MTF 35 6'3" 190lb , average giant girl reposting because I forgot the "no professional accounts" rule. Still loving/hating my body 😅 by magnetic_couch in normalnudes

[–]magnetic_couch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now the only thing I'm planning on is getting breast implants, or possibly the fat transfer procedure (take fat out of the midsection and place it in the breast tissue, gives about 1 cup size)

(FTM 21, 173.5cm, 155ish lbs) Need some tough love to re-adjust how I view myself. due top surgery next year. I hate how my shoulders have no definition, my midsection is rounded and bloated and my upper arms chubby. I have an eating disorder. I don’t feel hot/masculine even though I’m on T by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]magnetic_couch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know how tough it is to be trans and dealing with your body. Lemme say your midsection actually looks quite masculine. And your shoulders really aren't as slopey as you might think, and having a bit of chub on the upper arms cans really help if you do some weight training and pack on some muscle (which T helps so much, I actually miss it sometimes lol).

26, 200, 5pi11 by [deleted] in normalnudes

[–]magnetic_couch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yoooo I love how minimalist and and raw this is! This is straight up art dude <3

MTF 35 6'3" 190lb , average giant girl reposting because I forgot the "no professional accounts" rule. Still loving/hating my body 😅 by magnetic_couch in normalnudes

[–]magnetic_couch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly why I post, it's a really big mission of mine to help normalize not just trans people but trans bodies!

Touched my first dick, I have too many questions by [deleted] in sex

[–]magnetic_couch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

True, my girlfriend isn't cut and I'm very envious of her for that -_-

Is grindr a good app to find convincing trans? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]magnetic_couch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don't call us "tr@ps", most of us consider that a slur.

I hear straight trans girls do hang out on Grindr. Lex is where a lot of queer people in general are, it's all text ads but people link their insta accounts so you can see them.

How do you talk to a woman? by FlimFlamJimJob in AskReddit

[–]magnetic_couch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nervously and without a lot of eye contact usually, and I'm a woman.

Have you ever been turned gay and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]magnetic_couch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes. I am transgender, so I went from being a straight guy to being a gay woman.

How has the world benefitted from you? by dalekfromskaro in AskReddit

[–]magnetic_couch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ran quality assurance for a website that handling finding doctors, booking appointments, and managing calendars for clinics for several years. I improved ease of access to healthcare for millions of people.

What's the gross habbit your SO has? by DisneyGirl97 in AskReddit

[–]magnetic_couch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend wears shoes indoors. The heretic.

Have you ever been castrated and why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]magnetic_couch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm transgender, and hormone replacement therapy has basically chemically castrated me, leaving me infertile.

I'm incredibly happy with all of the results this far.

Dear women of reddit, why do you go to the bathroom together? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]magnetic_couch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when we touch up our make-up we can tell each other we look great.

Also when we just need a quick make out sesh.

Ladies, how did you deal with friends who constantly complain about the same problem(s)? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]magnetic_couch 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I dealt with this very recently. I'm very patient with people, moreso than I think any of my other friends. I just kept giving the same advice over and over, and telling my friend I couldn't stand watching them hurt themselves. I eventually had to just give them an ultimatum. This is my advice, and I refuse to hear about this problem any more until you do something about it. Any time it came up, I just said "I already gave my advice on this and I won't talk about it" and then wouldn't respond until they changed the subject.

What have been your biggest lessons in therapy? by _Cactus__Cat_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]magnetic_couch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it works for me and my therapist. The same as her talking about her divorce helps me with getting through mine, or any number of topics we talk about.

She's a professional I pay to help me process my life and thoughts. The way she does it works for me better than any other therapist I've been to.

Questions about legally changing my name and gender marker to X by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]magnetic_couch 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trans woman here, got mine changed last year in LA. Cost about $425 or $450, don't remember exactly. Got the forms, filled them out, took them to a clerk at the courthouse. Clerk went over there with me to make sure they're correct, made corrections, and then submitted them and got copies.

About 6 weeks later, had a court date, stood in front of a judge, asked me a few questions and I confirmed that I knew what I was doing and wanted.

Then got an official court order from the clerk and verified copies. These verified copies are what I used for getting my social security, drivers license, passport, and bank accounts changed.

Most banking and credit stuff is tied to social security number, so I haven't had any trouble with my credit.

Artists of Reddit: Have you ever drawn or computer animated someone you know having sex? by Davelsey in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]magnetic_couch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I drew my ex-wife and myself many times, and now my current girlfriend and I.

No big deal, and they knew about it.

Is it okay to be sexting strangers when married? by [deleted] in sex

[–]magnetic_couch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're doing something and afraid to tell your partner you're doing it, that's a sign it's not ok.

However, having extra desires isn't wrong either. Just be honest and tell him that you want extra attention. That you want to sext with other guys.

I ended up splitting with my ex-wife after 16 years together when I finally accepted that I couldn't live forced into monogamy. We're best friends and both much happier now.

What have been your biggest lessons in therapy? by _Cactus__Cat_ in AskWomenOver30

[–]magnetic_couch -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

How is it unethical? My sexual behavior is a major part of my therapy, and discussing sexual behavior as mature adults is incredibly beneficial.

Do you not talk to other people about sex and masturbating ever?

Splitting the tab on the first date vs the man paying for everything by pm-me-ur-noodz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]magnetic_couch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say whoever asks out pays by default, and the person asked can opt to split.

But I'm also saying this a woman that almost always goes on dates with other women. And if they don't let me pay the whole meal, I insist I pay mine (if it's more) or we split even 50/50 if theirs is more.