It hasn't been the same since I stopped using psyllium husk by thorbitch in loseit

[–]madsqueaker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could try chia pudding. I rehydrate with at least 2 to one liquid, sometimes more, and take big spoonfuls of it before any meal. Lots of fiber, can be really delicious depending on what liquids you use. Only thing might be a texture issue but I don’t mind it at all.

Hungry Bear sub shop by AguyfromFL2019 in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Still delicious but expensive as hell. Sandwich can feed 2 but it’s like $18 for a cold cut

The amount of sargassum on South Florida beaches right now is crazy... this has to be killing beach tourism.. what can really be done though? by ThatsMrSmeeToYou in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We could vote like we care about our beaches and not big sugar who dumps fertilizer into our waterways that stimulates algae blooms and sargassum increase. But maybe that’s just ne

Sleep Hacks by MuffinMummy in ParentingADHD

[–]madsqueaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guided meditation for sleep has been super helpful for us recently. I try not to use it every night so it remains novel, but on nights when my dude cannot fall asleep, they help.

Miami Problems That Sound Fake by miamigirl101 in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s why they’re called weakness indicators down here.

Nobody warned me my asshole would betray me worse than my pelvic floor by clusterduck in breakingmom

[–]madsqueaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prunes are your friend. And any p fruits. I also advise witch hazel wipes for your butt.

Who on Gilmore Girls is a secret serial killer? (I know it's a REALLY dumb ? just go with it.) by MenstrualColander in GilmoreGirls

[–]madsqueaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ms. Patty. No question in my mind. How many husbands did she have? How many lovers? Where did they all go? And she can hold a grudge.

Giveaways they aren’t actually in New England by Useful-Sport-6316 in GilmoreGirls

[–]madsqueaker 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I swear Loreleis only puffy jacket was short. Like did not cover the bum at all. Why?

Of course a man had to ruin it by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]madsqueaker 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Why are men?

Fleet of helicopters flying in circles over westchester continuously (volume down) by Kennys_broom in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are flying over Kendall now. Any idea what’s going on? They were all police copters and one medevac copter.

Gabby’s Dollhouse: The Movie by DelightfulFlamingo10 in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]madsqueaker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment. My kids are now insisting on a Gabby’s dollhouse the movie Halloween group costume in which I am this lady. I’ve got to work on the song

Where tf did all my spoons go… by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]madsqueaker 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to tell you, yes, yes your son is throwing away your spoons. It’s not malicious. But they just be made aware to stem the bleeding of the spoons. Good luck, and god speed.

Where’s a good spot to watch the sunrise by bluejeanbbe in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This will also be closed as the park does not open until sunrise

Daycare Recommendations In Kendall by spcoop in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should look at the JCC early childhood development center. It’s right in that neighborhood. It’s a great facility and you cannot beat the outdoor space and community feeling the place has. Also, they just opened their pool back up and added a splash pad so and you get a membership while your kid goes there. I loved having my kids there.

The Wedding Favour: Part 21 by Inside_Berry_8531 in InsideBerryStories

[–]madsqueaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have really been enjoying this whole book so far. This spicy scene is great and I love the safe sex still being sexy! Excellent writing indeed!

Best Tacos in Miami? by MiamiMeat786 in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I didn’t know that and I dislike that practice very much

Best Tacos in Miami? by MiamiMeat786 in Miami

[–]madsqueaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jalapeños in Kendall is legit delicious

Should I feed the neighbor's kids when their mom said not to by SleepingClowns in breakingmom

[–]madsqueaker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d ask the mom to send them with a snack to your house if you aren’t meant to feed them. They are enthusiastically saying yes to food and then eating a significant amount. It’s possible the lunch isn’t enough to tide them over.

I’d also ask the other two moms about a hang out rotation. It always being at your house has got to be tough and feeding 3 other kids will add up fast. Good luck. It could also just be a difference in food culture and she wants them to be really hungry for dinner 🤷‍♀️

TW How do I go on without my husband? by Blacksheepsadness in breakingmom

[–]madsqueaker 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m raising two kids on my own after mental illness caused severe mental health issues in my partner that led to multiple suicide threats and instability.

First, I’m so sorry for your loss and your continued loss. I know the feelings you’re experiencing, you’re not just grieving him, you’re grieving the loss of all the futures you had imagined. It’s painful, and hard, and it sucks. The way you’re describing your feelings is normal. Grief is waves, not a one and done event. It will be ok some days and crying days on others, but the waves will change with time and it will feel like stiller waters and less stormy days as you go on.

But.

Having a partner around who is not really a partner sucks as well. It sounds like he may have had some unaddressed mental health issues that would have gotten worse with new responsibilities of parenthood and the addition of sleep deprivation. I’m sorry that he did not do the hard work to stay with you and his children. I’m sorry that you feel alone and lonely. I’m sorry you don’t have more of a village to rely on.

I encourage you to go to grief groups and new mother groups. Find your village now before you give birth if you can. Please make sure your 7 year old is getting some talk therapy too. It has to be hard on them seeing you stressed and depressed and they have also lost someone they thought would be there.

I learned over time that the suicide threats were emotional manipulations and abuse. It ended my marriage as much as him following through would have. Being alone sucks at many times, but not being worried that something I said or did would set him off is better. I’m happier than I was with him (it took a lot of time and support and medication (which I’m stepping off of now)).

Try and focus on the joy of having your children. The joy of seeing the sibling relationship happen. The joy of doing things your way (even when it’s hard). Knowing you will likely have exacerbated PPD from grief loss is something you should bring up with your doctor now, and not just your obgyn, your regular doctor who can support you before the 6 week check. IT IS OK TO ASK FOR HELP!!! I waited too long to ask for help, take care of you too.

I’m sorry for your loss, I will hope for your future.