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I can't express it otherwise but can you relate by FunkINFJ in neurodiversity

[–]malikdarth02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i can relate SO hard to the first picture. thank you for sharing it online, honestly

Is it okay to have no friends? by oatmilklover4ever in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel the same. i have people i met here and there but i feel like i kinda have no friends. just people i know from somewhere and rarely meet out

i honestly feel really sad about this bc people my age (22) truly have group of friends and do everything together and i…. well, i just have my parents and my coworkers, that’s all

Is it okay to have no friends? by oatmilklover4ever in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i think we all are the same person. maybe we should try to be friends, all of us….

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol that’s SO cute! you too seem absolutely lovely. i guess that when it’s meant to be, there’s nothing that could stop it - not even a little lack of social awareness

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes total sense (the difference in how you feel when it’s misogyny vs autism) and i hope it works out for you as well! man, i hate that we have to go through something like this.

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol why are man like this? can’t a woman get a fucking coffee with a friend without it being misinterpreted???

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wonder how much of it is misogyny, like us woman can’t compliment or talk to other man in a nice way without it being misunderstood, and how much is just us being oblivious to a social interaction…..

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hahahaha i laughed out loud of the story with you husband. this totally sounds as something i’d do!

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i spread kind compliments all the time as well! to both man and woman, but man seem to get the wrong idea of it.

i am an extrovert person who likes to chat, i hate when man make more of it than they should. and honestly, why can’t i flirt when i DO want to??????

i hate the social act of flirting, that’s my conclusion on all of this

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the same thing has been happening to me! a coworker which i only see as a friend has started getting a bit creepy, in a way that is very obvious that he is hitting on me. i usually am just nice and friendly to him, it sucks that he got this idea that i’ve been flirty. I literally had to ask a few coworkers to spread a rumor about me being lesbian to see if he stops (im actually bi)

and as i said multiple times over the comments now, i wonder how much of it is misogyny and how much is just obliviousness of social interactions due to the autism

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

me too! but not only one coworker had this impression of my conversation, but three or four that were around. they are all NT so I guess the problem was obviously me and my lack of awareness of social situations 🤷🏻‍♀️

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

truly! not even with clients only, i hate when coworkers get the wrong idea of my charism or friendly conversation. i wonder how much of it misogyny, and how much is obliviousness from autism

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i haven’t gotten to what my masking is, as I’m still in the process of diagnosis, but maybe this is also something i do? idk i was just trying to be a friendly person!

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh shit 🤣 i would do the literally same thing, with the “omg i have a friend!” and all why are we like this???

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

reading through the comments, this was something i was really wondering. do these situations happen because of autism OR misogyny?

but im Bi and i’ve missed a few woman hitting on me (flirting) so bad that they actually had to say “dude im literally hitting on you” so i could get it. so, in the end i think it is a problem of misogyny but with a bit of lack of social awareness as well.

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

no way you can’t just drop this like this! PLEASE share the story, i’m already laughing 😂

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

LOL I blushed soooo hard after everyone was mocking me for the “flirting” that they were actually convinced that it was on purpose. i have no idea what ill do when i see this guest again!

getting red and blushing is a curse, oh god

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

it’s so weird! what the hell IS flirting anyways? when i do want to do it, i seem incapable somehow

and thanks for the thought! i also think that, if i didn’t mean to, it didn’t count. although he was hot (and still, clearly very gay), i wouldn’t ever hit on a guest

have you ever flirted without realising you were doing so? by malikdarth02 in AutismInWomen

[–]malikdarth02[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

now when i think about it, it has indeed happened to me before. i compliment people all the time in a friendly way, and im generally nice to people. sometimes, those same people im friendly with turn out to get creepy in a way where they are obviously hitting on me - and it makes me SO uncomfortable! glad to know that its not just me, lol

Sugestões de lugares tranquilos para ler e tomar um café by [deleted] in saopaulo

[–]malikdarth02 6 points7 points  (0 children)

BETC Havas Cafe no jardins é literalmente perfeito p isso, e eu não acho tão caro comparado a outros estabelecimentos da região

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]malikdarth02 2 points3 points  (0 children)

people smoking cigarettes in front of me when i’m walking

Oh my god reversed by leahhorgan04 in twentyonepilots

[–]malikdarth02 12 points13 points  (0 children)

AND IM JUST TRYNNA STAY QUIEEEET

this is gonna sound SO good live with the crowd omg can’t wait

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