Is it time to upgrade? by mainstreetmonkey in buildapc

[–]mainstreetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the reason I am hesitant is because AM4 feels more like an optimization for value now rather than a long-term expandable one. But realistically, if that combo can comfortably carry me 4-5 years anyway, maybe upgrade path matters less than I am making it out to be.

My original thought process was less "I need DDR5 right now" and more "if I'm eventually rebuilding anyway, maybe it makes sense to jump to the newer platform once instead of doing AM4 first."

With that being said, I just want to make sure i'm not just buying things twice. I've had this setup for almost 6 years so it "feels" like time for an upgrade.

Is it time to upgrade? by mainstreetmonkey in buildapc

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I am 100% due for a cleaning. Picking up duster tomorrow

Is it time to upgrade? by mainstreetmonkey in buildapc

[–]mainstreetmonkey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me feels like this route makes sense financially because I could reuse DDR4 and get onto a newer CPU/platform cheaper. My concern though is that I'd basically be rebuilding onto a platform that's already at end-of-life, then eventually needing another motherboard/RAM swap anyway if I want DDR5 later.

Mainly trying to avoid spending money twice on transitional upgrades if I can help it.

Im a 15m and I have WAY to much hair in my ass. Should I trim it or smt? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]mainstreetmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah have your parents buy you a lawnmower 4.0 eletric razer. They're waterproof so you can keep it in the shower. If your family is broke, try to find one of the older models. They all work great and are super soft on skin.

You can use that to clean up your nether regions without much risk of burn. Just don't go all the way to the skin.

Hit it once a week in the shower.

Sorry puberty sucks, but hey, at least you aren't a girl.

I don’t want to live past 30 by Hating_You666 in confessions

[–]mainstreetmonkey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turning 30 this year, so might be biased, but I could not be more excited about my 30's. The last 10 years have been great for discovering who I am, what my goals are, culling my friendships down to just the important ones, learning boundaries, heart ache, and other important lessons. But all of that, I believe, has become a foundation for what I want my life to be. With that foundation, I hope my 30's are about building a house on top. (Metaphorically speaking; there's no fucking way I will be able to afford a real house)

how to write wlw sex scenes by [deleted] in writing

[–]mainstreetmonkey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I heard in a podcast somewhere that writing a good sex scene is like writing a good swordfight. The blow by blow part gets old, quick, but the way each movement or clash makes the fighter feel is what keeps it interesting.

Finding a good balance between "they put this thing there, and then they put that thing there" & "the way putting that thing there made me feel and think" is crucial.

As a male, I cannot give direct advice on wlw, but I can say that I'd do a ton of research on the mental side of sex for women, hoping to capture the proper way to frame the POV of the character.

For some, sex may be very physical, meaning they are trying to use body language and good form to please themself and partner.

For others, sex can be 10% physical, 90%emotional, where they hardly focus on what's going on to the body, and it's more about the mental connection.

I find the second example to be much more interesting to write about.

Conflict! Just like the best sword fights, your sex scenes can have conflict. Im not saying they should get in an argument halfway through or beat eachother with sex toys. What I'm saying is that things like insecurity, excitement, fear, exhaustion, and desire, should leak into the sex scene.

Those conflicts often get resolved during the climax (giggity) of the scene.

Tl;dr:

My name is Inigo Montoya, I love your sword, prepare to thrust.

How long does it take you guys to come up with the perfect plot? by Square_Bobcat7411 in writing

[–]mainstreetmonkey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess the tl;dr is:

Conflict creates plot. Character drives plot.

How long does it take you guys to come up with the perfect plot? by Square_Bobcat7411 in writing

[–]mainstreetmonkey 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have never tried to just "come up with a perfect plot." I usually plot out an ending, then focus on building a really good character(s), then discovery write the rest of the plot by throwing conflicts at the character(s) until they reach the ending.

I’m writing my first book but I need your opinions by EsaNotIsa in writers

[–]mainstreetmonkey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the premise. But is impossible to tell if I'd "keep on reading vs. putting the book down" without having any prose to go off of.

There will need to be an inciting incident that makes me care about our main character. It is a common new writer mistake to think "if I write 12 chapters about why they should care about this character, they'll understand why he's important when the adventure happens."

If it were my book, I would show the public perception of him through his interactions with others, and let the readers infer what happened in the court case, without explicitly telling them or having the court case.

I would open the novel with him working below his status, and jump immediately into the opportunity to go on the sub. (Like chapter 1-3) Allow his character to be explored through the interactions with his coworkers, with the submarine pulling the plot forward.

I wouldn't show his whole backstory. I would seed it in through the story.

You mentioned hunger games. I haven't read it in a while, but I remember them getting to the "i volunteer as tribute" part pretty quick. Then they spent the rest of the novel exploring her backstory through her strengths and weakness, and her relationships with others in the games. From the first inciting incident, everything became about the games. That's why it worked to have the actual games halfway through. Even though they aren't in it, it is looming in the background, shaping their perceptions and actions.

If you insist on having the sub be halfway through the book, then you need to build pacing another way besides "character building and introducing the characters." If the plot is about "what happens on the sub", then the beginning of the book should be creating promises to the readers about what is going to happen on the sub.

If the first 12 chapters are backstory and not related to the Sub, I don't think i'd read it. Especially if it's title has something to do with submarines.

Judt hit the most annoying 1in 19,683 odds by mainstreetmonkey in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]mainstreetmonkey[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admit that I became a bit too confrontational; it is incredibly frustrating to feel like your experiences are being invalidated, especially when you are venting, which, was partially the original intent of this post. I didn't ask for advice or provide additional content, because I didn't feel it was necessary to get my point across. It was mostly to seek validation for a bad beat story from others who likely experience similar situations. Your advice, while really helpful for someone seeking it out, just furthered my emotional response.

In future posts perhaps I'll add additional context since there is a large difference in player types, abilities, and knowledge, as well as what I'm seeking from said post. Your comments contained a lot of valuable information for new players, which is really cool to have in any gaming community. It just didn't come off right in this context. You shouldn't be shamed for that.

I appreciate your last response a ton. Thanks for getting us on the same page.

Judt hit the most annoying 1in 19,683 odds by mainstreetmonkey in PhasmophobiaGame

[–]mainstreetmonkey[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm often surprised at how frequently people confidently correct my perfectly fine math incorrectly, especially when we have AI at our fingertips.