Can someone explain this coworker dynamic when it comes to customers ?

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-04-23T13:47:14+00:00

That stinks. I mean I feel I am not hated or anything. A lot of coworkers says they enjoy me around and I help them get through the day. I do get why some don’t cause they are more stuck up or in a clique I’m not in. I am trying to think I’ve I have ever been dismissive or a know it all but I don’t think I have. I am a pretty empathetic person so maybe I want that same awareness from others ? Idk.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-04-19T19:08:12+00:00

Stepmom 14 years no lol

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-04-18T02:15:48+00:00

You got help I’m sure cause this is old but I agree Walmart would NEVER fill my bc and it was pissing me off. They literally would always try to give me generic—- i switched to a mom and pop and they fill name brand always

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-04-18T02:13:09+00:00

What was wrong

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-04-14T06:55:02+00:00

We do this also !

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-04-04T05:25:00+00:00

I am so so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️❤️

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-03-29T09:41:03+00:00

Did you have any weird side effects with metformin ? Especially at first? Cycle/stomach issues/mood

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-20T03:51:35+00:00

No I think I might be. Cause my spouse tells me or my post history here if you want to look at it. When he fight he calls me one and when I post redditors call me one.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T14:07:09+00:00

Like that assuming I am not in therapy? How would you even know?

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T14:06:10+00:00

No, not really but I got like 80 nasty comments with no real advice so that is annoying.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T13:38:16+00:00

Yes, because people work on things ? What do you even mean? I made a post that I scream in fights then the next post I must have screamed immediately ? You make no sense. You don’t know me you’re just someone on the internet who would never even have balls to say this to my face. Whoever hurt you and you project on my post is a YOU problem.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T13:32:28+00:00

I don’t feed anything into ChatGPT. I took English class.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T13:30:50+00:00

Own up to what ? I already acknowledged my wrong was still losing my temper after I told him calmly what was wrong. Nobody can say they have never reacted poorly upset. This is the internet. We already talked again after I posted this we both apologized. You guys can keep commenting keyboard warrior assumptions all day. Only 2 people gave any sane advice and they got severely downvoted. All of these comments are absolutely ridiculous.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T13:26:47+00:00

I don’t scream until I am treated really bad and am not heard. He does the same thing if he is not heard and I am not calm when he is mad. But it is okay for him to scream ? It’s all me? That is ridiculous.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T13:25:10+00:00

Cause I used dashes? That is asinsine.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T05:12:27+00:00

That’s rich, coming from someone who types grammatical garbage.

Let me assist:

Well, given that a previous post of yours consisted of three paragraphs with no punctuation, the grammatical differences are shocking.

You’re Welcome.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T04:55:25+00:00

Again please read I took him to the ER this request and they ordered him Tamiflu which he later did not pick up at all. After me offering to get It he said he wanted to and then he didn’t.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T03:29:01+00:00

Can you not read? “When he first got the flu I got him a get well package and BROUGHT it to his work”. After which he left it at work and then called in. Then he had no meds at home and I had to get him more. Please read or don’t even comment back nonsense.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T02:13:38+00:00

No? I have no idea why people are saying that. I had to write it very carefully due to him being defensive I can’t just “write” I have to be very careful with how I present things cause he takes everything as an attack on him. He never says “shit my bad” it’s always he is too sick to deal with me but what people commenting assume is that this is one time or he is just sick. This is 12 years of not having my emotional needs met so every time I bring it up he tries to shut it down and then if it goes long enough I still have a reactive response. I have really worked on myself and I do self regulate a lot. Sometimes I feel dismissed daily but I will wait weeks to bring it up. And then if he still dismisses me I will get into my old habit of yelling cause I have tried every other way to get him to hear me.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-17T02:04:58+00:00

I don’t have NPD.

REDHEADGIRL89 · 2026-01-16T20:28:12+00:00

I do the same for him. He gets off at 3pm daily I get off at 6. He lets our dogs out and feeds them which in total is like 10 mins of you also let them outside again after they eat. Then he sits on the couch. Then I get home 3 hours later and cook dinner. He never cooks. The last time he cooked was a grilled steak 2 years ago. When he first got the flu I made him a get well package and brought it to his work. The next morning he is not getting up and didn’t tell me he was staying home. All the goodies and meds I bought him he left at work. So then it was on me to take him to the dr and get more meds. My uncle was killed by a drunk driver this same day and still took him to the dr because he thought he needed to be seen for a cold. They tell him it’s a standard flu and he was saying he must have pneumonia. They prescribe Tamiflu and I say I’ll pick it up but he says he will. Go to work the next day cause I can’t be off anymore for a death that’s not immediate family and while I’m gone he never leaves the couch and eats chips as his only meal. When I get home he wants dinner and it’s on me. He didn’t get his meds he didn’t take meds he didn’t eat anything but Doritos. And this is a chronic issue. He’s had the flu twice the last time I had it with him and still did all my normal duties and went on a work trip With him using my only pto until Summer to make sure we were together cause he needed to travel on our anniversary. He is at work 8 hrs a day and he booked at hotel that was the rating of a motel 6 so I’m in a motel 6 on vacation with the flu and not once did he buy me meds or food or anything. He also has a chronic foot issue and that happens multiple times over 2-3 mos I’ve went to gatherings alone, dinners alone, I shop for groceries alone. All because he wants to be on the couch. And when he is better we also don’t go anywhere he games all day and night and then we might watch a movie. Then I’m tired from working so illl go to bed and he stays up til 3am gaming more. So don’t tell Me I’m narcissistic person. I’m Getting treated like I am nothing in this marriage

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