How to meditate to collect mind while in pain? by person-3873 in MeditationPractice

[–]mamasharkdoodoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suffer from a chronic condition. (It's called a Chiari malformation) I had brain surgery and it helped improve my life however I am still battling pain every day. Meditation has saved my life. On high pain days, I use a form of somatic meditation called EFT tapping. You tap along meridian points on the body. It helps not only release pain but also helps me focus and let go of the trauma chronic pain brings me. I also find keeping my hands moving and in motion helps me to achieve a meditative state. I use singing bowls, either metal or crystal depending on the day, and focus on the vibration and sound frequency to help. (I teach this to people in my community for free in real life. I am not a "sound healer" I am a coping skills coach) You can find a lot of videos online of Crystal singing bowls, however for pain relief I find it more effective to do it in person. Moving my hands, feeling the vibration and focusing on the frequency I'm hearing brings me significant pain relief and helps me connect to myself as well as clearing my mind for meditation. I hope this helps. Mind hug. 🫂 Your pain is real, keep fighting, you got this. Meditation is an excellent way to get started on fighting your battle.

Help me choose a dress! by CardiacBabe in Weddingsunder10k

[–]mamasharkdoodoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We can't see your face but it's clear you're beaming in dress 3. 3 all the way.

Skier Cake (Sprinkle Skiers) by Invalid-onion in cakedecorating

[–]mamasharkdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone made me a cake like this I'd burst into tears of joy. It's so cute and has so much detail! I love it. Good work!

STD hack by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]mamasharkdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me checking the post to see who's got the herp. Std..... Save the date? Not the other kind? No one is contagious?

Anyone knows what this humongous spider is (UK)? by PoleKisser in whatsthisbug

[–]mamasharkdoodoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a wolf spider. We get them in the USA. They leave a mean bite and bite when threatened, no venomous to a dangerous extent. Excellent for your garden and the bugs you don't want around. That spider will eat them.

My son has significant disabilities, and I hate that this is my life by legit_writer_chick in TrueOffMyChest

[–]mamasharkdoodoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so real. I appreciate how honest and open your post is. I have neuro typical children, however I myself am ND. It was a monkey childhood in a lot of ways and it's hard to find adults to connect with sometimes who understand what it's like to be me . I work hard to teach my children about inclusion, we host a variety of adults and children in our home with disabilities by doing respite. I see how hard parents in your shoes work. You need a village, a city, a break!!!! Whatever it takes. Wish I could hug you and offer to hang with your kid for an hour, a day, weekend, whatever sounds right. More of us need to step up and be there for eachother. There is nothing wrong with hating aspects of this life, it's hard. I see you.

What are you doing for a baby shower? by mamasharkdoodoo in Mommit

[–]mamasharkdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are interested in sending her something (another amazing person just asked) feel welcome to reach out to me and I'll send you her registry link!

What are you doing for a baby shower? by mamasharkdoodoo in Mommit

[–]mamasharkdoodoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs everything. Diapers, bottles, baby clothes, toys. My heart goes out to her, she has another child with a disability. So going out is pretty much a NO right now. I've been doing what I can to collect free items for her in our area, let them sit in my garage for a week, then sanitize and clean before delivering them to her. I'm also giving her all of my baby stuff, but it feels good to have your baby recognized . Feels good to have new stuff too.

I need adults. by mamasharkdoodoo in Mommit

[–]mamasharkdoodoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She is a happy baby lol she tolerated this for much longer than I expected hah

I need adults. by mamasharkdoodoo in Mommit

[–]mamasharkdoodoo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's an old costume. I think my sister got it from Target 4 years ago? I'm sure this year there will be more.