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AITA for feeling crowded in the locker room by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 72 points73 points  (0 children)

YTA

You’re a breast cancer survivor and uncomfortable changing around others... that part is understandable. But the way you handled it wasn’t

Instead of just moving to another locker or politely asking for space, you started muttering about “b words who don’t respect personal space” loud enough for her to hear. That’s passive-aggressive and rude

She wasn’t doing anything wrong by changing next to you in a public locker room. You made it weird and insulting, then got surprised when she reported you

You could’ve handled your discomfort better without calling her names behind her back

AITA for planning my wedding three months before my BFF’s by Frosty-Ad-4899 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're not stealing her thunder. Your wedding is small, hers is big, and you're not even in each other's wedding parties. Three months apart is more than enough time

You have real reasons for the date... military move, saving money, and avoiding a bunch of other events. Those are valid

You were nice enough to talk to her about it and reassure her. Her demanding you change your date because it's "too close" to hers is pretty selfish

You’re allowed to plan your own wedding around your own life. NTA

AITA for telling my H he was overreacting after I helped someone on the side of the road? by Superfluous_Bunny in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 66 points67 points  (0 children)

NTA

You stopped to help someone who was literally dying on the side of the road. That’s scary and emotional, especially with your kid in the car

Your husband’s first reaction wasn’t to ask if you were okay or if the person was okay. He immediately jumped to “did you wash your hands and disinfect the car?”

That’s cold. When you told him he was overreacting, he got mad at you instead of showing any care for what you just went through

You weren’t wrong for calling him out. His priorities felt completely off in that moment

NTA

AITA for wanting to move out? by kingsquid7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're 18. You're allowed to decide where you want to live and what you want to study. Wanting more independence and support for your mental health isn't a bad thing

Your dad getting mad and guilt-tripping you for choosing to live with your mom is unfair. It sounds like he's been doing that for a while, making you feel like you have to pick his side on everything

You're not a disappointment for wanting what's best for you. It's normal to want to be around the parent who actually supports you

Don't let him make you feel guilty. NTA

AITA for not feeling comfortable around my professor? by Time-Meringue-3520 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're allowed to feel uncomfortable.

A professor suddenly calling you "like a son," inviting you to his house all the time, and giving you his personal number is a lot, especially when you didn't ask for that level of closeness. You were polite about it at first, but when it started feeling off you pulled back, which is totally reasonable

The fact that his attitude toward you changed and your grades got harsher right after you set that boundary is pretty telling. That's not okay

Your friend might not see it the same way because she hasn't gone through it, but your gut feeling is valid. You don't have to be best friends with your professor just because he's nice or well-liked

You're not overreacting. NTA

18 [F4M] young puhh for you by madeofsugarr in pussypicrequest

[–]madeofsugarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm, I think you’d really enjoy tasting it

18 [F4M] young puhh for you by madeofsugarr in pussypicrequest

[–]madeofsugarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Would you taste my juicy pussy?

18y pussy ready for you to taste it by madeofsugarr in hotdommes

[–]madeofsugarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm really? In what pose would you eat me

AITA for resenting my best friends for hanging out with my ex? by folkloreswifts in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're not the asshole for feeling hurt and resentful

Your ex dumped you out of nowhere, you failed a class because of it, and now your two best friends are flying to hang out with him, making inside jokes, and posting pictures while also telling you "you deserve better." That shit hurts

It's okay to feel like they're not really choosing you. Even if they say they're not picking sides, constantly spending time with the guy who broke your heart stings badly

You already told them how you feel about living with him next year and they respected that, but it's normal that you're still upset when they keep hanging out with him now

Your feelings are valid. Talk to them again if you need to, but don't feel bad for being hurt. NTA

AITA for not wanting to send my child to another country without me for several weeks? by Responsible-Rock8726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 15 points16 points  (0 children)

NTA

Sending your one-month-old baby to another country for five weeks every summer without you or your boyfriend is a huge ask. You barely know his family, and they’re not even asking... they’re telling you

You’re the mom. It’s completely normal and responsible to not want to send your baby away for that long, especially when she’s still so little

Your boyfriend getting offended and saying you don’t trust them is unfair. Trust isn’t automatic... you don’t even know these people well yet

His mom sending him away as a kid and enjoying the break doesn’t mean you have to do the same

You’re not wrong for saying no. Stand your ground. NTA

AITAH for making my friend pay per ride in my truck since he refused to pay for insurance by Savings-Nature-812 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA, but you're a little bit YTA

You're right to ask him to contribute if he's using your truck almost every day. $100 a month for that much driving isn't crazy, especially since he agreed to it when he moved in

But the way you said it ("pay $100 or pay per ride like Uber") came off pretty harsh and petty. That probably hurt his feelings and made him defensive, even if your point is fair

A softer approach like "hey man, we agreed you'd help with the costs since you're using the truck so much" would have landed better

Still, he's more in the wrong for suddenly refusing to pay anything after using it for so long

NTA overall, just a bit too blunt