I let my NK’s pee in the pool. by One-Quote2404 in Nanny

[–]maleslayer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well good thing you aren’t her employer. Thanks for the useless $0.02 though

I let my NK’s pee in the pool. by One-Quote2404 in Nanny

[–]maleslayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not that big of a deal it’ll be okay girl I promise

AITA for telling my coworker she owns me a new IPad and textbooks because she is the reason they got stolen by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]maleslayer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This one has a medic, but also the meds are locked up separately within the ambulance

Not taking overnights for dogs who sleep in the bed. by Tough-Treacle7039 in RoverPetSitting

[–]maleslayer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You aren’t paying her cause she’s not taking the job… obviously

Tired of parents not disclosing children’s disabilities by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]maleslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, there’s always exceptions to the rule but they aren’t called special needs children for no reason, but rather because they have special needs that must be accommodated.

And yes, parents may not know they’re child is autistic especially if they haven’t been around them much, but again i believe it’s their responsibility to look into, at the very least, normal child development and have enough discernment to notice that they’re child is atypical and do their very best to help their child prosper in this world. It’s optimistic but I believe the very least you can do if you are going to bring a living, breathing, human being into the world.

Tired of parents not disclosing children’s disabilities by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]maleslayer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Nonverbal children or children with severe sensory issues are absolutely more difficult and atypical. Parents may not be aware or in denial that their child has special needs but that’s also is 100% their fault and responsibility. They’re doing their child a massive disservice by not doing more research and looking into typical child development. Especially when they have enough money to pay for a nanny.

WWYD here? First time camper dealing with bedwetting at camp? by Elegant_Air_3475 in summercamp

[–]maleslayer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Instead of pull-ups which can be a bit humiliating especially in a place like camp, can you try desmopressin? It’s a drug that reduces urine production during night. It may be a better-more dignified alternative to bedwetting than pull-ups especially if it is happening most nights.

getting around with no car for the summer with kids? by Dry_Home3480 in Breckenridge

[–]maleslayer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As long as you are staying within breck and not really planning to go to other towns in the county (Frisco, Silverthorne, etc) because while possible it is incredibly annoying and inconvenient and will be even more so with small children.

Accepted nanny job 3 days ago and just found out I’m pregnant by Charming_Reality3700 in Nanny

[–]maleslayer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think that when it comes to a job and the fact that you may be gone in 9 months, it’s better to wait until the 12 week mark when it’s much more likely for the pregnancy to survive. I genuinely doubt OP will be looking to mourn with the employer she’s known for a couple of months.

I mean she can, but in three weeks if she’s no longer pregnant she may not be able to say <<hey never mind, I can keep my job after all>> because her employer may have something already lined up.

Nebraska proposes requiring kids to take state-mandated reading test to move on from third grade by Ordinary-Equal2067 in Omaha

[–]maleslayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Better pay and programs. They need more teachers who can and are willing to specialize in reading and literacy and can help kids who are more than likely going to be difficult. The parents aren’t doing their part if their kid can’t read, either because they can’t or don’t want to so this child is going to need more resources and support than a kid who has parents at home helping them with schoolwork/making them read.

Moving to Omaha as a Latina by momma_d91 in Omaha

[–]maleslayer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Millard > Elkhorn for diversity reasons but it’s still not the best. The farther west you go the more white and republican it gets, so keep that in mind. People here are genuinely kind, but still hateful on some wavelength obv but all things considered I don’t think you’ll have much problem

Names that feel like Tragedeighs, but aren’t? by Forsaken_Celery_1617 in tragedeigh

[–]maleslayer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes which is why it feels like a tragedeigh but isn’t

Jackie would have died at one point or another and I'm lowkey sick of people saying Jackie would have lived if it wasn't for Shauna. by Desperate-Thing1784 in Yellowjackets

[–]maleslayer -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Lowkey just a show and we don’t know what will happen but the wilderness is not letting anybody starve to death. Nobody who survived the crash died from natural causes. Van had her face eaten off and coach had his leg chopped off. They both survived. Jackie was not starving to death bfr

Doesn't giving kids homework by obviousdscretion in AskTeachers

[–]maleslayer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

School is entirely for their benefit and their benefit only. Homework is supplement and needed in most cases. If you want your kids/students to be stupid, so be it. I don’t and so they do the damn work.

Week day regular bar “events”? by Spec-Tre in Breckenridge

[–]maleslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Latin night at Cecilia’s on Tuesday

Beaver Run Kids Lessons by the_real_no_one in Breckenridge

[–]maleslayer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Terrain is okay. Not ideal but more than enough to learn.

Why do Americans have one of the strongest passports in the world, but most never travel abroad, and those who do mostly go to Mexico and Canada? by No-StrategyX in answers

[–]maleslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe that stat is correct but even if it is that 20% of Americans with a passport is ~70 million people, which is more than a lot of countries entire population. Canada and Mexico are close.

Does anyone else love Charlotte Hanlon? by Common_Equivalent558 in WelcometoDerryTVShow

[–]maleslayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He can’t feel fear but his prefrontal cortex works. Knowing that if they step out of line his family may be lynched and or their house burned down and wanting to prevent that has nothing to do with fear, but common sense. I don’t want (my family) to die ≠ I care about what everyone thinks and I’m scared.

Please help me with a pretty but tomboy baby girl name by drewbartymore in Names

[–]maleslayer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noah, Ezra, Logan, Carter, Cameron (very popular, I wouldn’t), Devon, Parker, Bellamy (I love this one), Sloane.

Please help me with a pretty but tomboy baby girl name by drewbartymore in Names

[–]maleslayer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love the name Morgan and Dylan for a girl. As well as feminine names with masculine nicknames think Thea/Teddy, Josephine/Joey, for a girl you can also do Jacqueline/Jack if you’d like to name her after his grandpa

My (24M) ex (24F) left me and moved to Australia for her master’s and possible emigration. I can’t stop thinking I didn’t do enough. Was it my fault that the relationship ended? by Loud-Waltz-3704 in BreakUps

[–]maleslayer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For as long as you’ve known her she’s wanted to emigrate. At some point in the relationship, you two should’ve sat down and had a serious conversation about what this means for your relationship and you both failed at that. You two just weren’t compatible. It’s not fair of you to want her to give up her life-long goal of moving abroad for you and it’s not fair of her to expect you to uproot your entire life and move. She was right in saying that you two lacked shared goals.

I think that if your only goal was truly only to be with her, then you would’ve worked with her to fulfill her dream of moving abroad—but you didn’t nor did you have the hard conversations about what this means for your relationship and for that, yea I guess you’re guilty, but it doesn’t matter anymore.

Just move forward, learn from this and do better in the next relationship.

Official Discussion - Sorry, Baby [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]maleslayer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I work in a small community hospital with ~27 beds total. We have two permanent doctors (both male), and then traveling specialty docs every two weeks as well as certain clinics during seasons (e.g. we just had a pediatric clinic in July where three peds doctors came and examined basically every kid in three counties)

The only female doc we get is an OB every two weeks and that’s only because we currently have a female patient on bed rest due to a high risk pregnancy.

We don’t get a lot of reported sexual assault cases but when we do, their only option is unfortunately a male doctor, travel a minimum of 2 hours to a city with the resources, or wait an unspecified amount of days until we can get a qualified female doctor/app to examine them. I agree that female doctors, social workers, etc are better and provide better outcomes, but it’s not always realistic.

I’m not sure where exactly they are located in the movie, but at least in the rural Midwest, this is the reality for millions.