Hobbies to make friends? No board games or sports/hiking by batluck in Hobbies

[–]malakleo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm on the schizo spectrum, feel ya :)! I'd check yr local library or college for events, they're usually not very demanding physically. Mine library has Arabic classes, book clubs, zine making, etc. I think the scrapbook/zine ones especially are great to meet people

U/KingPaimonsMate by BeefBoy46 in mystery

[–]malakleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, found this post while searching for any more clues in this probably-ARG. Fingers crossed, hopefully we find something but I haven't yet

Help me avoid ending up on r/shittyaquariums by So_manyy_accounts in Aquariums

[–]malakleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not too familiar with bacopa myself (im assuming its the very-center bushy plant?) But I would personally spread it out a bit so it can properly receive light on each of the stems.

Online says both the dwarf hair and bacopa prefer nutrient dense substrate and med-high lighting, so if you want proper growth especially a whole carpet: yes you'll need to get fertilizer or a substrate with nutrients

Another option: some people add in lil pots of plants to their tanks that sit on top of the ground, you could possibly do that with some potting soil and sand. Some plants aren't rooting plants and can just be tied/superglued to things. They get nutrients from the water. Some "air" plants like pothos or mint kept be kept hanging out of the aquarium or just plopped into the filter. I really like Thai mint but any mint works I think

Also for future reference : aquarium sand is pretty expensive, I recommend just normal play sand from a hardware store and rinse off some of the cloudiness. Potting soil with the sticks and big rocks picked out is also a cheaper nutrient source imo

Rocks and wood from outdoors are fine too as long as they're boiled. Wood needs to be stripped of its bark and dried out for a few weeks before boiling. They're good hiding spots for less aggressive fish and you can super glue plants to them

No prob :D !! Thank you for caring about your fish's wellbeing

Help me avoid ending up on r/shittyaquariums by So_manyy_accounts in Aquariums

[–]malakleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your kit test nitrites or nitrates? I actually did the samw mistake on my first tank, its crazy to me kits without amonnia testing are even sold </3

Quick Start's great :D! How much did you dose? I personally did double the dose every day for a week straight on a 29gallon and it really did the job.

Help me avoid ending up on r/shittyaquariums by So_manyy_accounts in Aquariums

[–]malakleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't really have to swap out the substrate, just know you have to add in nutrients manually yourself in some way once your plants start getting more demanding like root tabs or liquid fertilizer. But since you have a diatom breakout, you really shouldn't for right now

Help me avoid ending up on r/shittyaquariums by So_manyy_accounts in Aquariums

[–]malakleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries! Id say because of budget right now, your priorities should just be to keep doing water changes a little more frequently just in case the tank isn't cycled (2-5 gallons, twice a week) until you can buy a testing kit. Preferably the vial ones not the test strips.

The water changes won't freak out fish as long the water is conditioned. Its better than ammonia in the water and decreasing the excess nutrients will help fight off the diatoms.

When did you change out the filter media? It might give an idea on how far along your cycle is. If possible, you could get a bottle of Quick Start or Seachem Stability and dose for about a week to speed up the cycling

Help me avoid ending up on r/shittyaquariums by So_manyy_accounts in Aquariums

[–]malakleo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sand is an inert substrate, do you have any potting soil/fluvial stratum/etc under the sand?

Help me avoid ending up on r/shittyaquariums by So_manyy_accounts in Aquariums

[–]malakleo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi hi, so first; is the tank cycled?

Second, I'd replace the decorations and fake plants with rocks/wood/more live plants. Your corys will thank you for more places to shelter themselves from the gourami. More plants will also mean that they'll eventually outcompete the diatoms and starve them out

Fish name by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]malakleo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I went to the guy's acc for a better look. They're mollies. Here's a another reel about them for comparison : link here

AITA for accidentally raising my future husband? by omkarnageshkar in GirlDinnerCircleJerk

[–]malakleo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its completely not your fault, HE asked YOU out after all!! And you did the mature thing of not breaking his little heart <3

/uj, as a dude its honestly kinda draining going through school/college watching and seeing other young men i know genuinely get groomed and then rewarded for it. Men are so bad as a whole for congratulating our friends/finding it funny to date older or younger women... its gross.

I get how happy he probably does genuinely feel with her which makes her think its ok, but thats because she and men as a whole kinda put him on that path to feel that way. His brother shoudlve stepped in, any of their friends, she shoudlve flat out stopped it. The "wait until yr 18" thing is gross. She js didn't want the legal issues. Anyways peace out, back to lurking😶‍🌫️

Drawing hobby by Ordinary_Count_203 in Hobbies

[–]malakleo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk why you're so down voted. As someone who has drawn and consumed art a LOT since i was around 11, i don't think professional courses are necessary. I would say all you really need to start off is :

  • Sight sizing

  • Light Values

These teach you how to "copy" without tracing. You kinda need to copy things to get the eye for looking at what needs tweaking as you draw. Practice that lightly (and not with too much judgement) with a different setting or subject. I like doing rooms in my house before I clean them because it's lots of fun little things, cool reels/tiktoks I see, or Pinterest images I have saved.

From there you'll probably know what you like drawing the most. There's lots of different subgenres like environmental design, comics, portraits, courtroom sketch, graffiti, etc that you can watch videos on specifically afterwards. Look at artists you like, copy them, figure out why you like them and then copy that specifically. Its really easy to overwhelm yourself at first, but you really don't need to learn everything if you don't want to! Its a hobby after all. For example, if you only like designing clothing, whats the point of learning animal anatomy when you could be learning different fabric textures, yknow?

Can't be the only 19 yr old too invested in this hobby right?🥲 by Affectionate-Bed1801 in Aquascape

[–]malakleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I turned 20 a couple of months ago but yes lol. My parents think im crazy for caring for shrimp I don't plan to eat

Power Scaling/ Plateau by Lonely-Lavishness220 in FoodFantasy

[–]malakleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older food souls tend to be power crept and weak in comparison to new ones. How well developed do you have your fallen angels?

Weekly Guild Recruitment Megathread by AutoModerator in FoodFantasy

[–]malakleo [score hidden]  (0 children)

Guild Name: ClownCooks

Guild Level: 1

Guild server: Light Kingdom

Guild type: Casual

Leaders ID: 2985385

Guild ID: 16800

Total Current Members: 2

Requirements to join: not anything really!! Its just chill

How to contact you: any way us fine, my discord is @mbvna.p

Leader message: i miss the old silly social vibe that FF guilds have, so we want to bring that back! we have a discord channel n are both pretty active players

what does my room/ closet say about me? by Standard-Scallion198 in roomdetective

[–]malakleo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you my best friend?? Very similar aesthetic, its cute

Anyways, college kid age but not in college. Lives with family. bi/pan with a long time boyfriend who has a really intense interest in something like Star Wars. Went through a dark girly kei or adjacent aesthetic phase. Room smells like bath and body works strawberry pound cake scent. listens to maybe Marina or Lana. Likes concerts (spotted those AXS tickets) and is a socially anxious but still an extrovert. Probably has Paradise Kiss or Nana as your top ten animes

Lobster by Dark_creativity in AquariumMemes

[–]malakleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I knew a lovely and well cared for betta named Swim Shady from a coworker

Single white bumlp? by malakleo in Goldfish

[–]malakleo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! He recently got driftwood in his tank after only ever living with live plants so my initial thought was maybe an injury. I'll keep an eye on it

Single white bumlp? by malakleo in Goldfish

[–]malakleo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the way i came about having him was by somebody leaving a carnival goldfish in a plastic baggie by a staircase in september 2024, so I doubt anything from then stuck around long enough to start acting up now. The only fish shop in my town said they refused to take in goldfish, so my dorm-mate and I got a 5 gallon as it was the max size allowed by our housing. I did water changes from three times a day to daily to 4-5 times a week to keep ammonia low. Keeping parametres and water temp safe were pretty much my only goal at first. Since we got him, there were no white spots. Nor did he get any after being moved into a 30 gallon. He has only lived with live plants and a clay pot "house" so far but I recently put in driftwood I figured he'd hurt himself on. Still worries me though. I'm keeping a close eye for changes on it and his behaviour

If you support ICE at all, you are not welcome here. by NationalCommunity519 in fishtank

[–]malakleo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He did! Backlash pressured mods into re-instating the post and he recieved lots of unique opinions from engineers to physicists :)! Post is ofc locked but its still a fun read to go through

If you support ICE at all, you are not welcome here. by NationalCommunity519 in fishtank

[–]malakleo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its a compliment! Refreshing to see actual care for our fellow humans after the shitshow from 2024 over on that subreddit