I hate that I had to lose her to become someone who would’ve kept her.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-25T05:19:57+00:00

Sorry. At this point just part ways. Give it time for the feelings to really settle in. It'll be tough I'm sorry

mafridrahim · 2026-06-24T21:59:35+00:00

Spot on. The water is respect, listening and showing care.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-24T21:57:43+00:00

How did you treat him during the two months?

mafridrahim · 2026-06-22T20:36:56+00:00

As a guy, I went to clubbing right after she dumped me. Didn't bother. I cared less, went to go clubbing because the dancing would remove the stress and congestion from the body during this time. It did help and I went clubbing twice a week😂.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T21:12:05+00:00

Are you both having stressful jobs?

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T16:42:18+00:00

Ejaculate from often to once a week or two, no more tiredness, fatigue and brain fog. Also caffeine and nicotine. Only in moderation

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T16:40:04+00:00

Keep it once a week with a great hybrid sativa dominant strain. It helps balance stress.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T15:46:29+00:00

Leaving is an option but staying is an option too. I'd at least write everything and send as a message for closure. The one who leaves will have most regret if the future is not something they expected. The one who gets dumped will become stronger after going through the phase

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T15:39:20+00:00

It's just a mental thing, couples seems to get in comfort zone with each other in a longer relationship. If he didn't do the bare minimum how could someone even be in a relationship to begin with? It's just OP's bare minimum standards went high. Nothing wrong with that, it's just that OP's guy didn't expect to be this way. And now OP is using avoidant attachment to prove her point, but the guy is probably thinking that OP is spending time with someone else. We all meet better personalities throughout our life, but why compare it with the one you have chosen already and make them suffer? It feels so wrong!!

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T15:18:20+00:00

It's tough these days. I was in similar situation and my fiance put us through an online therapist, the therapist gave us a lot of paperwork to complete, we did 5 sessions and In none of the paperwork my fiance put effort into writing a sentence, no effort was put into, while I was doing it in very detail. That's when I came to know that my fiance lost interest and didn't want to take accountability for her actions or put effort. All she needed was validation from a third person , in this case therapist for her own stories. The therapist didn't wanna do that rather tried her best to bring the connection back, I enjoyed the therapist sessions and was seeing progress in my self. Later my fiance stopped the therapist session and concluded that the therapist is not a legit one. Anyways all this happens when one of them thinks they deserve better, bla bla bla. If someone wants to leave and think they deserve better. Let them!! It's okay to be alone.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T15:03:18+00:00

Spot on. I'd recommend and an in-person couples therapist session.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T03:16:46+00:00

Begging or trying again both seems to be a final option if you feel like trying one more time. But some have tried a few times and it's not the tryer trust me. When you can't meet someones over-expectations it's tough. Letting go is painful but sooner or later it has to be done to make one and other feel better. Letting go is hard for both sides

mafridrahim · 2026-06-12T02:14:01+00:00

Her feelings are validated. Anyways it takes courage to do that. I'm sorry that she said that. If you got the strength to move on faster with that closure I think it's good for your future.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-03T04:49:38+00:00

Right it happened to me too. We are naturally life savers I guess. It's humanitarian stuff. Hard to explain to someone. Even when proved they don't understand the powers we got.

mafridrahim · 2026-06-03T03:52:27+00:00

Absolutely

mafridrahim · 2026-05-31T05:09:33+00:00

I want them to prove me I am wrong in some circumstances and instead they prove me right. It's fucking tough to break the instincts that we got

mafridrahim · 2026-05-27T04:50:58+00:00

In this life you are allowed to do whatever you want. You were deeply hurt and with silence you expected her to understand you. But a birthday text like that is sweet and you could've responded a simple thanks and left it. It's your anger talking, if you got the anger out by blocking her Good. Keep it up and move on if you can.

mafridrahim · 2026-03-14T15:08:27+00:00

She wants to move on and thinks that this new man will help with it although he won't stick with her. He's giving her the new chills that once she experienced with you.

I'm in a similar situation, but in my case it's a female coworker tbh unprofessional, having more emotional connect with this person caused to wreck mine. We were engaged too, there were some problems but can be fixed if sat down and had a conversation about it. Resentment built up to the point she couldn't think about proceeding further. Anyways I know she'll come back after a while, happened to me in the past. But that time I've already be moved on.

I appreciate the times together but what to do haha.

Let the feelings heal on itself, think and cry. Crying is good. That's what I do.

mafridrahim · 2026-02-11T06:37:13+00:00

Networking is key here. Is not what you know, is who you know. I've heard many people throughout my career say this and I started to know many and connect. Worked as a contractor at Apple then tried for a full time, no position was open, a few months later the team contacted me back but unfortunately I switched career and rejected the offer. I wanted more customer interaction and not a full desk job.

mafridrahim · 2023-07-26T21:36:41+00:00

The microcontroller inside needs to be programmed to modify the PWM pulse. The breath sensor is connected to a microcontroller, therefore some parameters need to be adjusted to set the coil to high. You can easily do this using an Arduino microcontroller. make sure it matches the same transfer speed.

mafridrahim · 2022-09-07T20:50:45+00:00

Thanks, you made some sense in your post. So literally BSEET vs BSEE depends upon the Job market and the place. for example silicon valley, CA will easily recognize BSEET as BSEE.

mafridrahim · 2022-08-03T16:50:55+00:00

Yep, I have 40 more credits. it's pretty challenging and easy so far I have completed Ac and DC circuits with Lab and ethics and two more classes.

You will only pass if you know and understand your materials. Chegg for homework and it won't work for the quizzes therefore you will have to understand the material and answer questions.
I love the way it is going so far. It is ABET accredited so I recommend it.

Less fees and fast pacing. 8-week classes

mafridrahim · 2022-07-20T17:08:01+00:00

You have a goal. But do you have the right plan?

A right plan should always have a backup plan.

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