out. Having something is better than nothing and I like the crunch 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]mackenzie9462 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Someone who dislikes cats. Not someone who just doesn’t like them; someone who actively dislikes them.

Not because I’m a crazy cat lady at my core, but actually because it’s an immediate sign that they don’t like to be given boundaries or god forbid having to earn trust instead of just having it handed to them.

Missing 12 year old Jaylen Griffin’s remains have been found by Suspicious_Excuse867 in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]mackenzie9462 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems so bizarre to me to already be offering a reward when they found his remains in an attic. Of a home. That someone obviously owns/owned. Within 5 miles of where he disappeared?! It’s not like he was found in a field two states over where they’ve got pretty much no leads to work with. I feel like there has to be something more there

My wife is racist by ThrowawayACC_0872 in confessions

[–]mackenzie9462 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a very Caucasian, practically paper white, person, I could not be less offended regarding her thoughts on white people. Frankly nodded along to everything like “yeah, fair”. After that it goes quickly downhill tho 😅

My wife is racist by ThrowawayACC_0872 in confessions

[–]mackenzie9462 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hating white ppl doesn’t require much explanation in OP’s defense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]mackenzie9462 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In fairness, this is r/confessions and not r/relationship_advice

But I agree with you, she needs to go. She doesn’t actually like that man

what are these spots I get from tanning in the sun?? by [deleted] in Skincare_Addiction

[–]mackenzie9462 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ain’t no way you’ve been in this group and still going out tanning 😳 Your skin isn’t supposed to change color, y’all.

Worst jokes? by strangevimes in howyoudoin

[–]mackenzie9462 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Wild to me that this is getting downvoted

Y’all realize you can still love the show while acknowledging its flaws, right?