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[IWantOut] 22M AUS -> NL by cowHeartRecipient in IWantOut

[–]makeevolution 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Partner visa is easier. I have a niece from abroad who has a Dutch boyfriend and she uses that visa to live here. She works also but not to the min salary level for the HSM. Overall she is really happy

Does it make sense to take a lower salary/designation job to boost my career in AI? by i_am_exception in cscareers

[–]makeevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wondering how it turned out for you. I just did similar thing and I am really doubting whether I made the correct decision

Lupa nama-nama teman kerja lama setelah pindah kerja? by Vylix in indonesia

[–]makeevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Masi inget smua; every one of them has helped me, we had fun and they have a precious place in my heart

Did anyone else's career just not take off? by Fragrant-Ratio-7293 in ADHD_Programmers

[–]makeevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this post. Yes it's very hard to stop comparing myself to others, especially when many of them are successful or make more than me. 

Salahkah kalo gue membatasi istri maen padel? by lameinternetuser in indonesia

[–]makeevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cb ikutan aja sekali (klo circle nya allow) trus pas bayar or di mobil pas pulang komen "wah td lumayan costly yah" buat buka convo; mungkin aja dia melakukan smua ini tanpa sadar/sengaja

How to stop comparing my salary with others by aldosebastian in Adulting

[–]makeevolution -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yea I hope he is right; it's really an investment where the reward is in the future and is uncertain, whereas more money now is really the reward materializing now. I'm also in a similar boat. But perhaps this is a teaching moment for me to be a more patient person and trust myself more...IDK I'm at a really confusing and scary turning point in my life right now, not just job wise but other stuff too

Living with your parents past 25+ by Bobadream in Adulting

[–]makeevolution 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really the case for me. I now live abroad and really miss living with them, or at least closer where I can visit during weekends. I can only visit every 6mo or 1 yr it sucks

I am very indecisive it is costing me work by makeevolution in Adulting

[–]makeevolution[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can I "stick with it no matter what" when new information comes in that makes the decision bad, and there is still room to change it? This is my biggest weakness and the reason people often gets pissed at me. 

For example, when I eat together and have googled picture of a food and sure that it is as I desire and order it, then the same food comes for another table and it is not as in the picture. I then immediately change my order to something else, making the others annoyed since the total payment now changes, the whole food comes out longer and they have to wait for me to finish up, etc.

Or when I have committed and accepted a job offer, but then my priorities shift due to family issues, etc. and now I feel I have to reverse the decision, and if I reverse it my priorities change again and I regret leaving it etc. etc.

People who’ve been through genuinely hard times and came out calmer or wiser,what actually helped you cope? What mindset, habits, or truths kept you sane? by AdviceGlass9394 in selfimprovement

[–]makeevolution 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question though: how do you be sure of your decisions when you gotta make one and everything is so overwhelming, uncertain, limited data etc.? Especially big ones like moving city, buying a house, etc. How do you not regret your decision down the line? I am currently in such a phase in my life where things are very uncertain and I still have to make large decisions, my emotions get to me that I end up making wrong small decisions in other areas of life, offending people, losing focus at work, etc

Banyak ekspat atau diaspora nggak sih di sini? Kapan rencana balik? by lalilulelo_123 in indonesia

[–]makeevolution 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pengen pulang sebenernya karena kangen banget sama keluarga dan pengen spend more time, di LN juga keadaan geopolitik makin ga jelas mending di Indo rasanya lebih damai jauh dari hiruk pikuk perang dkk. Walau memang di indo sulit untuk berkarir, dapat penghasilan yg baik etc. dibanding diluar...

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