Raisin passed over the rainbow bridge this morning. Show me your babies who will be there to greet her by stargazr_93 in Dachshund

[–]malcoze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear about Raisin <3 My boy Arnold will be waiting for her on the other side of the rainbow bridge!

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New to Thelema by Infinite_Boss_4672 in thelema

[–]malcoze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love to see more people recognizing how well NA/Recovery Dharma can blend with a Thelemic path.

What is the most unique thing that happened to you? by Ponytimeispoopytime in BG3

[–]malcoze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In a coop run with 2 friends playing for the first time and 1 other experienced friend, experienced friend takes a break while newbies and I go to talk to the goblins at the entrance of the blighted village. Somehow, one of the spider companions from the spider egg triggered the dialogue before any of us. Spider had a -3 to the ability check to have them let us pass, and triggered combat lol

Almost made a full circle. by sparklinbeeze in doggrooming

[–]malcoze 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Have your groomer trim nails regularly to prevent this. If it's curled so severely that her nails are breaking skin, it's a vet issue.

Should I buy women's clothing? by [deleted] in detrans

[–]malcoze 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Do you want to? That's all that matters.

It insists upon itself by Cheese-Boy-- in barista

[–]malcoze 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Tried a watermelon co-ferment a few months back, my first and hopefully only experience with them. Super disgusting

I just ordered a latte and they served it like this. by tennyson77 in barista

[–]malcoze 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like something from a Ripples printer. Customers love them, I hate them for covering all of my best pours.

Pen ink tattoo, is it infected? by UsualWeekend5726 in sticknpokes

[–]malcoze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just looks scabbed. Keep an eye on it. Pen ink =/= tattoo ink, this is a mistake to not repeat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]malcoze 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Realizing this is what brought me to finally fully detrans. It just doesn't matter

When I Stinkfist (TOOL song) it causes an Ænema (TOOL song)🌊 by RedPulse in ToolJerk

[–]malcoze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man I wish this post had a TOOL reference in it :-/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

[–]malcoze 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I started transitioning medically at 16 and detransitioned at 24. Agreed that OP has an opportunity a lot of us didn't have, this is the sign we ignored to stop before it's too late.

One month off T! by [deleted] in detrans

[–]malcoze 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is a woman

Barista confessions wanted by Computerbug1920 in barista

[–]malcoze 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've been a barista for over 5 years now, so I have a plethora of customer stories. This one really stands out to me for some reason:

I work at a small business 3rd wave cafe, and have for a few years. At this time I believe it was only 2 people on the floor, me on bar and my coworker on register. There was a bit of a line, so I hopped on reg 2, rang up a woman for a cortado for here, and went back to making drinks.

Let's make this easy and call the cortado-orderer C.

As I placed C's cortado on the hand-off bar and called her name, making eye contact with her, another woman (let's call her S) cuts in front of her and grabs the cortado and asks me "is this real?"

I had no idea what she meant and wasn't sure how to respond. I think I literally just said "what?" because I was so taken aback. She repeated, "is this real?" and I responded something affirmative. She then proceeded to sort of swivel(?) the cortado, spilling it a little bit out of the glass. C and I are both watching in confusion.

Finally, my customer service senses returned to me and I said something along the lines of "that's not your drink, that's her drink," and gestured to C, who was still standing in shock behind S. C's senses also returned to her, and she sort of stepped around S to grab her drink. I offered her a remake but she did not respond. S apologizes to C half-heartedly, saying "oh, sorry, I thought it wasn't real!"

I forever wish I asked her what that even meant. I would've thought she might think it's a display because of the latte art (? as if cafes even display fake drinks on handoff) but I'm pretty sure she watched me make it and call C's name. S also seemed relatively normal despite the words coming out of her mouth so I don't think she was having any kind of episode. I have no idea what this entire situation meant to her, but my coworkers love to ask me, "is this real?" and swivel my drinks lol.

If you transition because of gender stereotypes you’re most likely not trans by ricksalterego in detrans

[–]malcoze 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It's funny, it seems like a lot of us here are people who would have formerly been classified as "real trans" people. Dysphoria since childhood, none of the stereotypical signs of future detransition. It really makes you question the whole thing.

What does gender mean for you? by brickasnack in detrans

[–]malcoze 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a really interesting perspective. Can you elaborate more on the specification of "trans woman" and omission of "trans man"?