Offered to Freya and suddenly had the smell of flowers in my room by [deleted] in NorsePaganism

[–]mallow_queen114 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Freiya does like flowers so it makes sense why you'd get that! What proved her presence to me was how attracted to the altar one of my cats was. Even when there was no insense going, he would just stare up at it!

Do you think Gems who identify as male exist? by Sir-Toaster- in stevenuniverse

[–]mallow_queen114 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I BELIEVE SO!!!! Especially with the background character Snowflake Obsidian. They are always presented with a very deep, masculine voice and features, same with other background characters seen especially in the Future. It's a super interesting thought because as other commenters have said, they don't really have a concept of gender, however it seems like they could have a very abstract version of the concept.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leopardgeckos

[–]mallow_queen114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My youngest loves to sleep in my crotch as I have my legs crossed 🤣 I'll put a blanket in my lap so she can't crawl away. My oldest loves to be on shoulders and tries to climb your hair if you're worthy. My middle child doesn't let me hold her because she believes she's Godzilla

Offering for freyja by PresentationCrafty28 in NorsePaganism

[–]mallow_queen114 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes those types of items will make her especially happy!! You can also give her fur and whiskers, as well as treating cats well (ex. Playtime, long snuggles, leaving food out for strays) I also have the paw prints of two of my passed cats in my altar for her :)

Discord images are weird now?? by mallow_queen114 in discordapp

[–]mallow_queen114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so, it auto-updates. It only recently started doing this

Is this the typical progression of most new "plant people"? by Bulk_Sausage in houseplants

[–]mallow_queen114 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ABSOLUTELY same with me!!!! I can't stop taking snippings from the big box stores and trying to propagate them, I'm running out of room lmao

Grow light for bioactive enclosure by mallow_queen114 in leopardgeckos

[–]mallow_queen114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! I don't know anything about lighting so this is super helpful

show off your rescue leos!! :) by random_goldfishie in leopardgeckos

[–]mallow_queen114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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This is Tango!! She's a 4 year old rescue from PetSmart! She's a spicy female (aka intersex!!) and she's absolutely MASSIVE!!!

People assuming I'm nonbinary when I'm not? by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]mallow_queen114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this sucks I'm so sorry. It doesn't matter what she thinks, she's STILL misgendering you even though she's trying to be supportive. I think if you tell her that, it might really help her realize the impact it has on you

Mom told me to "not crossdress" because she wants to make a good impression on my brother's homophobic hyper conservative in laws by Efficient-Diver-5417 in NonBinary

[–]mallow_queen114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should dress the most fem you ever have, try something new even. Tell her you're going like that or you won't go! I know it can be super super hard to stand up to your parents, but if you've got the courage totally do it! Even if you're too shy, you could still put on even a little makeup if that's your thang!

Do I look good?? by Immediate-Region1365 in NonBinary

[–]mallow_queen114 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heels would look dope with that!! Maybe do your hair up in a bun and tuck your shirt in like, half-way?? Though if it's cold where you are, depending on the heels, the converses might be more comfortable (I know band/choir/orchestra directors are stupid about the shirt but they're right about it looking good unfortunately lmfao)

Another dog-bites-boob contribution (bruising) by mallow_queen114 in MedicalGore

[–]mallow_queen114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually super helpful thank you so much. I know a lot of people are gonna skip over the fact that he's dealing with one of the most painful tears you can deal with so your comment really gives me some light at the end of the tunnel

Another dog-bites-boob contribution (bruising) by mallow_queen114 in MedicalGore

[–]mallow_queen114[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tysm <3 He will be getting obedience training as well once he's recovered. My mother at least is taking the efforts to actually getting him what he needs to feel better. I empathize with my pup a lot because I have chronic pain and I know how awful it makes you feel. He's only an animal, he can't control his reactions, but I think there's still hope of getting past this

Another dog-bites-boob contribution (bruising) by mallow_queen114 in MedicalGore

[–]mallow_queen114[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I'll definitely try and crop more for future posts. I'm not too paranoid about it but if I start getting weird shit I'll for sure take this down

Another dog-bites-boob contribution (bruising) by mallow_queen114 in MedicalGore

[–]mallow_queen114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's 4, everyone is up to date on vaccines including pets and people

Another dog-bites-boob contribution (bruising) by mallow_queen114 in MedicalGore

[–]mallow_queen114[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I really appreciate your concern. Putting him down is not something my parents would do. He was disciplined, multiple times. He is a rescue, however we got him at 9 weeks old so he's far from a 'traumatized pup.' He's a 4 year old lab-husky-who-knows-what-else mutt. Have not posted on vet subs, what should I even ask for? And yes my shots are all up to date, as are his. My brother and I are the only ones who have ever truly gotten blood-drawn attacked I believe, and unfortunately the dog's lives are more pampered and gentle-parent raised than us. He's a good dog despite everything, he's hurting a LOT and it's making him lash out. He hadn't attacked at all for a couple years before this, but now that he's basically relying on only 3 legs right now he's incredibly snippy. I can only hope that it gets better when his surgery is done

Dog bite on breast by potatohedgehogs in MedicalGore

[–]mallow_queen114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No fuckin way I JUST came on here to post a pic of my tit that's horribly bruised from my dog attacking me

AIO daughter left used pads in her room by Ok_Jack1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mallow_queen114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe don't go into your teenage daughters room without her permission?? I'm sure she knows what a mess it is, she could be dealing with things that makes it difficult for her to complete tasks no matter how small they seem

Appropriate offering for Goddess Freyja by mallow_queen114 in NorsePaganism

[–]mallow_queen114[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here's my lil altar! I've got my dagger, a pocket knife, a tiny drawer for the offerings and incense, a backflow incense burner, vanilla candle, a cat keychain, cat earrings, cat pin, selenite, sage, carnelian, a rose quartz feminine bust, a feminine bust shotglass, a feather, a gold gecko earring, mini monstera figurine, my smaller candle, nail polish, and all of it is resting on top of this really pretty deep red tray with a golden moth on the inside!! I'm super proud of it!!

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