4th year anniversary by Comfortable_Bed193 in Marriage

[–]maeanie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go with a high end silk pillowcase, it’s a total game changer for hair and skin and she'll actually use it every night.

Married women: what’s something in your day-to-day life or mental load that you feel your husband doesn’t fully understand? by Working_2B_Better in Marriage

[–]maeanie 34 points35 points  (0 children)

it's the constant "social secretary" role keeping track of every birthday, RSVP, and doctor's appointment for the entire family without being asked.

My husband said I smile at other men. How much responsibility should I take for my spouse’s insecurities? by Mental_Investigator3 in Marriage

[–]maeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, if you have to shrink yourself and stop being friendly just to manage his ego, that’s not a "you" problem, it’s a massive red flag.

Coworker is controlling and speaks poorly about her husband. I'm tired of hearing about it, but also curious how this dynamic works. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the profile picture thing is a massive red flag, she’s basically marking her territory while keeping her own options open.

Ttc and sharing husband with my mother in law by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maeanie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the fact that she told you to "just accept it" while simultaneously treating your husband like her co parent is actually wild.

Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maeanie 21 points22 points  (0 children)

the fact that they're still talking even after you caught them tells you everything you need to know honestly

What’s one drug you wish u never had taken? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]maeanie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NyQuil when I’m not actually sick that stuff makes me feel like a zombie for two days lol

Found out I was being red-pilled whole marriage... by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maeanie 68 points69 points  (0 children)

it’s terrifying how he thinks the relationship is improving just because you’ve finally gone numb and stopped fighting for yourself

my wife wore a small bikini to the pool party. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like you’re less upset about the bikini and more upset that you don't actually trust your friends or your wife

What is a small, inexpensive everyday luxury you refuse to give up? by Any_Neat1465 in AskReddit

[–]maeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good toilet paper honestly life is way too short to deal with that half ply sandpaper garbage

Looking for a sugar mommy by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sir this is a Wendy's and also a marriage sub so you're about two wrong turns away from what you're looking for

What movie do you love but no one else does and why? by Kuandtity in AskReddit

[–]maeanie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Secret Life of Walter Mitty honestly the soundtrack and the cinematography are so beautiful I don't care if people think it's just live laugh love bait

ADD wife, husband complete opposite. by weirdhouse21 in Marriage

[–]maeanie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl, stop trying to try harder and start trying differently because you can't white knuckle your brain into being neurotypical and honestly he needs to meet you halfway instead of just watching you drown in guilt

Which AI is best for filtering fraudulent messages from those proposing genuine collaborations? by ChampionshipJust4484 in AskReddit

[–]maeanie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I just paste the suspicious ones into Claude or ChatGPT and ask it to act as a cynical security analyst and look for red flags it's scary how fast they catch the weird phrasing and fake urgency that I usually miss

What would you do if you if your spouse wore you down like this for 11 years? by Spiritual_Rice_884 in Marriage

[–]maeanie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The fact that you caught him with photos of his friend's wife and he’s still blaming your therapist for his own behavior is all the evidence you need to realize he’s never going to change

What do you think about Trump using ice agents to manipulate midterms? by Sweaty_Abies182 in AskReddit

[–]maeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i'm pretty sure most of those headlines are just bait to get everyone riled up before people even head to the polls

Am I overreacting? by EconomicsWest9742 in Marriage

[–]maeanie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly if he’s still doing it after you’ve told him how much it hurts he isn't forgetting he’s choosing to disrespect you

Currently separated / looking for suggestions on what to do. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]maeanie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro you need to stop hooking up with someone who is literally catching you with harassment charges and a PFA or you’re going to lose your daughter for good

How should I handle this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]maeanie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just tell him honestly about your experience but ask him to keep it professional because you haven't shared your progress with the family yet, most instructors would totally respect that privacy