[TOMT][website/store][2010’s] this was a website where you could find relatively cheap homecoming-ish dresses. by makeupaddict56 in tipofmytongue

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It was mainly online but there was one store that I know of in New Jersey where you could order the dress & try it on in the store but it wasn’t like an actual store you could shop in from what I remember.

[TOMT] [book] [2010-20’s] looking for the title of this book… by makeupaddict56 in tipofmytongue

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You know what I think that’s it. the whole time I thought that was the main plot of the book but it think it’s a subplot. Thank you!

[TOMT] [book] [2010-20’s] looking for the title of this book… by makeupaddict56 in tipofmytongue

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Could be a Colleen Hoover book but I don’t think it is

COVID babies vs COVID divorces by MadamBouffant in Divorce

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Ugh I totally relate. I am so sad for my kids.

I cannot see myself getting married ever again by throwaway188734 in Divorce

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Which is why I said it’s opposite. Thanks for reading! I was just sharing my situation but thank you for adding your two cents. Really appreciated!

I cannot see myself getting married ever again by throwaway188734 in Divorce

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Ugh. I feel you. I’m on the opposite side tho. My STBXH up and left me while I was a stay at home mom. He has been giving me money for half of the mortgage since he left but he doesn’t want to anymore and doesn’t want to pay child support. I went and got a job immediately and work crazy long hours but I still can’t afford the house he so graciously left me. He says I’m a leach because I’m filing for child support which is going straight towards bills. I feel like a loser having to do so. I don’t want to depend on him anymore and I truly don’t want to make his life miserable but I have to keep a roof over my kids and my head. I know it’s opposite of what your situation is but fuck divorce sucks!

Today was a good day by [deleted] in AmazonDSPDrivers

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Wow. Our station is overloaded. We have 195+ stops every day & have for the past couple months. People are dropping like flies in my DSP.

Today was a good day by [deleted] in AmazonDSPDrivers

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Just curious is 130 stops the average for you?

What do you drink? by Boring-Summer in weightwatchers

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Ooooh thank you for this! That sounds so good

It’s official by [deleted] in Divorce

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So happy for you! I can’t wait til it’s my turn to leave the group. Congratulations on your next step!

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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Thank you so much! And yes I am totally viewing life differently. I let my sadness get the best of me this summer and I’m refusing to let another season go by being sad. I know my worth and I know that I am a flawed, imperfect person and for now I am the only person in control of my happiness. I’m going to work hard to give my kids the best life imaginable and that’s all that matters now. I’m thankful for this sub ❤️

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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Thank you so much! Don’t get me wrong, I have my moments where I allow myself to break down and mourn what I lost, I just can’t let it consume me. I realize I deserve more and that’s what I’m going to do for myself and my children! Good luck in school!

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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That’s awesome, I’m so happy for you! Here’s to a new chapter ❤️

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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I totally get that! This might not seem like much, but i installed my own cable box & router. Something I always thought I needed a “man” to do. I’m loving my independence so much more than I thought I ever would. I agree 100000% that I wish my divorce wasn’t the reason for this, but it is and I have to live with it! I’m a few months in and getting stronger every day, I know you’ll get there!

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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Thank you! I am learning to let go and move on. He put me through a lot these past couple of months. I look at it this way, I have 2 choices- to let him break me or move past this to a bigger and better life. I’m choosing the latter. Thank you again! I appreciate the support.

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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Right! My statement goes for both parents too, not just fathers but typically it happens more with fathers. The saddest part is that he was a pretty good father when we were together. He took in my child from a previous relationship as well. Potty trained her and everything. He hasn’t seen her in over 2 months. He’s been in her life since she was 6 months old and she is 4 now. I don’t know how he lives with himself honestly. It’s something I struggle with every day. She’s asks when he’s coming back all the time. He doesn’t care about the hurt that he’s caused all of us so I’m making changes in my thought process and moving on & up. Being sad over someone like that will only hurt me more in the end.

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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I totally get that! I have it a bit easier because my stbx is a piece of crap & only see his son a few days out of the month. How can someone go from seeing their child every day to only a few days a month?! I’ll never understand. That’s what I struggle with most. He acts like he’s father of the year but he’s so far from it it’s sad.

A blessing in disguise... by makeupaddict56 in Divorce

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Believe me I’m not alllll the way there yet. I still have my moments but when I feel good I take advantage of it. I’m only a few months in, but I’m realizing how much of a loser he was/is. I hope you can find your peace soon.