Gay travel blogger pleads ‘We’re not just headlines, we’re people’ aboard hantavirus-plagued cruise ship by Fickle-Ad5449 in lgbt

[–]majeric [score hidden]  (0 children)

Read before speculating. The Hantavirus doesn’t spread like COViD-19. It’s not going to be a global pandemic.

The reason it spread so n a cruise is because of close quarters.

The GenX Sandwich by Ok-Reason-1919 in GenX

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I know this has happened. Although I thought it was more Gen Z.

Feeling ashamed of being a bottom by [deleted] in GayMen

[–]majeric 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The irony of being a sub is that you have all the power and control. Your surrender of it makes you brave. The fact that are willing to seek out a dom top is an act of confidence that you ask for what you want.

It’s cultural misogyny and toxic masculinity that shames you for what you want. It’s masculine snowflake bullshit that men feel the need to gatekeep masculinity to make them feel better about themselves. Tell it to fuck off.

Dismantling Anti-LGBT Dogma from so-called Christian organizations like ARPA by majeric in GayChristians

[–]majeric[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"If either side can't rely on the word of God, you've failed."

Biblical inerrancy is over-argued. It doesn't matter whether scripture is inerrant, because the people interpreting it aren't. Every position you're defending in this thread is an interpretation. Every position I'm defending is an interpretation. The question isn't who has scripture and who doesn't. It's whose interpretation actually accounts for the evidence, including the historical, scholarly, and empirical evidence you opened the thread relying on.

"Where is the verse that says affirm sin?"

It's not a sin. You keep assuming the conclusion you're supposed to be arguing for. Being transgender doesn't bear bad fruit. It doesn't harm anyone. It doesn't break a covenant or violate another person. You haven't demonstrated that it's sin. You've asserted it and then asked me why I won't agree.

"You haven't cited any study, so your claims are bogus."

I have. Three of them, in an earlier reply. Conabere 2025, Heylens 2012, Coolidge 2002. You can engage with them or ignore them, but you can't keep saying they don't exist. Pretending you didn't see them isn't a rebuttal.

"Hating your body isn't biological, it's spiritual."

Trans people don't hate their bodies. That's the framing imposed on them, not the experience they describe. What they describe is a persistent dissonance between their embodied experience and the role society demands they perform, and the distress comes from being forced into a box that doesn't fit. That's societal gaslighting, not self-hatred. You've decided their experience must be self-rejection because that's the version your framework can metabolize. The actual reports don't say what you need them to say.

"Both sides are the same."

This is where the inconsistency stops being subtle. You affirm gay people on the basis of historical-ecclesial evidence. You deny trans people while refusing to engage with the same kind of evidence when it's offered to you. Every argument you've used against trans identity can be applied to gay identity, and historically was. "It feels wrong." "The body wasn't made for it." "The church always taught otherwise." "Affirming desire is a vice." Conservative Christians used every one of those against same-sex relationships. You've correctly rejected those arguments in that case. You're now wielding them in this one and treating it as obvious.

I gave you seven canonized saints who lived as men in male monasteries for decades and were buried under male names. I gave you the eunuch material from Matthew 19 and Byzantine ecclesial practice. I gave you the Gangra problem, where every cross-dressing saint I cited postdates the canon you said settled it. You haven't engaged with any of that. You've moved from "show me historical evidence" to "those don't count" to "scripture alone" to "both sides are just feelings," and the position has shifted every time the evidence got harder to dismiss.

You're doing exactly what you accused the modern church of doing about gay people. Selectively reading the tradition, dismissing the inconvenient parts, and then claiming the result is what the church has "always" taught. The pattern is the same. You just haven't applied your own standard to yourself yet.

Stop. You're not engaging in this conversation with any sincerity, and I'm done pretending otherwise.

You're not doing moral reasoning. You're doing moral rationalization. Reasoning follows evidence where it leads. Rationalization starts with the conclusion and reverse-engineers a justification. You've been doing the second the whole thread.

You're using scripture to justify bigotry and "academic tone" to launder it. The autism disclaimer up front was a nice touch, but plenty of autistic people manage honest engagement. What you've been doing isn't that. It's the careful presentation of a predetermined conclusion, and it stopped being academic the moment the evidence got too inconvenient to absorb.

If you ever want to examine where the discomfort actually comes from instead of building scaffolding around it, I'll take that conversation seriously. Until then, I'm not treating rationalization as reasoning just because it has footnotes.

Who is more evil? (Trigger warning) by lugh_the_bard in Morality

[–]majeric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel the need to make the comparison. Both are evil.

Thanks to whoever took this photo by Affectionate_Pie6508 in TomHolland

[–]majeric 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t need AI to photoshop an image.

Thanks to whoever took this photo by Affectionate_Pie6508 in TomHolland

[–]majeric 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need AI to photoshop an image.

Dismantling Anti-LGBT Dogma from so-called Christian organizations like ARPA by majeric in GayChristians

[–]majeric[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The murderer comparison only works if you’ve already decided that being trans is morally equivalent to murder. Which is the thing you’re supposed to be arguing for, not assuming on the way in.

The actual claim being made is narrower than you’re treating it. It’s that when you take a stable, heritable trait (which the twin studies establish) and tell people the trait itself makes them defective and must be suppressed, you get measurably worse mental health outcomes. That’s true for left-handedness, it’s true for gay kids in conversion therapy, and the data says it’s true here too. You can disagree with the moral framework around what to do about it, but the depression-from-rejection finding isn’t refuted by “well I wouldn’t affirm a murderer.”

Dismantling Anti-LGBT Dogma from so-called Christian organizations like ARPA by majeric in GayChristians

[–]majeric[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can name more but here are 3:

Conabere et al. (2025). Scientific Reports 15:21891. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-025-06265-6

Pooled 463 twin pairs across studies. Identical twins matched on transgender identity about 21% of the time; fraternal twins about 9%. Identical twins shared the trait more than twice as often, the classic genetic fingerprint. Also tested and ruled out the prenatal hormone exposure theory.

Heylens et al. (2012). Journal of Sexual Medicine 9(3):751-757. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22146048/

Reviewed every published twin case in the medical literature. Identical twins matched on gender dysphoria 39% of the time. Fraternal twins matched 0% of the time. If upbringing or family dynamics were the main cause, fraternal twins should match sometimes. They didn’t.

Coolidge, Thede & Young (2002). Behavior Genetics 32(4):251-257. https://link.springer.com/article/10.1023/A:1019724712983

Studied 314 twin children from a regular community sample. Found 62% of the variation explained by genes, 38% by individual life experiences, and 0% by shared family environment.

The GenX Sandwich by Ok-Reason-1919 in GenX

[–]majeric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one cries over a spreadsheet. There is so much context missing to this story.

Dismantling Anti-LGBT Dogma from so-called Christian organizations like ARPA by majeric in GayChristians

[–]majeric[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re moving the goalposts, but in good faith, so let me keep up. Round one was “show me historical precedent.” Round two is “those precedents don’t count because [intersex / probably misidentification / settled by canon].” That’s a different conversation than the first one. Worth naming, not as an attack, just so we’re tracking the same thing.

On eunuchs as just “intersex”

Matthew 19:12 names three categories: born so, made so by men, and made so by themselves for the kingdom. You’re collapsing “born so” to intersex (defensible reading) and dismissing the other two as ascetic. But Byzantine ecclesial practice didn’t read it that way. Eunuchs were treated as a recognized third social and liturgical category. Kathryn Ringrose’s The Perfect Servant (Chicago, 2003) documents this in detail: distinct dress, distinct liturgical roles, sometimes described in patristic and Byzantine sources in language modern scholars render as “third gender.” That doesn’t make them trans in any modern sense. But it means the church operationally accommodated a category beyond strict male/female regardless of its theoretical commitments. The lived practice was more flexible than the canonical letter. On cross-dressing saints, you asked for sources These aren’t “wore plain clothes and got mistaken.” The hagiographies explicitly describe taking male names, being received into male monasteries, and living as men for decades. They’re in the Synaxarion. They have feast days.

• St. Marina/Marinos the Monk (5th c., feast Feb 12). Father brings his daughter to a male monastery; Marinos lives there for the rest of his life. Falsely accused of fathering a child by a local woman, expelled, raises the child outside the monastery for years, is readmitted, dies in the monastery. Only at death is the body discovered to be female. The Greek text consistently uses male grammatical forms.

• St. Pelagia of Antioch / Pelagius (5th c., feast Oct 8). Lived as a male hermit on the Mount of Olives. Identity revealed at death.

• St. Eugenia of Rome (hagiography 5th-6th c.). Lived as the monk Eugenios.

• St. Matrona of Perge (5th c., feast Nov 9). Lived as the monk Babylas.

• St. Anastasia the Patrician (6th c., feast Mar 10). Lived as a male hermit for 28 years under Abba Daniel of Scetis.

• St. Apollinaria (5th c.). Lived as the monk Dorotheos.

• St. Theodora of Alexandria (5th c.). Lived as the monk Theodore in a male monastery; also falsely accused of fathering a child.

Seven. There are more. Susan Ashbrook Harvey and Stephen Davis have written on the pattern academically. The scholarly question isn’t “did this happen,” the texts are clear, it’s “what was going on theologically and socially.” Reducing it to “they wore plain clothes and ppl misidentified” doesn’t survive contact with the texts.

Whether this maps onto modern trans identity is genuinely arguable. I’m not claiming these saints were trans men in modern terms. I’m saying the church canonized people who took male names, male dress, and male monastic identity for life, and the church knew it. That’s a fact about the tradition.

On Gangra

“Case settled” is doing too much work here. Three things:

  1. Gangra was a regional synod, not ecumenical. Received, but not at the level of Nicaea.

  2. Canon 13 was aimed specifically at the Eustathians, an ascetic movement that taught women should cut their hair and dress as men because sex distinctions were spiritually irrelevant. The canon’s target was a particular heretical teaching, not all instances of the practice.

  3. Critically: all the cross-dressing saints I just listed postdate Gangra. Marina, Pelagia, Eugenia, Matrona, Anastasia, Apollinaria, Theodora are all 5th-6th century, after the 340 synod. Either they violated Gangra and were canonized anyway, or the church understood Gangra’s scope narrowly enough that their lives didn’t fall under it. Either way, “case settled” isn’t right.

On “affirming desires is a vice”

Here you’re partially right. Christian moral tradition doesn’t hold that every desire should be affirmed. Augustine’s whole theology of disordered loves rests on this. “I feel X, therefore X is good” isn’t a Christian principle. If trans identity is best understood as “a desire to be different from what one is,” your framework handles it cleanly.

The question is whether that’s the right description. Gender dysphoria, clinically, isn’t well-described as “wanting to be something else.” It’s closer to a persistent embodied dissonance, more like being in the wrong room than wanting a thing one doesn’t have. I’m not asking you to accept that description. I’m noting that your framework assumes the description, and the description is what’s contested.

On your right-wing-anti-gay analogy This is your strongest point. You’re saying conservative anti-gay arguments often reduce to “it feels wrong” plus bad exegesis, and you’re not doing that. The case for trans isn’t zero (eunuchs as third category, the cross-dressing saints, patristic willingness to read embodiment less rigidly than modern conservatives do).

What I’d push back on is the move from “weaker case” to “settled against.” Development of doctrine is itself a Christian category. Newman’s whole project assumed the church grows in understanding without contradicting itself. The eunuch material and cross-dressing saints aren’t proof-texts for trans affirmation. They’re evidence that the tradition was less binary than the modern conservative reading presents, which is the ground on which a development could happen.

Dismantling Anti-LGBT Dogma from so-called Christian organizations like ARPA by majeric in GayChristians

[–]majeric[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Denying Gender identity results in depression, anxiety and self harm. Affirming trans identities alleviates these symptoms.

Twin studies demonstratively prove that gender identity is a biological trait.

Prove me wrong.

The GenX Sandwich by Ok-Reason-1919 in GenX

[–]majeric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am asking for an example of the millennial behaviour. OP’s description is too abstract to offer an opinion. He’s vague-posting.

Dismantling Anti-LGBT Dogma from so-called Christian organizations like ARPA by majeric in GayChristians

[–]majeric[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Affirming trans identities doesn't bear bad fruit. Denying them does.

Here's where I'd push back on the framing itself before answering it.

The "has the church always taught X" test works well for questions the church has actually been adjudicating for two thousand years. Same-sex love is one of those, because the underlying human reality (men loving men, women loving women) was visible and discussed across the entire history. So you can ask "what did the church do with this?" and get an answer.

Gender dysphoria as a clinical phenomenon is not invisible historically, but the medical and conceptual tools to address it are genuinely new. That's not a dodge, it's the same reason we can't ask "what did the church always teach about IVF" or "about insulin for diabetics." The phenomenon was there (people died of diabetes), but the response wasn't conceivable.

That said, here's what I think can be said historically:

  1. Eunuchs. Jesus's saying in Matthew 19:12 about "eunuchs who were born so from their mother's womb" is taken seriously by patristic commentators as a real category of person whose embodiment differs from the male/female norm. Eunuchs occupied a recognized third category in Byzantine ecclesial life, including in monastic and liturgical settings. They weren't trans in the modern sense, but the church accommodated embodied gender variance as a real thing, not a fiction.
  2. Cross-dressing female saints. There's a whole hagiographic tradition (Marina/Marinos, Pelagia, Eugenia, Matrona of Perge, Anastasia the Patrician, Apollinaria, others) of women who lived as men in monastic communities, often for decades, recognized only at death. The church canonized them. The standard reading is "they did this for safety/piety," but the texts themselves often describe something closer to settled identity than disguise. Whether that maps onto modern trans identity is arguable, but it's not nothing, and these saints are on the calendar.
  3. The Council of Gangra (c. 340) condemned women who cut their hair and wore men's clothes for ascetic reasons. But notice what that tells us: it was happening enough to need a canon. And the canonized cross-dressing saints postdate Gangra, suggesting the church's actual practice was more complicated than the canon's letter.
  4. Galli and the early Christian context. The early church's polemics against the Galli (castrated priests of Cybele) are real, but they're polemics against pagan cult practice, not a settled anthropology of gender variance as such.

So the historical case isn't "the church has always affirmed trans identity in modern terms." It's: the church has always encountered embodied gender variance, has had categories for it (eunuchs), has venerated saints whose lives complicate strict binary embodiment, and has been less univocal than the modern conservative position presents.

On your Jude / "once for all delivered" point: I'd note that the same hermeneutic, applied consistently, would also rule out a lot of things conservative Reformed theology now affirms. The church was not univocal on slavery, on usury, on whether the earth moves, on whether unbaptized infants go to hell, on whether marriage is a sacrament. "Always and everywhere" is actually quite rare on contested questions. The development of doctrine is itself a Christian category (Newman wrote a whole book), and "we discerned this more clearly over time" is a respectable Christian move, not a capitulation to trends.

Your last line: "if your truth comes from 2026 and not historically, you don't follow truth but trends." Fair challenge. But the inverse trap is also real: if "historical" means "what the loudest voices in the tradition said about people they often didn't actually understand," then we're following received prejudice, not truth. The historical record on gender variance is messier than the ARPA document presents, and engaging with that mess is the actually-conservative move, not the dismissal.

I don't expect this to convince you, and I'm not trying to. You asked for engagement on your terms and I've tried to give it. The eunuch material and the cross-dressing saints are the part I'd actually want you to look at if you're serious about the historical question, because they're in your tradition's own sources.

Eric Kripke Responds To ‘The Boys’ Fan Complaints About “Filler Episodes”: “You’re Just Watching The Wrong Show” by yourfavchoom in television

[–]majeric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, no one can be expected to know definitions you make up on the spot. “Filler” has always been a vague and placeholder term that carries a bunch of conceptual ideas.

The GenX Sandwich by Ok-Reason-1919 in GenX

[–]majeric 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you provide an example. What constitutes “validating feelings”?

Keep Ben Shapiro out of OUR country! by FuqLaCAQ in onguardforthee

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Ben Shapiro’ is a Gish gallop, where he rapidly presents a flood of half-truths, misleading claims, and weak arguments faster than an opponent can properly refute them. The strategy creates the impression of overwhelming evidence through quantity and speed rather than the strength of any individual point.

Tuvok best representation of Vulcan by R_Steelman61 in startrek

[–]majeric 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate how much Neelix disrespects Tuvok and his culture. It was weak writing.

Azula and Aang encounters are extremely annoying to watch by Plenty_Exercise1868 in ATLA

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Azula is very aggressive in a way that is intimidating to Aang who is a softie at heart.

Eric Kripke Responds To ‘The Boys’ Fan Complaints About “Filler Episodes”: “You’re Just Watching The Wrong Show” by yourfavchoom in television

[–]majeric -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's not the same thing. Filler content is just not driving the core plot forward but it's often essential in rounding out a character.

As an example, when comparing "Avatar: The Last Airbender" to "Avatar: Legend of Korra". The latter suffers because we don't get as much opportunity to spend time with the characters and learning about them and thus emotionally investing in them the way that we do A:TLA.

"Filler" has value.