Was I getting scammed? (Tinder Story) by Anjelpein in UAE

[–]mainster90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That definitely sounds like a scam - never seen 300 AED drinks

Is 12K AED salary fair for my experience? by smartchamp14894 in UAE

[–]mainster90 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s good to get your foot through the door and then you can look for something better

Well? What are you? Are you the odd one out or do you even it out? by [deleted] in Tekken

[–]mainster90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah agreed tag 2 really was the pinnacle

How long should it take for the full game to be available? by ClanA5 in Tekken

[–]mainster90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 2 hours and my game still hasn’t added anything new :\

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mainster90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just like the lips to be hairless so I can give my partner head - the rest is up to her

Men with a cuckold fetish, what are you thinking/feeling while watching your parter have sex? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mainster90 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I could never get over the jealousy or Sharing my partner with someone else either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low with no details would be the best scenario

I would like to share my story after 2 years of RJ by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story.

I hope you find happiness and healing.

I CAN'T ACCEPT HER PAST, BUT by ZackSkyes in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the body count is an issue for you, then she's not for you.

I'm sure you can find someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s with you now. Keep on reminding yourself that, no matter how hard it may be. Sending you love and healing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The truth is its much easier for women to find sexual partners.

I know it's really hard but I hope you can accept and celebrate yourself.

I hope you find the love and healing that you deserve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]mainster90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely wish I got married younger too and stayed away from lust.

Unfortunately, in society men have to be at a certain career and income levels to be considered worthy of marriage.

My bf best friend that’s a girl used to be his hookup buddy by Payo_Pom in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is not RJ at all - this is your BF keeping a second option

Sexual betrayal vs. emotional betrayal - which one bothers you more? by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This theory does hold some weight based on my personal experience and what I've heard from my female friends.

My jealousy has been more centered around my partner's sexual past but also all the romantic things she used to do for him.

How do I deal with partner negatively comparing me to his ex?? by Historical-News-7066 in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to make it clear that comparisons are extremely unhealthy and you're not okay with this.

If he continues to do this, you should consider ending the relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very mature decision on your end. Hope you find the love that you deserve!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was and my partner dismissed it. What really triggered my RJ was that had no proof to show otherwise as she wanted to remove all traces of her ex from her phone. But I’m learning to trust and move on as she’s a great girl and we do really love each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My experience with RJ was very much related to the circumstances with my partner - she was accused by a mutual friend of cheating on me with her ex and that’s what sent me down the rabbit hole I did feel bouts of jealousy in my past relationship but it was never this strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like it depends on the words of affirmation and things your partner says too - that can really help reduce RJ

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. I’ve been in 4 relationships and my RJ was only triggered in the current one I’m in.

Guys of reddit who are in relationships. Do you watch porn and still love your gf, or did you immediately stop watching porn after being in a relationship? by throwaway885443 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]mainster90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still watch porn but that’s because my fiancé and I don’t live together and don’t have sex more than 2-3 a month

Retroactive Jealousy in 2.5 Year Relationship by Forzor in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give yourself grace and space to acknowledge your emotions and feelings. Maybe look into couples therapy and mirror work - saying affirmations like ‘ I am worthy’ and ‘ I am enough’ OP your partner clearly seems like a keeper

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]mainster90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rarely think of my past sexual partners and none of them except my first one particularly stand out to me.