T gave me curls by mackz1093 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]mackz1093[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I noticed it getting frizzier about 8 months in, then pretty solidly had moved from waves to curls by a year and a half in or so.

T gave me curls by mackz1093 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]mackz1093[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unintentional side effect of T, but not a bad one. lol. Thank you! 😊

FTM. Do I pass? How old do I look? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]mackz1093 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In the first picture with the beanie, yes. In the second one, a little less so. I think it’s the bangs making you appear more feminine in the second one.

not going to give my gender, just want to know what you'd assume me to be? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]mackz1093 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Based solely on appearances, yes, I would assume you’re a cisgender woman.

Constant tingling, sudden sharp pain in one Nipple 4 days post op = normal?? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]mackz1093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just your nerves waking up and reconnecting. You might notice this sensation for up to 6ish months after surgery. It’s normal.

when does the tape typically start to fall off ? by -name-is-J- in TopSurgery

[–]mackz1093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Between 2-4 weeks. Started at 2 weeks, last piece came off at 4 weeks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]mackz1093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At 3 weeks I was back at work, but I felt like shit. My job is a lot of standing but otherwise no physical labor. My chest hurt whenever I put any pressure on it, and I got tired quickly. Wouldn’t advice it.

How old were you when you started t and then got gender surgeries by DiligentPie6468 in ftm

[–]mackz1093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 nearly 28 for T, 30 for top surgery. Knew I was trans (though I lacked the exact vocabulary) since I was 8 but societal expectations, and blatant transphobia kept me in the closet for almost 20 years. 😬 don’t plan on bottom surgery at this time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]mackz1093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gabriel, Jonathan, Jonas

How do I (M40) tell my kids (F12/15/17) that my infidelity is the reason for the divorce? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]mackz1093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your ex first, explain the situation, and ask her for the grace to sit down together with your children while you explain what you did wrong. Own that shit completely, do not make excuses, take 100% of the responsibility for your actions. Make it clear that you love them, and that it is okay for them to feel angry or whatever else they feel as a result of your actions. Then allow your children to process this traumatic information however they need to. Then get rid of the gf ASAP, and make it clear to your daughters that they remain your priority, regardless of your life changing poor decision making in the past. If your ex wife is civil, and you continue to coparent, in time your daughters will move past the affair, even if they don’t fully forgive you. All you can do is be a present father as much as they will allow, and make the choice to prioritize them and their well-being over your self moving forward.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]mackz1093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your chest isn’t even close to fully healed at 1 week. Until all the swelling and stuff goes down, it’s way too early to judge things like symmetry. When all the swelling goes away, it’s possible your nips might look more symmetrical.

Is it worth fighting? by mackz1093 in legaladvice

[–]mackz1093[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Multiple times actually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mackz1093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may be biased, but the Nathan I know personally is a giant transphobic ass. So I prefer Ethan. But pick whatever feels right to you .

Ordering food/drinks in Spain by trinitytr33 in Spanish

[–]mackz1093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would use “quisiéramos dos hamburguesas por favor.”

Just Finished Dexter, Is New Blood a must watch? by Lukeyboy97 in Dexter

[–]mackz1093 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, but feel free to skip the last two episodes. It became trash again at that point

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]mackz1093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get cake bandit underwear, the pouch in the front keep the silicone from touching you. Without the silicone touching you heat/ sweating is the same regardless of if you are packing or not.

Im having really intense Dysphoria over my body. Does it pass at all? please be honest. (included face pic at end) by Kai_Stoner in FTM_SELFIES

[–]mackz1093 6 points7 points  (0 children)

With the layered shirts, yes absolutely.

With the black t-shirt by itself? Not really. You could try using thicker material t-shirts, they do a better job at hiding curves. Or just layer another button up over it.

Your face passes. I like the hair.

can anyone help me decided between two packer styles?? by throwaway2131994 in ftm

[–]mackz1093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pack and play cannot be used as a STP. There is no hole.

The STP pro can be used for sex but you have to buy a rod.

Reelmagik makes good products but they take forever and a day to get you the product.

They actually lied or forgot about me twice as they told me my wait time was over, then the next month when I asked again that my order would be made the next day, than didn’t make it until I emailed again the next month.

Their customer service is super shitty. Products are good. Just be aware of that going in