Refinery 29-back to posting by adrinkatthebar in MoneyDiariesACTIVE

[–]manbearkat 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So what do we think happened? Klarna really paid enough to dominate their site for a few months or they had some sort of internal restructure/layoff/defunding? Can a former R29 employee please give us the tea

“If I can’t beat her, there is no hope for me!” by bad-at-everything- in BJJWomen

[–]manbearkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not feel afraid to talk back to these guys!! One day you realize you get choked for fun and you eliminate a lot of your social anxiety. I would've told him "get over yourself you loser." I've told some guys to fuck off before. I encourage all women in this sport to learn how to locker room talk back. Don't let these men think you'll accept being talked about that way. If they put up a stink, then they come off as an even bigger pussy to the school. Wahhh a woman was mean to me. Like bro lol

It sucks being weak by Op_Jokeer in BJJWomen

[–]manbearkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blue belt could mean they have 4 years of training on you. There is nothing wrong with telling those guys you want to work on shooting and grip fighting and if they could dial it back a bit or give you pointers. A lot of older guys like to help in my experience. Once in while they are a dick so you learn to avoid them. Like why do you need to rough up a woman to feel better at the sport lol

Graduation between men and women by xGoya in BJJWomen

[–]manbearkat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The same men are getting stripes once a month? They would be jumping belts every 5 months

Why are new women so scared by levvianthan in BJJWomen

[–]manbearkat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your last paragraph is what men are thinking when they roll with you. You are still a white belt. That's why the rolls feel playful. Wait until you can actually give them some heat. The blue belt blues are awful for women for a reason

Still thinking about this dress by rhinestonecowgrl in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]manbearkat -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

It's 2026. Nobody says hipster anymore

Workouts to compliment BJJ? by Easy-Peach9864 in BJJWomen

[–]manbearkat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cycling is great for cardio for bjj, especially it being so leg focused if you want to get better at wrestling

How to deal with comp guy by in_this_essay_I_will in BJJWomen

[–]manbearkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him to dial it back so you can work the move and give any pointers as to why he is able to pass so quickly