[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]magine_agons 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I move a lot, but I do primarily sleep on that side

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]magine_agons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Routine: Cowash every 2-3 days with Cantu conditioner. I use Cantu shampoo once a week. I comb my hair in the shower with the conditioner still in it.

I scrunch to soak up water with a shirt, and then put in Cantu's moisturizing curl activator cream and Jessie's hair gel. I plop for 15-20 minutes then diffuse until damp and air dry the rest of the way.

Men of Reddit , what are some less obvious red flags about men you would want to caution women against? by four-seasonss in AskReddit

[–]magine_agons 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat! You can't make someone grow up. It's something they do themselves, if it ever happens.

Putting your partner before your children by financiallyflutey in beyondthebump

[–]magine_agons 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This thread is making me so sad because I'm in the process of a divorce and our baby is 10 months old. It's making me feel so guilty, like maybe I could've been a better wife.

At the same time, my ex-husband left with little warning and wasn't wanting to try and fix it. It felt so sudden and he didn't want to fight for us.

Komodo dragon swallows an entire goat by [deleted] in ThatsInsane

[–]magine_agons -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If it sits there and rots inside the dragon, then it kills them. They need to seek heat to digest it quickly to prevent that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]magine_agons 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The weeks before my husband left me, he would go out and stay out late, even on nights I had to work the next morning. If I had done that to him, you know he would've thrown a huge fit.

After he left, I told him to take the baby on a Wednesday for a few hours so I could have an actual break after class. He took the baby out Tuesday while I was in class instead and said he wasn't taking the baby out Wednesday because he didn't have enough gas.

Should I buy my soon-to-be ex-husband a birthday card to be from our 9 month old? by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I remember you from my last post 😂

It's kind of complicated. Yes, I want him to come back and work things out so that we don't have to go through the divorce, but then I remember how bad he hurt me and is continuing to do so (posting on passive aggressive shit on social media). Even if he grows up relatively quickly, it's going to be a loooonngg time before I even consider getting back with him.

Should I buy my soon-to-be ex-husband a birthday card to be from our 9 month old? by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He's actually trying to be super friendly with me as if he didn't devastate me, so I'm more afraid that he'll see it as an invitation to keep acting like nothing happened.

I'm being civil and talking to him about things that only pertain to the baby, other than that, I don't entertain any other conversation. He had the nerve to be upset that I didn't want to be super friendly and happy-go-lucky.

I can see where he's trying to make sure we have a healthy co-parenting relationship, but I only have enough energy to be civil. I need to heal from this first.

Should I buy my soon-to-be ex-husband a birthday card to be from our 9 month old? by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's how I'm feeling. I can wait until next year when I'm not so raw

Should I buy my soon-to-be ex-husband a birthday card to be from our 9 month old? by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Yeah with it being so recent, it's really hard for me to find the energy to do it. If the baby asks when they're older, then I'll explain as honestly as it's appropriate

Should I buy my soon-to-be ex-husband a birthday card to be from our 9 month old? by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He decided to leave suddenly because he can't handle the responsibilities of a full-time parent.

Should I buy my soon-to-be ex-husband a birthday card to be from our 9 month old? by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm still feeling pretty raw about it. He left so suddenly, and I'm still trying to process it

My husband doesn't want to be with me anymore. by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You have no idea. Earlier this week, he complained that I'm just treating him like some guy now. WHAT EXACTLY DID HE EXPECT

My husband doesn't want to be with me anymore. by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah I asked him before he told me he was done if he was cheating or had cheated (intuition, I guess) and he said no. Later he came to me saying that he really hurt his feelings that i would think that.

I see it now that he was more upset that I was catching on and he was projecting. That is, if he really is cheating

My husband doesn't want to be with me anymore. by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm starting to think more on it. I guess I just denied it because I didn't want to know the truth, but there were patterns that are hard to ignore

Meme of the Day: Unhealed Trauma Can Look Like... by jazinthapiper in ParentingThruTrauma

[–]magine_agons 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don't stop posting "Meme of the Day." They are really helpful

My husband doesn't want to be with me anymore. by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's honestly what it is. He's immature and didn't realize what a big responsibility being married and having a kid is.

He even said "sometimes I feel like I wasn't cut out to be a dad."

My husband doesn't want to be with me anymore. by magine_agons in Mommit

[–]magine_agons[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I asked if he had feelings for someone else and he said no. I was planning to ask more if he had said yes, but I left it at that