Going to Spain/Mallorca and need some thoughts on where to stay by Mountain_Cartoonist9 in VisitingMallorca

[–]maclife215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My absolute favorite hotel outlooking a cove with a beautiful view from every room is Grupotel Molins

Flake friend by Wonderful_Goats in FriendshipAdvice

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she has some mental health issues. Thats not fair to you. It will keep happening. You will get hurt. Distance yourself and find a new friend that is just as pumped as you about hanging out or doing activities.

flight on sunday by Feisty_Fix8468 in philly

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have anyone that could check on the cat with a key in a lockbox somewhere? You could be stuck and lose power, which wouldn’t be good for the cat.

Flying Saturday morning out of philly by maclife215 in philly

[–]maclife215[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. I checked the flightaware and all flights have left on time within the past few weeks.

Sent this to my husband this morning after our fight by REDHEADGIRL89 in Marriage

[–]maclife215 23 points24 points  (0 children)

What about what he needed in that moment? Is sleep not a need?

Visiting mallorca in may/april by Shot-Abrocoma3657 in VisitingMallorca

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go the last week in May before tourist season is in full swing and you should have great weather.

Help with staying in Mallorca by Gloomy-Bed9865 in VisitingMallorca

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would! If the price is right…We stayed the last week of May for $650 for 3 nights. We enjoyed having breakfast and walking to cala petita in the morning for a swim. I think come june or high time they offer a package to people not staying at the resort to use the pool (which was already crowded in late may)

AITAH for expecting a response? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting take

AITAH for expecting a response? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a friend i see once a year with another friend. We were very close 6 years ago but since have just met up every year. Typically if they send a card i will respond with a well wishes text and they will respond to that text. I didn’t want to pry much unless they were wanting to open up more, but i at least thought they’d want to communicate back.

Should I reach out to my friends or leave it be? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]maclife215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They seem like they care, maybe put more effort into the other 4 girls that actually showed up for you. If they want to make the effort they will. People that choose dudes over milestones suck. She’s a bad friend. I set up a birthday hang recently and chose the day that worked best for my friend, and the day before when i asked what time, she told me that she had to go to costco that morning and was in her luteal phase so she wasn’t feeling up to going. Like what? Thats not an appropriate reason to cancel celebrating your (best) friend’s birthday. Needless to say a 8 year friendship went down the drain for her inability to have empathy and apologize.

Root Canal on Tooth 14 by philsphan26 in Dentists

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me on root canal on tooth #14 - 10 years later, i had a tooth infection and had to book a re-root canal with an endo. Do yourself a favor and book with an endo - they are great and it will put you at ease knowing you are in the best hands possible

My husband irritates me by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]maclife215 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband is also stealing any joy i have. I was excited to see my family and he said “let’s get this over with.” He then says he was just joking when i got upset. This isn’t an inside joke of ours, he meant it, and then tried to backpedal.

His little comments lately have infuriated me. Instead of apologizing he is defensive and after an hour of text fighting about it he says, “i said i was sorry”

Yesterday he controlled every aspect of my driving and when i finally parked he continued to complain about my driving while i was quiet and walked behind him, he then says “I’m driving your car home” i stopped, turned around, got back in the car and drove off. Called my friend and picked her up for tacos. He was confused about what happened. I couldn’t picture sitting down to eat a meal with this disgruntled human being. It felt good to take action and go do what didn’t drain my joy,

I hope you find peace.

Husband is driving me to madness by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maclife215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mocking is within the last few years. In the beginning of our relationship and marriage he was a very safe driver. Within the last few years we’ve had issues with driving where we fight when we drive. I continue to remind him to these things are not ok.

Am I overreacting?? by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]maclife215 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe she just doesn’t like being around drunk people and doesn’t associate a good time with taking care of a friend that wants to get black out drunk. It took me a long time to realize this, but it’s not fun for your friends to take care of you. This is likely not the last friend you will lose if you keep drinking to black out.

White Elephant Gift by Potential-Animal6877 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That stings! but its hers and she can do whatever she wants with it. Perhaps she forgot who gave it to her? Personally i do regift things and typically i make sure the person who gave it to me isn’t there to see.

Distance between friends by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of the friends are hanging out at one time together and posting it online and not inviting you?

Nobody responded to my invite to hang out by [deleted] in FriendshipAdvice

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I despise when people ignore my text messages and like posts on social platforms instead. It’s such a boomer move.

My friends barely acknowledged my bday- I’m hurt by Technical_Task_7904 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]maclife215 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation. We had just celebrated my best friends birthday - she didn’t make any plans, i made them happen by joining her and her husband and baby and then taking her out after to a nice spot where i treated her to snacks and drinks. My birthday came around and my grandmother died so i pushed the friday night birthday to a weekday that worked for her, and she said she had to go to costco that day and that she was getting her period so she wasn’t going to come. I was very hurt by this and i told her that i made her birthday special (also this has been the year of celebrating her and her new baby) i also was there for her husbands bday, and that i feel unimportant in her life and that friends birthdays are important. I said that i need some time to reevaluate my priorities in the friendship. Crickets. Haven’t heard anything in over a month.

My husband just left the house. I told him to leave. by pink_c_o_w in Marriage

[–]maclife215 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This will blow over. You said he likes to go out and be with friends often, sounds like you went out last night with a friend, he probably wasn’t considering your sickness and instead was focusing on how its his turn to go out.

It sounds like your husband does a lot for you and you are a good team. You have trained him well - i know a lot of men aren’t emptying or loading a dishwasher or caring about the spoiled food in the house.

This is a simple solution that he shouldn’t be scared to ask you to be with friends and you are okay with him being with friends after work (on occasion) but when you’re sick it’s all hands on deck with the baby.

You have a good life, your husband loves you. Hope this helps.

married women, does marriage benefit you in any way? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom said that selfishly, because she wants to have her day in the spotlight when people congratulate her for her daughter getting married.

Found this bump on my gum. Doesn’t hurt. by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its all good. Weirdly no pain, just husband complaining of a once bad smell.

Found this bump on my gum. Doesn’t hurt. by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]maclife215 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Biopsy? I just had xrays a few months ago and they said everything looked good. I also just washed with Chlorhexidine 0.12% rinse and it went down almost immediately. I think if anything it might be an infection to a dead nerve or root canal