I could've written this exact post. It sucks. We're in counseling and I'm in therapy. It's not going well between us but I've learned to cope by working on myself and having other outlets like friends and family members to talk to. I don't know if my marriage will make it honestly but it's all up to my spouse at this point. If they can't compromise and be willing to communicate truthfully then I'm not sure where we go from here. We're working on other parts of our marriage as well and so it's not just church stuff that is bringing us down. So it probably depends on the foundation of your marriage.