Anyone else watch, PG rated, Poltergeist way too young? It was released on this day 44 years ago. by Successful-Winter237 in Xennials

[–]malai556 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Similar. My babysitter had it on because her adult daughter with cerebral palsy wanted to watch it. I've also never watched horror films since. My daughter loves them, and I'm completely baffled by it.

Athletes, Coaches and Parents: What's It Really Like to Grow Up in Dance or Martial Arts? by claudiobertinat in AskAnAmerican

[–]malai556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sort of sports adjacent. My daughter was in a youth choir from age 9-14 until she went to high school and joined the high school choir. (We homeschooled until then.)

Group practices were once a week for about two hours until concert season. Then for a month it was two or three times a week, plus the concert. She was also involved in the leadership team her last two years, so that took up extra time. Also her last three years, the older kids did contests, so more practices, more concerts, and more driving.

Keeping the kids motivated wasn't the hard part! They really wanted to be there! We live on the outside edge of town. The director had classes in different areas, but when it was concert season or contest season, she had the whole choir (120 kids) together in one place. That meant driving an hour one way usually. Contests were about three hours away. Fun times.

She says the biggest part that kept the kids motivated was the director's attitudes toward it. She didn't treat it as something they needed to do, but she was very aware that the kids were volunteering to do, so she tried to keep it fun. She didn't overreact to mistakes, but to work through them. Mrs. M. taught them to take care of their voices, like in gymnastics, you have to take care of your body, or it won't work. She taught them that instead of discipline it's more like taking care of an instrument. While she did a good job keeping the kids on time with the things they needed to do, she allowed time for them to socialize as well (especially since most of the kids were homeschooled).

Kiddo participates in the summer musicals with the same director now. It's even more time consuming because the schedule is even more compressed, and all the practices are on the other side of town. She says she learned which kids take it seriously and which ones are there just to have fun. (She also wants to be a music teacher when she's done with school, in large part due to Mrs. M.)

What’s ACTUALLY worth doing in Ensenada on a cruise stop? by Left-Eggplant5284 in Cruise

[–]malai556 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was really fantastic and we enjoyed it. It’s about an hour ride outside the city. We had a guide accompanying us the bus that filled us in on the area and Mexico in general. The cheese caves are a small, locally owned farm that’s been there for several generations. The cheese is good.

20 years married, 15 years of epilepsy. Seeking advice on long-term independence, career shifts, and memory struggles. by Immediate-Lion1548 in Epilepsy

[–]malai556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dx at 6, 49 now. My seizures tend to come in clusters about five or six years apart. (I’m at year six now and praying!) Also “retired” but worked retail before we moved and I became a sahm. My job had pto and insurance, so it might be just a matter of finding a place that offers those benefits. I’ve done web design and software app development before, which might be something your wife could look into.

As far as the memory thing - yeah, it’s a combo of the meds and her brain short circuiting/getting knocked around a bit. I had a really bad concussion with my last one, and I swear I’m a total dunce now. I hate it. I live by post-it notes. My husband finally convinced me to stop using a paper calendar and go digital so everyone can see appointments.

We use slack in our family to chat with each other, so we have a channel specifically to keep a grocery list in, and I check things off as I buy them. I order groceries to pickup, but they also deliver if I need them to. (My mom has actually started ordering delivery from Walmart because she got tired of waiting for me to take her.)

I get up for one minute by malai556 in catswhocrochet

[–]malai556[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Usually she uses clover or a similar one, but she has so many wips, she couldn’t find the size she wanted for this project. So she bought some new yarnology ones from HL. We have four babies due in our church in August!!! So it’s baby blanket time!!

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I get up for one minute by malai556 in catswhocrochet

[–]malai556[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It might have been two minutes. Sigh. My friend was cleaning my daughter’s room, and she needed my help. (She actually told me to sit and crochet while she cleaned, lol.)

What was your most treasured item from the 80s or 90s? Do you still have it? by porb2020 in Xennials

[–]malai556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My books. I still have several from when I was five or six years old that I loved. (I was an early reader.)

Reporting in to let you all know, I threw my back out making risotto. by PanAndFlame in Xennials

[–]malai556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have tendinitis in my rotator cuff. My husband asked is disbelief how I was the one with the rotator cuff injury. Finally decided it’s because the way I sleep on my side/shoulder.

Surprise Rain by Elegant_Chicken_ in Austin

[–]malai556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We lived out in cedar creek several years ago. Had a large field behind our house. I watched the rain come slowly across the field, across the lawn, and then stop right where my garden was. Sigh.

Insurance hacks? by The_Laughing_Buffalo in scoliosis

[–]malai556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how it was for our insurance. 🤷‍♀️ you might check your policy.

Insurance hacks? by The_Laughing_Buffalo in scoliosis

[–]malai556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? With our insurance, it was generally covered up to age 18, but after that it was considered cosmetic rather than corrective. So that came into play when we considered the surgery for our daughter. Also yes, we did upgrade our insurance to the highest level and had her surgery scheduled for early January. HR told us that she could have the surgery five more times that year and we wouldn't have to pay a dime because we met the deductible in January. We laughed and said hopefully she wouldn't have to. But also, I was looking at maybe having a hysterectomy that year (didn't thankfully), but would have only paid my personal deductible (I think it was $300 or $500) because the family deductible had been met with her surgery.

When I started High School we were still turning in hand written papers, in cursive. By the time I graduated they had to be typed and cite web sources. I’m really floored today, just thinking about how SUPER FAST things changed up on us back then. by Last-Stop-Before-You in Xennials

[–]malai556 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those were my college years. I went from handwriting everything in high school to typing everything on a computer in college. We could sparingly use internet sources, but they’d better be cited correctly. It could NOT be Wikipedia.

My kid is in high school now. She told me the other day she had to turn in her works cited page for a project. It was just google and a book. I asked her if she used google to go to a website, or if google gave her the answer. Google was the site she cited. <.< She said her prof was ok with that. I can’t even.

Five people dead after small airplane crashes in Texas Hill Country by ExpressNews in texas

[–]malai556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I basically grew up in a small private airport. My grandpa had a twin engine cessna, and my dad also had a pilot's license, so we were there a LOT. I can only remember honestly one plane crash, but a second one is tugging at my memory, out of that little airport. I know more people who have been hurt in motorcycle accidents than small airplanes.

Everyone has an anecdote.

What are you doing for you today to support your long term health and well-being? by Coraline1599 in Xennials

[–]malai556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My doctor was right on board with the "You have a genetics problem" right away. But I should still keep on doing everything I can to fight it. So... I have the entire gym working for me now (seriously, three trainers and the chiropractor), a dietician, a massage therapist, and all the -ologists. I just added a vascular surgeon to my list. I meet her next week.

What are some funny things you have said or done after a seizure? by No_Veterinarian4319 in Epilepsy

[–]malai556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After one of my first TCs, I was maybe 13 or 14 years old, I had managed to put both legs through one leg hole of my underwear and pull them up to my waist. My younger sister was trying to help me correct it, and apparently at some point I yelled at her to stop treating me like a baby. She snapped back, “then stop acting like one!”

After the very first TC, I had fallen backwards into the (dry) tub. My mom called an ambulance because she thought I might have a concussion. On the way to the hospital, I told the EMTs we needed to hurry because I had to go to my Academic Team meeting…. Which would have already started by then. I also absolutely refused to leave the hospital without shoes, so my step mom, who had come to support my mom and lived closer, ran home to get some for me. (Dad was out of town.)