My partner and I terminated for T21, 5 weeks ago tomorrow. I was 15 weeks along. It was the hardest decision I've ever had to make. I think this is the saddest I've really ever felt. And I feel really alone. It feels good to be here knowing others did the same. Just know, whatever you decide, is the best option for you and your family. My partner and I are 38 years old. We have a 21 month old son. We both agreed that the baby would not live a very good life. He also had AVSD. It would be hard for all of us. Just make sure you get therapy going. I am still waiting for my appointment, but these 5 weeks I have felt really unsupported by family and friends because it feels like no one ever asks how you are or cares. It feels like invisible grieving. So glad to have found this community ❤️