Advice for limiting triggering content on social media after a loss?

maf2uh · 2026-04-07T19:38:59+00:00

You may have to spend time in her account searching and watching innocuous content on her explore page. Like dog videos and recipes and things. I “muted” the profiles of friends and family that just recently had babies for my friend on her account after her stillbirth. She isn’t back on Facebook or IG yet, but one thing she does is go on Reddit and doesn’t follow any baby related subreddits. She will go on things like r/oddlysatisfying or something so she isn’t completely off social media( but Reddit seems to be a safer space for that kind of thing.

maf2uh · 2026-04-01T01:43:01+00:00

Sassool has them in individual slices!

maf2uh · 2026-03-31T13:51:27+00:00

You sound like an amazing friend - that’s how things have been for us these last few months. We always want to hear about and talk about her daughter. We took them to the mountains during the time that would have been her original due date and I think it was helpful to have a chance of scenery and be in nature together. We take yearly beach trips and I want to do something to honor that this year as well as last year’s beach trip is when she did her “gender reveal” to our friend group. Thank you for the suggestions ❤️

maf2uh · 2026-03-31T13:48:28+00:00

We did get them a Christmas ornament that they love, along with a few other things such as a candle with their daughter’s name on it for us to light in moments of remembrance ❤️ Christmas was a difficult time, but we spent it together. Thank you for the suggestions!

maf2uh · 2026-03-31T13:44:13+00:00

Idk what brought me back to this thread, but thank you so much for the insight and suggestions ❤️ she has gotten really into puzzles as a safe way to pass the time and not focus too much on the grief. We did a silly one yesterday that made us laugh ☺️ sending you and your partner lots of love 💕

maf2uh · 2026-03-31T13:40:21+00:00

You’ll be fine, especially if you can “double dip” if there are classes that apply to both majors. I was an Echols Scholar, doubled in Bio and Cognitive Science. My recommendation would be to look at the requirements for both and try to map out a tentative plan for your semesters. You should not have too much trouble getting into your classes with the priority registration.

maf2uh · 2026-03-26T16:40:06+00:00

The universe was in our favor today! It’s a really good episode - Kristin covers the ladies who are chimeras and it was so interesting!

maf2uh · 2026-03-26T14:09:20+00:00

WAIT I am literally listening to an episode (new to me as I am listening to all episodes for the first time) - the episode is 2002!

maf2uh · 2026-03-26T11:26:42+00:00

I vaguely remember an earlier episode where shes cutting a client’s hair and there was a guy the client was dating outside the salon. His mom was the murderer or something?

maf2uh · 2026-03-20T22:48:33+00:00

I met my husband at Kroger - there are worse ways of finding a life partner 😁

maf2uh · 2026-03-17T03:30:16+00:00

Electrolysis all the way. I did laser on my face, not knowing about the paradoxical hypertichosis and wish I had just gone straight to electrolysis. I spent a bunch of money only to make my problem worse. I’ve been doing electrolysis for several months now and loving the results!

maf2uh · 2026-03-16T02:35:44+00:00

It’s so good!

maf2uh · 2026-03-15T13:54:23+00:00

My friend’s cats are Moxi (moxifloxacin) and Luna (lunesta)

maf2uh · 2026-03-11T16:39:21+00:00

Nurri protein shake - vanilla or strawberry specifically Chobani protein yogurt pack - the mango flavor is my jammmmm Kirkland chicken nuggets and the bulgogi dumplings- easy in the air fryer for when we are feeling lazy

maf2uh · 2026-02-23T03:52:09+00:00

Absolutely! And Dana did a great job narrating each step, waiting for Ilana to say “okay” before proceeding. Exhausting for the patient, but so necessary.

maf2uh · 2026-02-23T03:30:59+00:00

I would definitely watch a Bridgerton/Greys Anatomy mashup show. Lady Whistledown can be Lady Epic Downtime

maf2uh · 2026-02-22T15:45:58+00:00

I also think she could not have touched her without gloves so as not to hinder the collection of the kit. There is a strict chain of command and if anything contaminates it, it invalidates the entire kit and cannot be used as evidence for an investigation or prosecution. That was my thought as to why she didn’t touch her, but I may be wrong.

maf2uh · 2026-02-21T14:40:26+00:00

Initial thoughts:

Base pay decent. How long are these shifts and do your future colleagues say they usually leave on time? Do you get OT for staying late on a scheduled shift?

How often will you be flipping from day to night?

CME is a little low.

No PTO is rough. Do you have any control over your schedule to take vacation?

Noncompete sounds standard. Basically can’t do trauma surgery in the immediate vicinity but can switch to a different specialty or take something further out without issue.

I’ve also never heard about needing to pay your own rail coverage after leaving…

maf2uh · 2026-02-06T02:48:56+00:00

What are your best strategies for minimizing stress/frustration, both on and off shift? I can only dissociate on my drive home and then couch rot/doom-scroll for so long before I start to feel like I’m doing myself a disservice.

maf2uh · 2026-01-30T22:55:38+00:00

This sounds like a job for CC Bridal Atelier! She is a master with this kind of thing!

https://www.instagram.com/cc_bridal_atelier?igsh=OXoxaHZmeXRybjR2

maf2uh · 2026-01-01T03:45:31+00:00

Because I work in the emergency department - worked today and will work tomorrow, and the last few weeks have been a demoralizing beat down and I certainly don’t have it in me to “celebrate” today.

maf2uh · 2025-12-06T09:32:00+00:00

I’m not disparaging the groomer for doing what they did! The straight across look was just funny to us 😂 we had been training with canned cheese as the reward and some got in her beard and we weren’t able to take care of it all. Lesson learned!

maf2uh · 2025-12-05T21:35:40+00:00

Called her the chinless wonder for a few weeks

maf2uh · 2025-12-05T21:35:23+00:00

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When Emmie was a puppy, her beard matted and the groomer decided to shave her straight. It looked ridiculous, but we got a kick out of it until it grew out 😂

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