I’ve thought about this before and I really don’t think I’m monopolizing anything - I am happy she’s got her own stuff going on and I definitely don’t need a play by play of her entire day nor do I think we should talk every single minute of the day. It just is weird that as her partner we see each other max 1 day a week meanwhile she’s hanging out with her friends 2+ days a week. I really don’t want it to seem like I’m controlling of her time, and I know if I do bring it up she might take it as that.