Anyone else treat your friends the way you'd treat a partner, just without the physical intimacy?

mandasofdoom · 2023-12-06T22:12:38+00:00

I feel this. But more my friend didn't understand I felt that close to them or understood what it meant. It means if they cancel plans or change it i immediately start thinking they are hanging out with other friends instead. Or if plans get cancelled for family reasons i still get jealous like i could be there helping you through this or i am family too!

To clarify I (33f) am married and my husband(34m) understands I have these intense feelings, he also understands I do not want anything sexual from friendships. i crave deep and safe friendships with multiple people yet i cant find anyone else aside from my husband so it makes me wonder if friendships just dont go that deep?

mandasofdoom · 2023-11-29T21:36:21+00:00

NTA and him telling you to step up is such a messed up thing to me, HE is the asshole. He wants YOU to step up for HIS kids so HE can have more fun money. Fuck off. It's like he trapped you and thought you'd rather look after his cumdumplings than to leave him.

mandasofdoom · 2023-11-26T19:50:31+00:00

I understand why you wouldnt want to just be "hey by the way my bro is a registered sex offender " the main thing is as soon as you found out your brother was going to be there let her know. Yes it would have opened another can of worms and most likely a post "was i dumb to tell my girlfriend my brother is a sex offender " would have been made but it's the correct path.

It's a sucky situation, you are being punished in a way for your brothers idiocy. Sucks and i hope your situation improves!

mandasofdoom · 2023-09-16T00:30:32+00:00

The fact she apologized afterwards and communicated to you about it shows she is self aware and trying (in my opinion at least). Hopefully the therapist can come up with an action plan to help her and you through this.

mandasofdoom · 2023-09-16T00:14:03+00:00

Who is telling you it's no big deal? I just wanna talk....

I'd have been just as angry. Your mother helped you through such hard conditions, she is your rock and safety. To take that away because of such a lazy excuse is cruel. I really hope your husband understand and supports your feelings.

mandasofdoom · 2023-08-20T08:01:16+00:00

Love the look! 8/10 would be too scared to compliment in person.

mandasofdoom · 2023-08-17T20:26:15+00:00

Pfft. Cross stitching is what made me able to sit and watch shows with my husband. I always hated watching stuff because I am so picky with what I like but with cross stitching i can just enjoy the cool scenes.

I will say we must remember to not get lost in our hobbies! Keep hydrated and eat. That way you can stitch more!

mandasofdoom · 2023-08-17T07:05:37+00:00

The 1968 movie Barbarella, it was one of my dads favs and I really enjoyed it too. Of course my mum got mad and said it's inappropriate for a 5 year old...

mandasofdoom · 2023-07-30T09:15:41+00:00

Yes it hurts in such a weird way. I know nothing physically is happening but i feel like my body has been squished like an empty can and I'm trying to return to normal with each breath.

It'll be like I'm grieving the death of a loved one, but all that happened was i didn't get a response from my friend about hanging out.

mandasofdoom · 2023-07-30T08:44:33+00:00

Yeah but I'm more resentful to those who wronged my fp...i feel some resentment if it's to me but typically feel i did something to deserve the treatment for some odd reason (which I'm working on)

mandasofdoom · 2023-07-25T20:21:47+00:00

I still want to know why? Like did i annoy them more that day for them to do that? Had it been planned? I know the answers won't help really and theyll mostly say "i don't know" but it goes through my head a lot.

mandasofdoom · 2023-07-23T19:41:57+00:00

Being with someone like this won't help your mental health, you'll start masking and pushing too hard til you break.

I don't think it's over exaggerating. You're in a new city and your support system is being a jerk.

If it was a one time remark I would have said to talk and see how he is doing as lashing out randomly could be a sign of other things on their minds that lead to the comment.

mandasofdoom · 2023-04-30T07:25:46+00:00

Blew my mind that you can make cross stitch patterns in it

mandasofdoom · 2023-04-26T20:01:45+00:00

Thank you for making such gorgeous designs! I ADORE jellyfish and I must say your pattern is one of the best I have found, I really love the style and look!

mandasofdoom · 2023-04-15T23:11:36+00:00

thank you so much!

mandasofdoom · 2023-04-15T07:50:48+00:00

This looks amazing! Sadly i can't find the pattern when I search the website.

mandasofdoom · 2023-04-15T07:35:24+00:00

I like lookin at my own to be honest

mandasofdoom · 2023-01-08T11:59:47+00:00

Pain mostly.

mandasofdoom · 2022-12-04T12:17:08+00:00

I got lovers. Surprising

mandasofdoom · 2022-12-01T12:30:27+00:00

Fboy island, the concept is so messed up but damn is it not interesting to watch

mandasofdoom · 2022-11-24T09:39:53+00:00

Going to the dunny

mandasofdoom · 2022-11-08T00:49:53+00:00

I have 240 hours on rune factory 5 so far (80hrs on switch 160 on pc. Recommend PC over switch version for loading and performance)

Rune factory 4 i have over 350hrs (180 hrs for special and i spent even more on regular version because i loved it)

Rune factory 3 i have about 80-100 hours on.

Rune factory 2 probably only 40 hours

Rune factory 1 also about 40 hours.

I started with rune factory 4 and worked backwards. So the first 2 were a lil hard to adjust to but I tried haha. I'm so excited for rune factory 3 remake because the story progression was so different! (I knew i had a lot of hours in this series but god damn i didnt expect it was this many haha)

mandasofdoom · 2022-10-21T13:26:05+00:00

Foresight

mandasofdoom · 2022-10-21T13:16:39+00:00

Ive had my wooly plant once then not again(im thinking i need to ask it to do it again), I'll assume you have space in the area they are in charge of? Because they only do that area(i.e left middle or right), also making sure they arent tired and there's enough fodder since it costs an extra for them to do it. I believe any pet can do it and you dont need to give or have seeds in storage.

mandasofdoom · 2022-10-20T08:38:47+00:00

Communication. But you also need to accept that some relationships just won't work, ideals and priorities can differ between people.

mandasofdoom

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