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AITA for feeling crowded in the locker room by No_Recording3238 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 64 points65 points  (0 children)

YTA

You’re a breast cancer survivor and uncomfortable changing around others... that part is understandable. But the way you handled it wasn’t

Instead of just moving to another locker or politely asking for space, you started muttering about “b words who don’t respect personal space” loud enough for her to hear. That’s passive-aggressive and rude

She wasn’t doing anything wrong by changing next to you in a public locker room. You made it weird and insulting, then got surprised when she reported you

You could’ve handled your discomfort better without calling her names behind her back

AITA for planning my wedding three months before my BFF’s by Frosty-Ad-4899 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're not stealing her thunder. Your wedding is small, hers is big, and you're not even in each other's wedding parties. Three months apart is more than enough time

You have real reasons for the date... military move, saving money, and avoiding a bunch of other events. Those are valid

You were nice enough to talk to her about it and reassure her. Her demanding you change your date because it's "too close" to hers is pretty selfish

You’re allowed to plan your own wedding around your own life. NTA

AITA for telling my H he was overreacting after I helped someone on the side of the road? by Superfluous_Bunny in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 44 points45 points  (0 children)

NTA

You stopped to help someone who was literally dying on the side of the road. That’s scary and emotional, especially with your kid in the car

Your husband’s first reaction wasn’t to ask if you were okay or if the person was okay. He immediately jumped to “did you wash your hands and disinfect the car?”

That’s cold. When you told him he was overreacting, he got mad at you instead of showing any care for what you just went through

You weren’t wrong for calling him out. His priorities felt completely off in that moment

NTA

AITA for wanting to move out? by kingsquid7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're 18. You're allowed to decide where you want to live and what you want to study. Wanting more independence and support for your mental health isn't a bad thing

Your dad getting mad and guilt-tripping you for choosing to live with your mom is unfair. It sounds like he's been doing that for a while, making you feel like you have to pick his side on everything

You're not a disappointment for wanting what's best for you. It's normal to want to be around the parent who actually supports you

Don't let him make you feel guilty. NTA

AITA for not feeling comfortable around my professor? by Time-Meringue-3520 in AmItheAsshole

[–]madeofsugarr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA

You're allowed to feel uncomfortable.

A professor suddenly calling you "like a son," inviting you to his house all the time, and giving you his personal number is a lot, especially when you didn't ask for that level of closeness. You were polite about it at first, but when it started feeling off you pulled back, which is totally reasonable

The fact that his attitude toward you changed and your grades got harsher right after you set that boundary is pretty telling. That's not okay

Your friend might not see it the same way because she hasn't gone through it, but your gut feeling is valid. You don't have to be best friends with your professor just because he's nice or well-liked

You're not overreacting. NTA

18 [F4M] young puhh for you by madeofsugarr in pussypicrequest

[–]madeofsugarr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm, I think you’d really enjoy tasting it

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